So my husband shoved me in the bed just now after an argument about our daughter. She's 3 months old, im a working from home mom so I need to take care of her and working at the same time. As we are worry about having a full time maid will create lots of dramas so we still postpone to that plan. We have a part time cleaner though and looking for a part time nanny.
In short, both of us are quite exhausted from taking care of the new born beside our full time job. All of our family members are overseas and couldnt come over to help us.
He did say he's sorry a few times after shoving me. But I just couldnt believe he did that to me so I told him do it one more time and i'll divorce him.
Now im in my bed room and he's in the living room with the baby.
We've been married for 3 years and dating for 2 years before. He's been very good to me and never done anything like this before, argument yes, but not physically hurting me.
I suspect it's because we didn't have sex for a year (we didnt during the pregnancy as I was too tiring and after the baby was born, we are even busier)
Honestly, im not sure how to deal with this. Im still not ready to talk to him yet but its hard when we have a baby to attend to. I guess he's just too tired from lacking of sleep and sexual activities and he's not meant to push me but still, he did it.
Im very confused now and don't know what to do ans still shock from what's just happened. Would appreciate everyone's feedback/ advice. Thanks.
In short, both of us are quite exhausted from taking care of the new born beside our full time job. All of our family members are overseas and couldnt come over to help us.
He did say he's sorry a few times after shoving me. But I just couldnt believe he did that to me so I told him do it one more time and i'll divorce him.
Now im in my bed room and he's in the living room with the baby.
We've been married for 3 years and dating for 2 years before. He's been very good to me and never done anything like this before, argument yes, but not physically hurting me.
I suspect it's because we didn't have sex for a year (we didnt during the pregnancy as I was too tiring and after the baby was born, we are even busier)
Honestly, im not sure how to deal with this. Im still not ready to talk to him yet but its hard when we have a baby to attend to. I guess he's just too tired from lacking of sleep and sexual activities and he's not meant to push me but still, he did it.
Im very confused now and don't know what to do ans still shock from what's just happened. Would appreciate everyone's feedback/ advice. Thanks.