Wah, this thread moves super fast... last night I post... now next page liao...
I'll try to respond individually... LOL.
Bethel - Umm, why 3 cycles? Because I am already 36 now, and will be 37 when I give birth next year (if I conceive now)... and umm, nope, this will be our fourth child.
LC - congratulations on #2... don't worry too much... at this stage, just enjoy being preggy... things will work itself out. just a matter of figuring out what's impt and meets the needs of your family lor.
Yah, if I can conceive this round, I will have to give my nanny a big hong bao to convince her to come and do confinement for me also... but see how lah. conceive already then say. LOL.
btw - my #1 and #2 are also 16mths apart... so yes, it's very tiring... but I like to "yi4 ci4 guo4"... but now, #3 is already 4+ going on 5, and #1 and #2 are already in P3 and P2... haha. So much for that lor.
DNA - last time my children also go through that phase. Something that helps to "bluff" them into thinking they are holding onto someone... Let them hold onto something as they walk, instead of your hand. Something solid, like maybe a small plastic bottle or something. Not soft. Then they forget they are not holding your hand, they will walk by themselves. It's about confidence. So it's also impt that the adults are not kancheong that he will fall. The babies pick up the "kancheong" vibes very easily.
Haha, I "listen" to you all talk about getting back old clothes and clothes giveaway, I also headache. I have no baby stuff at all. Everything got to get from scratch. Some more last baby, no one to pass down, so sayang to buy brand new. Hopefully on the board can find some good 2nd hand stuff that is still in a reasonable condition lor... See how lah.
Sigh, baby haven't even conceive, already thinking so far... so silly right? Oh well. I've been waiting for this baby for a long time... try on and off don't have. Admittedly, busy with the 3 kids, so also not very dedicated to trying lah... got mood as and when lor... some more cycles all haywire.
Anyway, hopefully I'll get to know some of you. I hope you ladies don't mind my jumping in like that. If you have anything you'd like to know, can ask me also