piggy & sun
it's true leh. Some men have u give birth, really pai pai pi gu, let u do everything. Say scared to carry the baby, dun wanna change diaper, dun wanna do housework etc. The mummies have to 1 leg kick, and still have to go back to work. The men go home just play their PSP. Have seen so many of such cases leh. Feel so sad for these mummies and wanna whack their hbs.
Better communicate with your hb before u get preg on what u expect next time. If not you'll regret big time. Better still, write it down somewhere so that he'll remember. Men have short memories too.
Lucky for me my hb is very helpful and comfy taking care of my boy. phew! Can't imagine life with a hb who thinks their responsiblity is just to donate his sperm.