Good day ladies,
Felicia,
I don't open the door for her when she rings the bell? Then she cannot come in liao. Dunno it'll work or not. Later she call my hubby to call me, den siao liao...
Bizznow,
You hit the bullseye. My PILs are willing to give up 1 life for their own pleasure. They didn't want grandchildren cos they scare hubby next time have to rare his own kids and cannot give them money as and when they demand liao. That's why they advise hubby not to keep it when they knew I was pregnant. Their first qn to him was "If you can't handle the financial issue when you kids come out, then better abort now."
But actually why hubby can't afford to rare a child leh? If he can pay for the house, bills and support their spending habits, how much can a child cost? What they are worrying is once baby pop, hubby will have to put aside money for baby, leaving less for them. That's why they advised him to abort.
Iamsnow,
My MIL will not do confinement for me one lah. Her own comfort matters more. But better this way, cos even she did, she'll prolly do a bad job. Imagine she can stop hubby from buying me tonics, I doubt she'll really wanna nurse me back to health during confinement. She herself nv even touch water last time can tell me to go and bath without herbs somemore. Very "Ji Xin" rite?
Her mentality all wrong one. Alot of bad habits also. Like wasting food, talking very loud, little things always quarrel, cannot get her ways either cry or threaten suicide, I so scare she'll impart all these to my gal next time.
Catcus,
My MIL now cannot even cope with her housework, I know she can't cope with baby and housework one. Imagine she can say she's tired and don't even cook dinner once a week at times, The most times she cook is twice a week. Floor, hubby mop for her. She always say she tired. Then play mahjong till wee hours not tired la. Her times at home either watch tv or sleep. That's why I openly call her a pig here. She hungry don't even cook, can cry when there's no dinner. How extreme can she get.
In the first place I nv wanted her to babysit, so no matter wat I'll nv get her a maid. Make her admit defeat herself so that I can take baby out from her care. U may think I'm very bad, but she already so lazy, getting her a maid will only encourage her laziness even more.
Plus dun wan her to take care cos I scare she'll teach baby to disobey me. She already sowing discord between me and hubby, she can teach my gal the same thing too...