pmiyakie
New Member
Hi I need some advice.
Few weeks ago I accidentally gone thru my hb whatsapp and has found out there are a few flirting msgs between him and a female colleague . The woman who already married with two teenagers wrote : miss u. Can help me to tabao food. My hb in return replied her back "miss u too" back.
The 2nd message came few days later " today no need to buy food for me. But I miss u." My hb in return reply back. "Miss u. OK. "
Can anybody tells me is there anything wrong with these msgs? I confronted my hb immediately and be told me they just kidding or playing. Most of his other colleagues also received similar msg from this woman. I don't think is a minor thing, my heart was in pain when I saw his reply. I told him 写者无意读者有意。 I question him and ask him why he need to reply miss u back and told him that although u don mean anything but the other party might mistaken yr reply and might think you Want to continue further with her. This is how office secret affairs start.
I myself think that woman 6th sense is very accurate. Deep inside me I felt that she has feel for my hb.
I have talked to my hb and has agreed that he will not do it again. But till now I still unable to put down. I keep thinking why in his msg he wrote miss u. I still unable to accept this. I trust my hb and he is a good father and hb. He don't drink he don't smoke he took care of the household chores and after work he came back home.
Do you all think I am over sensitive. To me it's a mental betrayal although I know there isn't anything between them. But I can't help myself. I am unable to think straight. I couldn't sleep and been imagining a lot of things.
Few weeks ago I accidentally gone thru my hb whatsapp and has found out there are a few flirting msgs between him and a female colleague . The woman who already married with two teenagers wrote : miss u. Can help me to tabao food. My hb in return replied her back "miss u too" back.
The 2nd message came few days later " today no need to buy food for me. But I miss u." My hb in return reply back. "Miss u. OK. "
Can anybody tells me is there anything wrong with these msgs? I confronted my hb immediately and be told me they just kidding or playing. Most of his other colleagues also received similar msg from this woman. I don't think is a minor thing, my heart was in pain when I saw his reply. I told him 写者无意读者有意。 I question him and ask him why he need to reply miss u back and told him that although u don mean anything but the other party might mistaken yr reply and might think you Want to continue further with her. This is how office secret affairs start.
I myself think that woman 6th sense is very accurate. Deep inside me I felt that she has feel for my hb.
I have talked to my hb and has agreed that he will not do it again. But till now I still unable to put down. I keep thinking why in his msg he wrote miss u. I still unable to accept this. I trust my hb and he is a good father and hb. He don't drink he don't smoke he took care of the household chores and after work he came back home.
Do you all think I am over sensitive. To me it's a mental betrayal although I know there isn't anything between them. But I can't help myself. I am unable to think straight. I couldn't sleep and been imagining a lot of things.