Jen: dont bother abt ur mil!!! Shes ignorant and stoopid. As long as ur hb understands, its enough...i think shes so mean now, but wait u see when ur bb is out, even tho its a ger, she will still come and see one la. Good, also, u dont haf to listen to her how to bring up ur own child, im sure she will meddle even more if ifs a boy