Hi Aries,
Thanks for the sharing & encouragment, Aries.[IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] I share the same sentiment. It is the bb's health that is more important then the birth method. I'm feeling more 'xinku' and having lots more anxiety now which I never feel so when I had my no.1. I tend to think more...as in how to take care of two kids, household chores,etc.
Glad to hear that you're coping better now...sooner or later, u will be a super mummy!
I understand how mil can agitate us at times but bopian leh...they're our mil afterall. We've to really bite our lips and tahan sometimes. i think your mil is really proud of your girl so that's why she made all those comments. True, you should feel even more proud as you gave birth to her.
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You just listen to those good comments..those comments that don't sound present to the ears, just 'erase' them. You need more 'energy' to take care of your gal now...can just bochap whatever she says.
I could imagine how your mil cleaned your girl after your description. For some of the mils, they just want to clean the bb chop chop...won't be like us so 'xi xin'. Your bb is going to be taken care by her after you go back to work?
Hi Hippopolai,
I asked him two times as in whether it is really okay to delivery bb at 37-38 weeks so that's why he shared with me the still birth thingy.
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Maybe he 'fed' up...
True...planned c-section is better for me also...so hubby can fetch #1 from CC too. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
Hi Shernice, Gin, Hippopolai, Michelle S & Aries,
I also last minute decided to donate the cord blood to scbb. Just spoken to the nurse.
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Few hours before, I was still in a dilemma as in whether I should sign up for cordblood/stemcord or donate it. Hope I have made the right decision. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
Hi PrayHard,
Aiyoyo...I also scare! *Hugs! Don't know can go through the whole process bravely or not. What time do you need to fast? I can't eat food after 7am. Err...can we drink water? I heard that we can't eat after operation isn't it? HIAZ...don't know when can we take food again.
I also engaged a CL from an agency. I believe she will be leaving on the 29th day morning.