(2011/09) Sep 2011

Hi mummies!

I'm preggie with #2, just went to gynae today and EDD is estimated to be early Oct but based on my experience with my #1, I might pop early! Which means in Sept :D





RE: Gender

If the gynae's u/s machine is good, sometimes 12weeks can spot gender already. My boy's penis and testicles were obvious during week 12.

Else, got to wait till detailed scan in week 20 to confirm gender, especially for girls.

 


Mummies,



I now feel my body hairs is getting more n visible now... Also, my face is getting so oily now....



Feeling v hungry every now n then but can't eat too much... [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif]

 
Jennifer, it's part and parcel of hormonal change. I suspected I'm preggie cos of the change in complexion (usually crystal clear skin suddenly got a lot of small pimples). Even my mum commented that my skin was getting worse and sign a facial package for me!

 
#2 on the way ) (1dog1rabbit) : congrats for having twins

Jennifer Chng (jennifer79): why u cant eat too much i eat when ever i feel hungry

 
Down Syndrome Test:



Has any of your gynea's introduced to you the above mentioned test. this test rules out genetic disorder if any in the fetus. Has anybody gone for it or decided to go for it. Pl share your experience.

 
Muffin, eno is good to relieve bloatedness. And try to burp more often. I find that it helps.



Prenra, I opted not to test at all during my first pregnancy cos I was only 21yo at that time. And hubs and I decided that no matter how baby turns out, we will keep the baby. So we decided not to waste money on the tests which are not 100% accurate.

Guess it'll be the same for this pregnancy. We have no intention of taking up any DS testing.

 
Am gg for ds test end of tis mth. Though given my age is not needed but I decided to go for it. If given the worst result at least we can have some planing n decide Wat is next.. Doesn't want to point fingers at each other if Anyting goes wrong.



The test isn't 100% accurate but

Came across too many couples with ds kids... Honestly I knew it's going to b a tough journey if such thing happen.

 
Pommes : I was thinking of going facial after 12 weeks. I was doing treatment kind of facial halfway. Got to stop n just do normal facial. :s



I feel mine is a boy. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] my friend calculated from month of conception also boy . Wah can even see testicles from u/s, so cute!!!



Wow 1dog1 rabbit, u are a young mummy!![IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]

 
Babies Af : I ve always admired ladies who go thru ivf . Tons of discipline. My personal belief is not too much dairy . Mb for healthier alt, can try goat s milk. But taste mb little strong. I drink fresh almond milk for now.

 
Talking abt names.. I m pretty sure my fil is preparing for that.. For Chinese name, we ll go to the geomancer.

Easier .. Hehe

 
SimBaoBao, the early tests for DS is actually meant for those who intend to abort. Cos usually at the detailed scan at 20 weeks, can see from facial features if baby has DS.

We had a long discussion and decided that we will keep the baby no matter what, so there's no need to do early testing because we will be doing the detailed scan at 20 weeks. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]

We personally have friends with DS kids (I'm a trained special needs education officer). And though they may face many obstacles, they are angels and they deserve to be given the same opportunities [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]



Bunnz, decided to start trying immediately once we got married. Cos age is a scary thing... seen too many ppl trying so hard but can't concieve so we did not want to waste time. And it was a good decision [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]

 
hi babies af: mine is also conceived thru' ivf.

can i know who your current gynae is? i'm looking for gynae now b/c my current fertility specialist is planning to transfer me out on wk 21. thx

 
b.isforbb (bisforbb),



Yes, i was also referred by my private doc to do the OSCAR test at NUH by Prof Biswas.

Consists of NT scan, nasal bone scan, blood test. About $200+ total.

 
Muffin, I've spoken to a Prudential agent about the insurance already.



Some ready facts from what he told me:

- There are 2 parts to the insurance. One is a lump sum to cover pregnancy related complications. This is dependant on the mum's age and it costs around 300 - 450 (one time payment).

The other is to cover the mother's life (during pregnancy) and the baby's medical + life (upon delivery). This is $100 per 100k cover. Is a monthly premium.

- The one covering the baby's medical plus life is actually a ILP. You can choose to stop at anytime but the value of the policy will depend on the value of the units in the investment portfolio. This can double up as a 'savings plan' and you can take the money out later for your child's education. He also mentioned that after some time, you may even use the money in the investment to 'self-sustain' the policy. Meaning use the cash value to pay for the premiums so the policy is still valid but you don't have to fork out any cash.



This is what he told me over the phone. Cos min 18weeks then can buy this policy, so we will meet up with him nearer to 18 weeks.



Oh ya, your gynae will also need to fill up a form for you on the health declaration part for the lump sum pregnancy complication policy.

 
Bunnz, I did the oscar at TMC.. My gynae gave me a referral letter to bring to TMC. The scan takes abt 10-15mins if your baby is in right position, if not u gonna wait for baby to turn. Blood test is rather fast if no queue.

 
Hi p00h, which test did u opt for in the referral letter or form? Mine is NT scan. Not sure if it's the same as yours. I'm going to do it next week. How long does it take to get the result? Do you get the result from the scan immediately and is it the blood test result that we need to wait for? Thanks!

 
Bunnz: thanks. It is indeed a tough journey, but i'm glad everything went on smoothly. Support from HB and family is much required to go thru this process.



JY & Prenra: Mine is from O & G Partners (Gleaneagles) Dr LC Foong. He is a kind and brotherly doctor and I'm very comfortable with him.



Actually, I just bought S-26 milk that is formulated for pregnant and breast feeding women. The taste is rather acceptable, quite pleasant. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]

 
Muffin, based on our friend's experiences with medical emergencies, we are most likely going ahead with the purchase since we have a bigger budget this time round.

Our budget was very tight when we had #1 cos I just started working then and income was very little.



Just a quick comparison and some scenarios we know of:

All other medical plans which you can purchase for baby after they are born have restrictions unlike this Prudential policy. The restrictions:

1. Coverage only takes effect after baby's first month (anything that happen within first month is not covered).

2. Coverage will not include congenetial defects/problems (means if the baby is born with certain problems, cannot claim)



My friend's baby was born healthy with no problems. Discharged from hospital together with mummy. However, just before his 1st month, he suddenly had bloated tummy and was crying in pain everyday. Then the parents brought to KKH and realised that the baby got blocked kidneys. The bloat was from the swollen kidneys which could not excrete the urine due to blockage.

And cos they delayed treatment, the baby's kidney has slight permanent damage already. Baby was hospitalised in ICU for a week and normal ward for 2 weeks.

Total cost after Medisave: $30k

They were considered Class B1 cos delivered in private hospital and when they tried to downgrade, it was based on their household income.

They tried claiming insurance but could not because it happened just before baby's first month.

And, for future insurance, kidneys will not be covered as the medical report given states that it is cogenetial.



For the Prudential policy, there is a list of medical conditions it covers (in my friend's case, if they bought this policy, it will cover them). And it states clearly the amount payout for different conditions/length of hospital stay.



I think it's worth sitting down with the agent to check out the details if you can afford it.

 
#2, thanks so much for the sharing. I never thought about the insurance but I think it's definitely something worth considering. Btw, I like your username so much - 1dog1rabbit! So cute...

 
Dear all, im also sept mummy, expecting baby #2. EDD: 17 Sep.

Check with u, is it ok to eat yogurt and drink ginger tea? Is ginger tea too liang?

 
#2 on the way, seriously no one would want for the worst to come.. honestly HB & I cannot decided yet IF anyting worst happened.. its a heart breaking thing to take away someone precious but if the family really had no choice.. on a selfish path and comfort.. its that is the best for both parent & baby..



I had seen parent who simple just dumped the kid to either a maid or the grandparent who simply can't handle them.. i really felt for them



of coz there are parents who are able to accept and devote their time and effort to give the kid the best..



thanks for sharing the insurance thing.. we are also looking into this.. will check out with friends on it as well.

 
hey #2 thks. that was the angle i need to see from .. will consider and discuss with my hb.



will u also be thinking abt cordbanking?

 
yeap any mummy had this experience with cord banking? HB was talking about this, this morning. How long can we maintain the cord? Am thinking to donate it out but HB suggested saving it..



any advise?

 
Cord Blood:

I'll be donating to public.

Wanted to donate for my first one but popped before we collected and sign the documents.



Private banking, you need to find the one tt stores in a few separate bags. It's better. But I personally find that it's not worth it to pay so much for it.

 
You need to sign some documents & they'll pass you the collection kit for you to pass to gynae during delivery.

You can contact them & their staff will come & meet you to discuss [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]

 
Wow insurance and cord blood banking, things i haven considered yet...



#2 on the way, is there any brochure we can read up on the prudential policy online?

 
#2 on the way ) (1dog1rabbit): thanks useful information

Btw #2 on the way ) (1dog1rabbit); daddysbao (daddysbao); Muffin (muffinger);Simbaobao (simbaobao); JY (lulu123) ; babies af and all other ladies are you all working or home maker?

 
Prenra, I'm a tutor. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]





Just to share some great products I've also recommended to other mummies in another forum:



Prenatal vits: http://www.iherb.com/Twinlab-Dr-Greene-Prenatal-120-Capsules/11053?at=0

Fish oil/DHA: http://www.iherb.com/New-Chapter-Wholemega-Prenatal-500-mg-90-Softgels/22651?at=0



This website is in USD (conversion rate now is good!) and they ship direct to SG.

You can use discount code YAF688 to get US$5 off your first purchase.



This is a very good website, I buy my son's supplements and toiletries (all organic) from this website since my boy was born in 2007. :D



If you don't have a credit card but want to order, PM me. We can combine orders (I stay at PG).



BTW, they also have organic products for preggy mummies. My face wash, body wash and shampoo are all bought from this website too (Aubrey Organics). Price is not expensive with the direct shipping to SG. :D



In fact, most of their products are available at shops in SG, but double or triple the price. :D

 
Hi Prenra, am working : )



#2, am also staying at PG. will check the link out later [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]

 
Muffin wat do work as? [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] And PG means??? [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]

 

daddysbao (daddysbao) : BK means bukit batok which block and wat do you work as? [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]

 

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