dreams0409
New Member
had just finish my confinement and my CL is aunty Fen (Bliss Confinement). I wld strongly advice people not to engage her as CL.
The 1st few days, she didnt cook hot meals for me, all the meals served were cold including my longan drink. When I asked her, she say it is ok to drink cold which is nonsense. During confinement everything we eat should be hot. She just keep on adding water to my longan drink. I had to keep reminding her I want hot food. When I finish my drink, she doesnt pour for me, I had to get it myself. She also didnt prepare hotwater for me to wash up. Food was being cook the same way everyday. Soup for lunch n dinner always the same until I had to tell her to change. She always like to carry the baby even the baby is not making any noise. I caught her falling asleep at night while feeding my baby. I was so piss off, so end up i have to look after my baby day & night, as a result I didnt get a good rest during my confinement For my bath water, she will boil the water the day b4. She is lazy, she doesnt cook for my family, my parent-in-law still have to cook/packet food for her. She likes to listen to my family members talk and keep giving her opinions which I think its rude. She doesn't help me with the housework also. At first I wanted to change CL but I was afraid the replacement will be worst. The confinement was really a nightmare for me.
The 1st few days, she didnt cook hot meals for me, all the meals served were cold including my longan drink. When I asked her, she say it is ok to drink cold which is nonsense. During confinement everything we eat should be hot. She just keep on adding water to my longan drink. I had to keep reminding her I want hot food. When I finish my drink, she doesnt pour for me, I had to get it myself. She also didnt prepare hotwater for me to wash up. Food was being cook the same way everyday. Soup for lunch n dinner always the same until I had to tell her to change. She always like to carry the baby even the baby is not making any noise. I caught her falling asleep at night while feeding my baby. I was so piss off, so end up i have to look after my baby day & night, as a result I didnt get a good rest during my confinement For my bath water, she will boil the water the day b4. She is lazy, she doesnt cook for my family, my parent-in-law still have to cook/packet food for her. She likes to listen to my family members talk and keep giving her opinions which I think its rude. She doesn't help me with the housework also. At first I wanted to change CL but I was afraid the replacement will be worst. The confinement was really a nightmare for me.