(2012/02) Feb 2012
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alicia80
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joy> cool down 1st...hate not good for your health n bb...just forget it. After I see another doctor, he said 1st 2 month do should be fine. then my worries go away ready. but most of mummies told me non of their doctor ask to do pap smear during pregnancy. and don't ofend this Dr la since LSnTYL like her, maybe she not bad le.
pinkz
ya lo.. i go to her cos near my workplace..
but she like not very encouraging..
1st scan then ask me wash.. lucky never listen to her lo..
Al
not angry la..
in fact, i feel very lucky.. never stick to her and let her ruin my life!
LSnTYL
dont feel offended lor..
maybe she has her plus points too.. just that i only see he negative points
ya lo.. i go to her cos near my workplace..
but she like not very encouraging..
1st scan then ask me wash.. lucky never listen to her lo..
Al
not angry la..
in fact, i feel very lucky.. never stick to her and let her ruin my life!
LSnTYL
dont feel offended lor..
maybe she has her plus points too.. just that i only see he negative points
Al, yup. He has no choice. Lol.. 
Cos seriously going thru 4 child births ain't easy. Personally, I feel that man has to go thru some pain. I've a gf, her hb also went thru vasectomy after she gave birth to her 4th child. I'm not going for ligation for sure n not wanting to give birth to a 5th too.
I <3 kids. They bring me lotsa of joy and headaches cos afterall my 3 are boys but still I love them lots.. My oldest is quite big liao.. P6... Youngest coming 2 yrs old soon.
I always believe since God bless me with 4 kids, He Wil definitely provide for my family!
Cos seriously going thru 4 child births ain't easy. Personally, I feel that man has to go thru some pain. I've a gf, her hb also went thru vasectomy after she gave birth to her 4th child. I'm not going for ligation for sure n not wanting to give birth to a 5th too.
I <3 kids. They bring me lotsa of joy and headaches cos afterall my 3 are boys but still I love them lots.. My oldest is quite big liao.. P6... Youngest coming 2 yrs old soon.
Al, he's 33 years old.
Guess he has no choice.. As long as both of us agreed on this.. No. of babies we have is ultimately under His control.
Linda, if ur hb doesn't want.. Dun force him. Just take precautions..
You are so young and gg to handle 3 kids.. I lagi peifu u.
Ur love for ur babies is indeed GREAT!
Linda, if ur hb doesn't want.. Dun force him. Just take precautions..
Al: that's why.. If wife can give birth to baby then why hubby cannot go do vasectomy. I wouldn't want to go under the knife but I would if say we have 3 kids already for example and we decide that that's the best then why not.
If the men not willing to do so will show alot IMO
If the men not willing to do so will show alot IMO
Godsent> Thanks, peifu me for what, haha. You FOUR leh, i third baby nia, how to fight?lol
Really very hard to take precautions cause im breastfeeding.. so limited birth control option, only option without risk is IUD. but im not comfortable for a foreign object inside my body.
Another option is Ligation for me, but im not doing csec and i done so much e.g. giving birth x3 why shud i be the one doing it!! And im scare of needles thats why im aiming for drug free birth and #1 is drug free except for #2 which i took under pressure!
Anyway i spoke to him, although angry/reluctant, he agree to see a dr regarding vasectomy to learn more about it before deciding.. Hope he will do it. But everytime i talk about it he gets angry sigh..
AL,Soul> i dont understand whats the big deal also, he very da nan ren zhu yi like say oh if shave the pubic hair for man is very sissy, ppl will laugh etc cause he last time last to get puberty kanna suan etc..
And say alot of no logic things...And he afraid to go for surgery & scare cannot stand. And say sure got side effects.
Then i shut him up by saying, i am risking my life X3 to give birth especially when i have medical issues(Minor thelassemia/Anemia)..
But he still give alot of reasons one lah!
AL> really fed up with his selfishness lorh
Really very hard to take precautions cause im breastfeeding.. so limited birth control option, only option without risk is IUD. but im not comfortable for a foreign object inside my body.
Another option is Ligation for me, but im not doing csec and i done so much e.g. giving birth x3 why shud i be the one doing it!! And im scare of needles thats why im aiming for drug free birth and #1 is drug free except for #2 which i took under pressure!
Anyway i spoke to him, although angry/reluctant, he agree to see a dr regarding vasectomy to learn more about it before deciding.. Hope he will do it. But everytime i talk about it he gets angry sigh..
AL,Soul> i dont understand whats the big deal also, he very da nan ren zhu yi like say oh if shave the pubic hair for man is very sissy, ppl will laugh etc cause he last time last to get puberty kanna suan etc..
And say alot of no logic things...And he afraid to go for surgery & scare cannot stand. And say sure got side effects.
Then i shut him up by saying, i am risking my life X3 to give birth especially when i have medical issues(Minor thelassemia/Anemia)..
But he still give alot of reasons one lah!
AL> really fed up with his selfishness lorh
Morning and hi ladies, this is the mummy here.. The daddy gave me his login.. Anyway, I wanted to tell Linda it's his huge man's ego and pride which women wun understand..maybe he kena suan during his teenage days, caused him much phobia too? From what I read I dun think it's gonna be easy for u..but he has agreed to see the doc regarding vasectomy..jia you dun qi nei
planet>I take folic acid + obimin cos that's what my gynae prescribed for my 1st bb. Will stop the folic acid after 1st trimester when I finish the pills cos that's what I did for #1
Godsent>hello. peifu u.
joy>no, my #1 is with Dr Benjamin Tham. But I lazy to track all the way to TMC leh. I saw Dr Geraldine Tan when I was 7 weeks preggers. no probs ar... for the 6 week's scan was it a vagina scan or normal ultrascan? maybe at 6 weeks normal ultrasound not so precise? how come u oso have to do pap smear? so strange. she din ask me to do wor.
no worries, I'm not offended. All gynaes have their pros n cons. Maybe I'm lucky so far. Haven't encountered any probs at all. She was recommended by my friend who has been seeing her for many years.
Al>eh, she din ask me to do pap smear wor. but why cannot do pap smear during pregnancy?
erm, I've seen her twice so far and she's quite nice leh. Didn't push any supplements or anything on me. Also no rush unlike the KK gynaes and Dr Tham eventhough I know there's a long q outside.
vasectomy>my husband volunteered to go for that after #2 pops. actually I said I'll ligate but he said better not cos another op for me. since he volunteer, than I ok oso. don't tink can tahan 3 or more kids.
linda>maybe slowly talk to your hubby bah. give him more time to get used to the idea. If not, then use condom lor.
Godsent>hello. peifu u.
joy>no, my #1 is with Dr Benjamin Tham. But I lazy to track all the way to TMC leh. I saw Dr Geraldine Tan when I was 7 weeks preggers. no probs ar... for the 6 week's scan was it a vagina scan or normal ultrascan? maybe at 6 weeks normal ultrasound not so precise? how come u oso have to do pap smear? so strange. she din ask me to do wor.
no worries, I'm not offended. All gynaes have their pros n cons. Maybe I'm lucky so far. Haven't encountered any probs at all. She was recommended by my friend who has been seeing her for many years.
Al>eh, she din ask me to do pap smear wor. but why cannot do pap smear during pregnancy?
erm, I've seen her twice so far and she's quite nice leh. Didn't push any supplements or anything on me. Also no rush unlike the KK gynaes and Dr Tham eventhough I know there's a long q outside.
vasectomy>my husband volunteered to go for that after #2 pops. actually I said I'll ligate but he said better not cos another op for me. since he volunteer, than I ok oso. don't tink can tahan 3 or more kids.
linda>maybe slowly talk to your hubby bah. give him more time to get used to the idea. If not, then use condom lor.
eh, so how will we know which is soul mommy or daddy?
joy/Al>I got curious and went to google about the pap smear. Seems it is normal and not harmful to the fetus. "A Pap smear is a routine part of your pre-natal care and poses no risk to the fetus. " from http://www.americanpregnancy.org/womenshealth/papsmear.html
tink she just wanted to make sure tat all is ok in the early part of the pregnancy? nonetheless, she shouldn't have asked you to do the test if you were not comfortable
joy/Al>I got curious and went to google about the pap smear. Seems it is normal and not harmful to the fetus. "A Pap smear is a routine part of your pre-natal care and poses no risk to the fetus. " from http://www.americanpregnancy.org/womenshealth/papsmear.html
tink she just wanted to make sure tat all is ok in the early part of the pregnancy? nonetheless, she shouldn't have asked you to do the test if you were not comfortable
Soul> I hope so lah. He keep on say good things dun find him bad things find him. For nothing go surgery zzzz
Actually I a bit not keen in him going vasectomy but birth control options only iud as I'm allergic to latex. And I want mor kids next time but he say he dun wan and financial is a problem also.
But I thinking next time if want kids rich Liao can either reverse or adoption lor! Since got $$ scare no kids meh. And I'm very pro adoption so both of us don't mind..
Lsntyl> believe it or not I talked to him since I'm preg with #2!!!and I'm allergic to latex so can't use condom
Actually I a bit not keen in him going vasectomy but birth control options only iud as I'm allergic to latex. And I want mor kids next time but he say he dun wan and financial is a problem also.
But I thinking next time if want kids rich Liao can either reverse or adoption lor! Since got $$ scare no kids meh. And I'm very pro adoption so both of us don't mind..
Lsntyl> believe it or not I talked to him since I'm preg with #2!!!and I'm allergic to latex so can't use condom
Hi soul108, me waiting for a man to speak up on vasectomy.. N u did..
Al, actually me and hb discussed on this option when I was preggie with my 3rd. He had already went to see the doc and had the date fixed for the op too.. But we decided to delay this op when we felt that we might want a no. 4.. But this time for sure this will be my last child birth.
Like what soul108 mentioned, it will be better for the man to seek doc's advise. Doc will be a better person to explain the surgery process.. They still can ejaculate.. Not castration.. Maybe my hb is open to such option cos afterall we have a gf's hb who did it at a age of 34 yrs old.
Al, actually me and hb discussed on this option when I was preggie with my 3rd. He had already went to see the doc and had the date fixed for the op too.. But we decided to delay this op when we felt that we might want a no. 4.. But this time for sure this will be my last child birth.
Maybe my hb is open to such option cos afterall we have a gf's hb who did it at a age of 34 yrs old.Linda, u young mummy already 3 leh.. I now in my 30s then 4 leh..
But I like to see ur ris, so pretty and adorable..
I love girls!! I dun mind having 4 girls!!
LSNtyl, sometimes I wonder where I gt my courage from.. 3 boys I already pengz.. One more aka datang.. Though unsure boy or girl.. Ur hb so sweet, still volunteer to go for vasectomy. Fantastic hb u gt there!
LSNtyl, sometimes I wonder where I gt my courage from.. 3 boys I already pengz.. One more aka datang.. Though unsure boy or girl.. Ur hb so sweet, still volunteer to go for vasectomy. Fantastic hb u gt there!
Hi Godsent, I am so happy to have u here because I'm also expecting my 4th. I hv a gal (7 yrs old) and two boys (6 & 3.5yrs).
Now, hv a companion because among my friends, only one has 4 kids.
U said the same thing as my hubby. This baby is God's blessing and He will provide.
U said the same thing as my hubby. This baby is God's blessing and He will provide.
allys_mommy
New Member
Linda: you take in sewing orders? What sort of things do you sell? Do you have a website?
Hi Tay,
My gynae didn't say much. he's a man of few words. should be growing well, that's why fwd the edd? now at borderline dunno wil be rabbit or dragon....heehee...both ok also actually.
I havent fixed my gynae yet. still checking out other gynae. thinking of doing prenatal scans at hospital better. at least their analysis more detail and can bring home the report.
My gynae didn't say much. he's a man of few words. should be growing well, that's why fwd the edd? now at borderline dunno wil be rabbit or dragon....heehee...both ok also actually.
I havent fixed my gynae yet. still checking out other gynae. thinking of doing prenatal scans at hospital better. at least their analysis more detail and can bring home the report.
Godsent>thanks i love girls too!! old or young doesnt matter. As long as we step up and be a responsible mother thats all that matters
K3> from beansprout pillow to all kinds of baby stuff.
Heres my site
www.mumobaby.com
vone> sorry dear missed ur message!! Heh not as close as my child age gap leh. 1st and 2nd ppl say very close already now 3rd lagi closer and im gonna be handling all 3 alone again. Shuddering at the thought of a newborn. If all 3 toddlers ok la.newborn headache
guava> u sure ur gynae tell u bring forward? Cause usually first scan edd is the most accurate one. And baby may be bigger during the numerous scan.
K3> from beansprout pillow to all kinds of baby stuff.
Heres my site
www.mumobaby.com
vone> sorry dear missed ur message!! Heh not as close as my child age gap leh. 1st and 2nd ppl say very close already now 3rd lagi closer and im gonna be handling all 3 alone again. Shuddering at the thought of a newborn. If all 3 toddlers ok la.newborn headache
guava> u sure ur gynae tell u bring forward? Cause usually first scan edd is the most accurate one. And baby may be bigger during the numerous scan.
Re vasectomy>i didnt really want him to do but he say that three kids are way too many and only 4k earning pay and above he will want 4th. Then i allergic to latex and not comfortable to have iud inside me, so left vasectomy. But iwas wondering if after vasectomy and next time when have $$$ want tk have kids already got $$$ so we can even reverse or adopt a child. Since money not a issue.
So wondering if this is for the best anot. Because i love kids and i want more but he doesnt. But thankgod the both of us are open to adoption of babies.
So wondering if this is for the best anot. Because i love kids and i want more but he doesnt. But thankgod the both of us are open to adoption of babies.
Tay : my nausea is serious this week. previous weeks not so, i can still swallow food....this week i only manage to finish half my dinner....:-( and need sour lemon sweet to keep nauseous feeling down... my MIL said her ms was quite long...i hope mine will be gone next week...
Linda : yea i asked 2nd time to confirm leh...cos last 2 scans appeared twice same edd on the ultrasound pic...i thought fix already at 12 Feb. but today went to scan ...becomes 6 Feb...maybe because i was seeing a few gynaes at the same time.
Linda : yea i asked 2nd time to confirm leh...cos last 2 scans appeared twice same edd on the ultrasound pic...i thought fix already at 12 Feb. but today went to scan ...becomes 6 Feb...maybe because i was seeing a few gynaes at the same time.