Rameena
this is the link for the group. the one you joined, was a test page.
http://www.facebook.com/groups/adoptioninsg/
All Fb members request to join the FB group just approved. Sorry, admin kind of busy.
the lady who had Pm me her email id
[email protected] , please do accept the friend request., so that i can add u to the group, or you can directly join the group. (link on earlier part of this post)
TO All other parents- to- be
I dint want to open up, until rameena opened the topic. I seriously endorse her idea.
Its reg going on vacation / taking our own time to start looking for BB.
When i was also in this stage of adoption, i was very much exhausted / mentally drained out. My case was totally different. I was a PR, & my country embassy letters was not accepted by MCYS & we had numerous problems ( not as a couple) to take this adoption process forward. Then we decided to become s'poreans & then things started to move smoothly. Admist all these problems, soon after the HSR got through, we wanted to wait till our citizenship formalities were over, so that it would be easy & we could have sometime for us as a couple.
But GOD had his own terms. Our agent showed my son's pic & all those things that happened after that are part of his scrapbook.
So, I would suggest, those people, who have had your HSR approved, please be ready to take in the baby anytime after it. Getting ur HSR approved, is like, you're in ur 40th week of ur preg'cy & the baby can pop out anytime. We wouldn't know, what is instore for us, when we take our own time for looking for a BB.
I might sound quite conservative, I'm a asian aferall
All these come from my experience & after seeing a couple of my friends who are still 'shopping'