Also come to think abt it, since I started work, my hubby has more excuses to come home late or not to help me to take care of my girl cos he knows got his mum around. Like yesterday, I told him ah girl not feeling well and I will be bringing her to see doctor, he told me to let his mum bring hee to see doctor, but she's our girl leh, I should be the one to take care of her and bring her to see doctor to know more abt her condition. U can't make it, it's ok, don't push everything to ur mum..
Also last year when I took care of her myself, my girl didn't fall sick at all for the 9mths.. why I started working, she kept falling sick?? Once still kena fungus infection and her butt red red for abt 2 wks lor..
I also think my MIL prefer to work as she will have more free time to do her own things.. like now she wants to go singing, she has to make sure I'm back home liao then she can go. If I'm late, she can't go.. I feel so bad too.. she used to want to go where, she can just go.. now she needs to make special arrangements before she can go anywhere.. sometimes I feel we are such bad children, as we created more problems for her even when we have our own children. Shouldn't we take care of our kids ourselves?? Dunno why I got this kind of thinking..