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mushloom, hee... i know you are from apr 2008 thread, just dunno whether its your 2nd or 3rd. LOL! Pls give me babydust! Kekeke...

How come must take jab? What happened?
 


jaspire,
mushloom's taking jab for hormone support. same as the oral one. done that for my no#1. the first jab was so painful.. the rest feel like nothing liao.
 
redtea, is it necessary to take the jab? Cos i dun remember my gynae giving me the jab though i have quite a fair bit of spotting. He only gave me duphaston wor...
 
Hi, Joy..

Bo bian mah.. wan the massage lady to massage but yet relunctant to pay her full sum so have to think of another way out.. :p but hor my tummy not flatten and I dun think will flatten anymore..


Hi, Blueberry

I would advise not to take any chinese herbal soup for the 1st trimester. Unless the pregnancy is not stable, then maybe can seek chinese sinseh for stablising formula, if not, better just stick to folic acid and avoid those forbidden food such as raw food, half cooked food, seafood, salads, cafinated drinks etc..


Hi, Mushloom and RedTea

Mothers are so noble. have to take jab and have to risk life to give birth to a walking miracle.. I appreciate my mum more when I gave birth to my boy.. Take care, Mushloom.. all will be well with you and your baby
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Massage Lady - Mummies to be, you are engaging massaging lady already? I did only after 1st trimester, cos hubby pantang especially after we lost our first baby..
 
jaspire... (sprinkle *baby dust*)

the jab is to stablise the pregnancy. my eyes pop out when i heard tat i gotta take twice a wk. and must continue till my gynae says stop. now i look back i really should count my blessings that my first pregnancy is so smooth n uneventful.

redtea really ah. the rest not pain ah. i oredi wincing in pain when the nurse clean the area with swipe :p. i dread to go back for more jabs but no choice la. jus hope can stablise earlier then can have fewer jabs
 
mushloom,
for me, i find the first jab the most painful one. maybe after 1st i set threshold le.. so the rest like feel nothing liao. kind of get used to. :p

jaspire,
jab is only for threaten pregnancy. i don't think u will wan the jab.
 
cloudme mine still in early pregnancy stage. can only see the sac. plus i was breastfeeding so my menses still quite irregular and not accurate. so haven got my edd from gynae yet. maybe by nx wk shld know oredi ba. i am guessing mid or end jan ba. u?
 
joy
thank you
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redtea
so nice! holiday! hey, you can shop for maternity clothes too. think their fashion better than singapore. then when you come back, you would have the most unique dresses around!
*envy*

LC
you are really creative. confined at home and no money?! wahaha....

mushloom
i also find the first jab most painful. cos never experience before mah. after that, still pain lah but learn to accept it liao. you on MC or bed rest?
 
wow so cloudme u in third tri oredi? wow tats fast.

baby no 2: my gynae did ask me if i wanted to rest. but he say it wont really affect the results... so i rejected him. will go crazy at home juz brooding over it. at least when i work it will take my mind off the matter for a while. u oso on jab now?
 
mushloom,
enjoy ur 2nd pregnancy...
ur #1 is a boi?
think it's a gal tis time?(my guess)
that time when having #1(my #1 is a ger) i also nearly end up having jab...
but gynae give pills to stabalise the pregnancy...cos i told her i dun want jab...

this time round pregnancy is more stable(#2 is a boi)...
 
mushloom,
ur gynae got advise u to stop BF?

bb no2,
hope i can enjoy there. but going to miss my DS dearly. 1 nite don't see him still ok. few days don't see him, i don't think i can take it.
 
cloudme i oso wish this time is gal. when i see apr mom buy this n tat for their girl i wish i could buy for ivan too. :p hopefully this time is girl then i can bbb liao keke

redtea no wor. he says can continue to bf.
 
mushloom
i had jab for my first pregnancy
cos i was sudd bleeding in my 5th month. not just spotting but bleeding.
quite scary when i look back now

redtea
i also cannot imagine a night without my DD. that's why we lug her along for every holiday we go. in fact, i'm already dreading delivery cos that would be the first time we won't be together at night, and i'm sure i'll miss her
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i've already asked hubby if we can just let her zzz in my room. but it's madness i know
 
now i bf my boy during the nite. and express once a day. not a lot. luckily managed to switch him from bm to fm. if not lagi worse.

i guess i will stop when my gynae tells me to ba. meanwhile will juz continue so my boy can get constant supply of antibodies
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mushloom, I am oso bf my gal during the nite. But luckily she has learnt to STTN so i can ease off the bf part a bit and just latch her b4 sleep or when she wakes up at 6.30am. Hee... but hor, my gynae strongly advice not to bf if preggie with no.2 wor.
 
mushloom, we train her wor... when she wakes up, my hubby will go to her instead of me. He will tell her she is a big gal now, no more breastmilk, and then pat her to sleep... initially cried so badly, but after a few days, she know she is not getting milk, she slept liao without waking up.
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U may want to try.
 
hello everyone... I'm also TTCing... this is my first round on Clomid for this baby... total doc gave 3 cycles... if all BFN then I will give up liao. This is my last 3 chances liao.

Hoping to conceive a boy... want to balance things abit. Haha.

I read that some of you are already MTB... congrats. Those TTcing... anyone in 2WW like me? My cycles are wonky... but I just agah-agah... hopefully can lah. Feb baby is the best timing for me. If not very headache next year...
 
Just collected my pelvis ultrasound results.
It says that i have a retroverted uterus (as opposed to the more common anteverted).
Any mummies here also have a retroverted uterus and had no problems conceiving?
What are the problems / side effects of a retroverted uterus?
 
Hi Bethel,

if i'm not wrong retroverted uterus is quite common too. sometimes it goes back to the normal position during pregnancy.

i remember reading abt it abt 2 years back, so pardon me if i'm wrong. For retroverted uterus, BD in doggie position is better compared to the other positions.
 
Hi Amby,
oh isit? then i must go read up also..
i read somewhere in the forum that for inverted uterus, only can deliver by cesarean. but not sure if inverted = retroverted..confusing..
I definitely hope to go for natural delivery when the time comes!
 
Morning ladies...

Yup, Bethel. Amby is qutie right. Retroverted uterus is common so dun worry just that your BD position must be in another manner only ..
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Hi, Mushloom

So your no. # 1 and this coming baby is how old apart? Who is currently taking care of your boy and who will be taking care of your coming one? I am curious cos I kind of feel that I am pregnant, I missed my menses already. A bit paranoid cos my both is only 9mth old and if really pregnant, they will only be 1year and a half apart only.. I am quite worried that I cannot handle cos I am working. and and and, the stress from my MIL during last confinement is haunting me again.. I dare not go to the gynae to confirm
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Morning ladies,

LC,
if really preggie, then you got to do some planning of all these things. things can be work out one, no worries.
 
morning ladies!
realised my evenings are getting worse. Even lying on the bed to rest at night can feel nauseated. arrrrgggghhhh! Not sure if i'm being paranoid. think my tummy seems to have shrunk!
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LC, just take a test to confirm. At least u will know. better to know than to live in 'fear' right? And things will work out.

redtea, they shd have dumplings that don't have oysters i guess.
 
emmie
wat do u mean tummy shrunk? cos u din eat much 4 dinner is it?

LC
test first than c how. i tot u want 2b preg since u r in this thread? *confused*
 
Bethel, I've retroverted uterus and don't worry, it won't affect conceiving or pregnancy. My friend has it too and is how a mother of 2 beautiful kids.

Emmie, I felt my tummy shrunk a bit last night, but I think that was because I have been urinating very often yesterday plus I've finally managed to clear my system after a few days of constipation! But after breakfast today, it balloon again...
 
Good morning ladies! Its Thursday! So happy! Looking forward to my weekend! Yeah!

Bethel, retroverted uterus just BD using doggie style still can conceive naturally. So dun worry.
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emmie,
these days i feel abit sian of eating le.. but sometime will hv abit of craving.. like i'm thinking of chicken rice yesterday, but the stall we wanna eat is closed on their rest day.
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josey,
hee.. don't think our tummy will shrunk le la.. they will expand and expand. yesterday i wearing tees, and tell my hubby, how to hide with a tummy like tat? sure got ppl will ask sooner or later.
 
BTW, just to share a lobang... for those already preggie!
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http://sg.******************/articles/Kidzloft_50_percent_discount_voucher_pregnant_mums
 
Redtea,
haha...not exactly shrunk, just that my tummy has been so bloated for the past week, so when I finally been able to release most of the "rubbish" I feel my tummy less tight...so "shruck" haha
 
josey, can understand, cos my tummy was very bloated these few days till I have pple giving up seat for me in the train, keke!
 
Ladies, I went to buy the kit.

Result : POSTIVE
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.. Spreading baby dust baby dust baby dust baby dust.....I kind of suspected that I might be preggie cos for this, I intentionally counted my days and also looking out for the eggy discharge..

Now mixed feeling.. we do want a baby and in fact intentionally gave up exclusive breastfeeding when my boy was 8mth old just to increase the percentage of conceiving from a low of 2%, just that now not sure how to handle and go about, the logistic especially cos my boy is in the infant centre and will continue to be
there I guess even if the 2nd baby arrives.. guess it will be fine, right?

I did the online EDD check, prob 23 Jan. another headache! Cos it crosses over to chinese new year on 10 Feb 2010, the confinment nanny I used for my no. 1 might not take me (cos she mentioned before)..

Ladies, am I too paranoid and thinking too much already at this stage?
 
LC, I dun think you are thinking too much. You are just being practical, esp now you have confirmed your pregnancy. My SIL oso have her 2nd baby when her no.2 is 18mths going 19mths. She is coping well. Just that you need to plan ahead of childcare issues etc. Hmm, i think those requiring confinement nanny do need to book way ahead due to CNY wor. Cos i know quite alot of confinement nanny do not want to work during CNY.
 
LC
should i say congrats?!
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your boy already in infant care, so should be fine. in fact, it's a good arrangement i find

why dun you call your CL early to see if she's really not taking you. then you can look for alternatives since it's still early

i also haven't decided whether to take a CL. are they really good?
 
Hi, Jaspire

Thank you for the kind words.. How is your SIL coping

Is she working as well?

Guess its the logistics that I need to think abt -
(a) for now till I gave birth;
(b) during my maternity leave; and
(c) after I return work.

A few ladies here gave me some suggestion of getting a light weighted pram for sending my boy to the IFC during my pregnancy period. I will need to get my regular cabby uncle to help me with the pram for this period. And, maybe I can book him to send me and my boy back after work. This is just my thought on the logistics for this 10mth of pregnancy.

I have issues with my MIL for the first baby so I guess I will not rely much on her for this coming one.

Am I talking sense? I realise I am running a speed of 286 when I am pregnant and I dun make much sense when I talk.. hahahaha...
 
Hi Mummies Good Morning,
My boy is 2years old, but he still refused to walk on his own when he is outside.Anyone have the same experience as me ? I have another one on the way, I think I can only carry him for another few months more.
 
anyone here already need to upgrade your bra?
mine's getting so tight that it leaves a mark on, and so are my pants
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now i'm really looking suspiciously fat
 
LC, congrats!

Maybe you should consider getting a car if budget allows. With it, it will be easier for you to move around when you are pregnant or after the bb is born. It can be very tiring waiting for cab when you have to handle 2 kids, esp when your #1 gets older and want to run around.
 
BB2, me!! i have upgrade...haha, but I just bought the extension hook.

I've also bought the belt extension from Mothercare so that I can continue to wear my hipster pants/jeans.
 


Hi,DNA

How abt getting him a walker? Those shopping cart walker? It is "ang mo" way of getting toddlers to walk.. My niece refused to walk until 2 and a half year and that was when we bot her a Fisher price walker.. must hor must be under adult supervision.. wun recommend those chinese kind walker, very dangerous cos the speed is faster and they learn thr tip toe. my friend's gir is tip-toeing when she walk, haven really corrected back. the PD said its bec of the walker that they always put her in..
 

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