If you do no have mc experience before or no bleeding, I think should be ok to carry your toddler. As per your gynae instruction he say ok then ok loh. As your gynae knows your body more.
Your girl so sweet... How I wish my girl will understand too. hehe
Hi Ms's_Mummy, Welcome.. Same I had chemical pregnancy before. Your bb edd maybe the same as my bb edd. =)
hmmm... Really can't carry? I still carrying as per normal leh..
Mine only sticks to me.. Even daddy carry also cannot..
I keeping my finger crossing I wont gain too much weight and my tummy don't grow too big. So I can handle my girl until I give birth. I'm alone no choice.
I guess I oso no choice. Hubby suggest to hire helper but I dun feel like having a stranger in my house.
Yes. Got phobia, but I keep tell myself must stay positive. Starting I test the line very dark but at time can see the line not at dark as previous and at time its dark. Haha. NVM as long can see visible line I'm rest assure 1st.
Already decided to hire CL but CL don't handle toddler they only handle newborn n me. So wonder who to take care of my toddler. I still have to bathe her n cook for her during my confinement or can get the CL to do it. Don't know leh.
Last time my fren didn't attend my wedding I felt puzzle as she agreed and cant wait for my wedding. But didn't turn up after I know she was pregnant.are u pandang kind? when I was in my first trimester with #1, I attended a wedding because already promise to attend before I know I'm pregnant. go also must give ang bao, no go also need to give ang bao, so I went to make value for my $....and I no pandang kind lar.
so if you scared you can ask ur mom n in laws if you can attend loh, im sure your BFF will understand, for her own good, if really got such thing lar. unless ur BFF is the no pandang kind, then of coz by all means can attend, but make sure your BFF ask her parents and in laws first. so the men will not come in or use nursing cover. when i was in my 3rd trimester i went to CGH ICU to visit my friend's bro and stayed awhile with my friend who needed us friends around lar. i nvr tell anyone i go ICU tho coz i dun wan ppl who pandang anyhow say me. and don't bend down or squat and rest as much as possible, explain to your toddler but of cause toddler may not understand lar.
Because im not pantang type. Last time I'm pregnant I carried my fren's bb end up I have chemical pregnancy. So sad lo. Now ban cannot carry any bboh oh....just u all know, now that u all pregnant, cannot carry your friends' newborns ok. its for the new-born's good and your friends' good.
@happymok, I haven find any CL yet. Read too much forum about horror CL stories and I feel scared. Because I'm not guai type and follow confinement law. Hehe. I want to shower n wash my hair. I cannot tahan oily hair.
I oso washed my hair from 3rd days onwards..the CL oso can't do much lah..we breastfeeding mum must be hygiene according to the wong boh boi classes
Oh dear I carried my colleague's 10 weeks old daughter yesterday!! Oh dear oh dear how ah??oh oh....just u all know, now that u all pregnant, cannot carry your friends' newborns ok. its for the new-born's good and your friends' good.
I think already past so dun think about it. I heard can't go bb full month but if u n ur cousin not patang then ok.
Oh my god. Haven book any CL yet. Because feel too early. Haiz. Maybe wait after bb confirm heartbeat then book =p
Better go get 安胎药 from gynae
I had it almost every day right up to last week (6th week), sometimes bright red. Gynae's only advice is rest and no physical exertion, use progesterone if need be. She said its quite a common thing, esp in 1st trim. Relax and rest well!
I had brownish/pinkish discharge from week 5-6. Very worrying but as long as not like bleeding should be ok. But my gynae increased my progesterone support
Same here! It was so worrying! I also had spotting when just stopped only at 6weeks
