memy
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I feel so exhausted in this marriage. My hb spend all his free time in front of his pc after work/ wkend. In all 3 yrs of married, we only went for a short holiday to nearby country, n that is also not really where i like to go. Other off days or PH, he jus wanna stay at home basically. When i asked him to go for an outing to relax, he will give lots of excuse n comment.
I believe he is secretly close to another younger female married colleague. He told me b4 that she is always complaining abt her hb n i believe he also complains abt me too. Yes, my hb take up the lion share of our family, n he says he works hard for the $$. Im slightly more outgoing than my hb, n starting to feel suffocated.
I won't be surprised if he tells this female colleague a one sided story that all i know is spend $$ n request for holidays/ outings. My purpose is so that we can spend more time n relax with each other, n also for ttc. As u know, we havent done so for a long while. He rarely initiates any activities. Do u think its too much to ask for? or have i married the wrong person?
To increase our chances, i have recently bought him multiv & also 2 other vitamins for lower BP. He sometimes scoffs at them n refuse to take it consistently, saying that he don't nid all this vitamins, n jus de-stress playing game on his pc. He doesn't wan to go tcm nor do any fertility test as well. So far, all the checkup things is done by me & me, ie tcm, ultrasound scan etc. He says he has no time to go nor accompany me
Im feeling frustrated n unhappy with this life. I sometimes dream to be by myself n free. He thinks jus cos he takes up the lion's share of our finances, he doesn nid to grow the emotional part of the r.ship. N the half truths stories he tells others, jus breaks my heart.
im thinking whether is it better if i just walk out, n start fresh, but having 2nd thoughts cos of age. I'm no longer happy, at wit's end. Sigh
Any1 have advise?
I believe he is secretly close to another younger female married colleague. He told me b4 that she is always complaining abt her hb n i believe he also complains abt me too. Yes, my hb take up the lion share of our family, n he says he works hard for the $$. Im slightly more outgoing than my hb, n starting to feel suffocated.
I won't be surprised if he tells this female colleague a one sided story that all i know is spend $$ n request for holidays/ outings. My purpose is so that we can spend more time n relax with each other, n also for ttc. As u know, we havent done so for a long while. He rarely initiates any activities. Do u think its too much to ask for? or have i married the wrong person?
To increase our chances, i have recently bought him multiv & also 2 other vitamins for lower BP. He sometimes scoffs at them n refuse to take it consistently, saying that he don't nid all this vitamins, n jus de-stress playing game on his pc. He doesn't wan to go tcm nor do any fertility test as well. So far, all the checkup things is done by me & me, ie tcm, ultrasound scan etc. He says he has no time to go nor accompany me
Im feeling frustrated n unhappy with this life. I sometimes dream to be by myself n free. He thinks jus cos he takes up the lion's share of our finances, he doesn nid to grow the emotional part of the r.ship. N the half truths stories he tells others, jus breaks my heart.
im thinking whether is it better if i just walk out, n start fresh, but having 2nd thoughts cos of age. I'm no longer happy, at wit's end. Sigh
Any1 have advise?