Jete,
the senario that u described sounds so familar to me, ruoxi also met such gals/boys several times in clinic or playground, those naughty gals/boys so funny,so many toys around they dont play just want to play the one that ruoxi playing, normally i just carry ruoxi to leave the place to avoid conflict, as i knew ruoxi never push ppl, if ppl push her she sure scared and fall down. got many bad experience already, so dont want take the risk, but later when she go to child care center i can't protect her liao, when think of it i heartpain. but sooner or later she has to learn how to protector herself.