connie_hopeful
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Thks all for e feedback
Sorry to hear that..is yr friend ok physically during tt happen to childbirth?If it's early stage it will be absorbed by the body. Second stage it will bleed out. If it's too big U have to leave it in there and give birth together with the dead bb. Third scenario is what my friend did.
Sorry to hear that..is yr friend ok physically during tt happen to childbirth?
Will e 3rd scenario cause infection in e uterus?
Thank u. I think i know which decision to make le.Not really close friend so I didn't ask much but I think is ok cos the other bb is fine.
connie, at which stage are u at now ?sorry recently bit busy, didnt keep track of the forum discussions. stay positive and jia you ah!Thank u. I think i know which decision to make le.
Hello ladies, I just had a discussion with my doc thru email and felt that I can start my next fet asap if I want to.
He has been very nice and informative telling me to do day 2 embryo Trf rather than blast as my embryo doesn't survive well in lab environment. He also suggest I do a natural frozen cycle since I hve regular period.
I still have 12 frozen embryo so should be able to have 2 to Trf after thaw.
So praying that my menses come these few days so I can get myself ready for mid March trf.
Sorry if I appear to be indecisive but because of my busy schedule and will be out of town for quite some time thought if I can I'll try again otherwise will need wait till Yr end.
So now praying hard my AF come quick.
Thanks Chloe_ngCorrect me if Im wrong but I think ivf not advisable to eat tcm meds? Dunno how the tcm reacts with the hormonal meds. Accu is good though
I buy from iherb the now food brand. But take note that it cause later o for me so it doesn't suit everyone. It lengthen my cycle by at least a week!I haven tried taking royal jelly. Took chicken essence, folic, vit c, lrd in my previous cycles. Thinking of taking royal jelly too.
Anyone has any recommendation which brand ?
Thanks Oceandeep78Yes, not advisable to take Tcm med cause not sure how it will interact with the hormone jabs. Acu should be ok.
at my age, i will definitely transfer two lor...i don wan to go tro the process of tww twice , taking the hormone pills and injections twice ( fet also need at least one injection and hormones pill is also needed) esp when both r not successful. and if i only have two embryos to play with, it wil give me mre reason to transfer two. i will worry if i keep one for fet next time round, it will not survive the thaw and i will be left with nothing to transfer . not everyone will kena twins . however if i am shiro ger, i will transfer 1 cos she already has a pair of twins and it has proven that it was not difficult for her to conceive via ivf. anyways, at my age, no dr will ask if i wanna transfer one or two. all will transfer two for me hahaha.at least for me, one less decision to make lo
Actually,i have a question. What happens in e event we choose 2,if in e event 1 survived and 1 doesnt. Does the 1 that doesnt survived stays inside for 9 mths also or will it bleed out naturally? Or need to take it out via op?
If not, it stays inside will it cause infection?
Sounds cruel as they are both fresh n blood.
I have just booked appointment with Dr Zhao from Raffles. Hope she's experienced with ivf patients.
Hello Kitty,
thanks so much.
Yes, i am with Prof, i saw him in the operations theatre.
he has yet to start his business conference, i think it was in Mar and he will be on leave in May
@connie_hopeful sadly, the unimplanted embryos (which we call our babies) doctor said it will flushed out as mensus. Which it did mostly for us when we BFN.
Only GodHi ladies, anyone know which day will implantation take place after FET?
(Sorry ladies ! TMI alert)
I think I'm paranoid.
Yesterday when I wiped myself, (as usual there's blood as I'm still having my AF from negative BT) I noticed 2 tiny bloody dots (slightly long-ish oval, maybe 2-3mm each) on the tissue paper. Well they could be blood clots/stains, I dunno. (Tmi sorry ) I tried to smudge the clots with the tissue but it somewhat remained the same shape and not 'squashed'.
My paranoid self is wondering if they are my embies.. ;( I could be totally wrong. But it freaked me out for some time.
Old aunty,thanks. I am at simulation stage of growing e eggs. So far so good. Pray n hope for e best.connie, at which stage are u at now ?sorry recently bit busy, didnt keep track of the forum discussions. stay positive and jia you ah!
Babydusty,hugs. Hope u have better luck soon@connie_hopeful sadly, the unimplanted embryos (which we call our babies) doctor said it will flushed out as mensus. Which it did mostly for us when we BFN.
Old aunty,thanks. I am at simulation stage of growing e eggs. So far so good. Pray n hope for e best.
Haha I'm always confused with all these counting! Seriously! My tcm said within 72 hrs wor which is 3 days...Only God
The expected implantation dates r around d7pER to d12pER.. work backways to day after transfer depending on your transfer date/FET embryo age.
I will only go for IVF post review in end of March. Will plan for FET but then probably the schedule will be in late April/ May already.Thanks monies, my menses super heavy in the first 4 days, compare to my normal days. Maybe next cycle will back to normal. You planning for FET? Just got my bill today.
Agree with u.. When my ET was postponed, he said that he feels I will have at least 2 embryos to transfer and they are looking good. True enough I transferred 2 and freeze 1, although it ended in MC. But then the embryo may look good on the outside, whether it will end up in live birth no one can see that a test is done which I think sg don't allow right?@old aunty , i am also not that young to start with le. And i am not so lucky with that twin pregnancy. MC at week 10 and had to go through emergency washing. Anyway, my hubby always say if i have the choice, go ahead to transfer 2. Lol... my fren who is also with Dr THH said he is quite accurate whenever he gives comments on her embryo quality. Those few times when he said quite promising, she actually strike, though 1 ended up in MC. Sistas here who are with him may want to ask him for opinion on embryo quality on day of ET.
Agree with u.. When my ET was postponed, he said that he feels I will have at least 2 embryos to transfer and they are looking good. True enough I transferred 2 and freeze 1, although it ended in MC. But then the embryo may look good on the outside, whether it will end up in live birth no one can see that a test is done which I think sg don't allow right?
Oic. Ya i think NUH test earlier and KK usually later. Wow that is 4 days different.Haha! Yes yes BT on 9mar.
I also dunno why yours is much later. I'm with NUH. Perhaps NUH test earlier?
Sounds like a good plan. Who is yr dr? So nice to do email discussion with you.
Babydusty,hugs. Hope u have better luck soon
where do u go for such massage?
Hello ladies, I just had a discussion with my doc thru email and felt that I can start my next fet asap if I want to.
He has been very nice and informative telling me to do day 2 embryo Trf rather than blast as my embryo doesn't survive well in lab environment. He also suggest I do a natural frozen cycle since I hve regular period.
I still have 12 frozen embryo so should be able to have 2 to Trf after thaw.
So praying that my menses come these few days so I can get myself ready for mid March trf.
Sorry if I appear to be indecisive but because of my busy schedule and will be out of town for quite some time thought if I can I'll try again otherwise will need wait till Yr end.
So now praying hard my AF come quick.
Tsf,Anyone here stimming with Pergoveris?
Hi yyw82, may i know how soon your doc let you go ahead with fet? my BT was 17 Feb but appointment date with doc is 9 April. I requested earlier date, she say dun have.
I think somehow will help in blood circulation.Fm my mum, she call this batam lady to come massage once a mth. but it always didnt come exact on my mensus so i just go for massage for the shiok. Haha
Connie, all the best.Old aunty,thanks. I am at simulation stage of growing e eggs. So far so good. Pray n hope for e best.
Girls, I've got my bt results. Negative. Very disappointed cos it's my 2nd fresh and i transferred 2 blast and thus was harbouring higher hope. But since menses came few days earlier, i am sort of prepared of the outcome. Dr appt in late March.
We hope that our coming fet with our 2 frozen blasts will be successful.
For now, I'll indulge in food and drinks which I avoided during the cycle...
And i would like to ask sisters who have got bfp now or in the past, what kind of progestogen did you use? I wd like to use as ref for my fet. TIA.
Girls, I've got my bt results. Negative. Very disappointed cos it's my 2nd fresh and i transferred 2 blast and thus was harbouring higher hope. But since menses came few days earlier, i am sort of prepared of the outcome. Dr appt in late March.
We hope that our coming fet with our 2 frozen blasts will be successful.
For now, I'll indulge in food and drinks which I avoided during the cycle...
And i would like to ask sisters who have got bfp now or in the past, what kind of progestogen did you use? I wd like to use as ref for my fet. TIA.
Girls, I've got my bt results. Negative. Very disappointed cos it's my 2nd fresh and i transferred 2 blast and thus was harbouring higher hope. But since menses came few days earlier, i am sort of prepared of the outcome. Dr appt in late March.
We hope that our coming fet with our 2 frozen blasts will be successful.
For now, I'll indulge in food and drinks which I avoided during the cycle...
And i would like to ask sisters who have got bfp now or in the past, what kind of progestogen did you use? I wd like to use as ref for my fet. TIA.
Hugs ... Take care & rest well...Girls, I've got my bt results. Negative. Very disappointed cos it's my 2nd fresh and i transferred 2 blast and thus was harbouring higher hope. But since menses came few days earlier, i am sort of prepared of the outcome. Dr appt in late March.
We hope that our coming fet with our 2 frozen blasts will be successful.
For now, I'll indulge in food and drinks which I avoided during the cycle...
And i would like to ask sisters who have got bfp now or in the past, what kind of progestogen did you use? I wd like to use as ref for my fet. TIA.