hope someone can advice or help me out here..
my boy is 15 months now, has been fully breastfed since day one. both my and my hubbys' parents have passed away, we basically learn most of the childcare techniques via our neighbor or Google (yes google...)
i rarely get more than 5 hours of uninterrupted sleep since my baby is born. every 2 hours he will call for my breast. i thought things will get better when he grows up but now i am at my wits end.
i feel i am a bad mother/parent because even though i am a full time SAHM, i cant really take good care of my boy, every month he will have flu/cough/vomitting and visits to the PD is also taking a toll on our finances.
my husband works in a regional role and there are periods of time where he wont be at home, we have a helper at home though, but when it comes to sleeping time , my baby will only cling onto me.
we tried to let the baby Cry It Out, but nothing seemed to work
for the past 3 weeks , my boy hasnt eaten more than 3 mouths of porridge , he will just spit out whatever food we offer him, even his favourite snacks or fruits.
prior to that, he can finish one normal rice bowl of porridge within 20mins . the problem is i dont know who to go to, my relatives are all overseas or dont have children yet, my husband is an orphan so he doesnt have any relatives he knows.
i feel like jumping off the window and maybe my boy will be in better hands.
my boy is 15 months now, has been fully breastfed since day one. both my and my hubbys' parents have passed away, we basically learn most of the childcare techniques via our neighbor or Google (yes google...)
i rarely get more than 5 hours of uninterrupted sleep since my baby is born. every 2 hours he will call for my breast. i thought things will get better when he grows up but now i am at my wits end.
i feel i am a bad mother/parent because even though i am a full time SAHM, i cant really take good care of my boy, every month he will have flu/cough/vomitting and visits to the PD is also taking a toll on our finances.
my husband works in a regional role and there are periods of time where he wont be at home, we have a helper at home though, but when it comes to sleeping time , my baby will only cling onto me.
we tried to let the baby Cry It Out, but nothing seemed to work
for the past 3 weeks , my boy hasnt eaten more than 3 mouths of porridge , he will just spit out whatever food we offer him, even his favourite snacks or fruits.
prior to that, he can finish one normal rice bowl of porridge within 20mins . the problem is i dont know who to go to, my relatives are all overseas or dont have children yet, my husband is an orphan so he doesnt have any relatives he knows.
i feel like jumping off the window and maybe my boy will be in better hands.