Hi, im a young mummy and need advice. Im currently staying with my in-laws. My husband is the only child in the family. We couldn't get a flat as we are still 20 (this yr then turning 21) and we do not have enough funds too. My mother-in-law will say things very nasty, when she's in a bad mood, she will urge us to move out etc. I really do want to move out but my husband don't want. He said he wants to cut down on cost. But he never feels how its like to be staying in their house. I don't understand but I'm very stressed staying at there. My mil say that I'm very lazy etc but i dont see why as im a full time looking after my son, she also said she won't want to look after my son too. My husband working but after work he will play computer/handphone games but will sometimes help out too. (mil also nvr say him) I just want to move out because i hope my husband can learn to be independent too and not being dependent on his parents