Ladies ... Making bbs is not all about temperature take / charts / when to do or not to do .. Looking at dates / time / charts to do the deed ...etc . That's a lot of stress .. And ur body and minds will not be in sync to produce any results .
Your poor man , most likely will be under even more pressure than you and is not say anything .. Because he wants to 'help ' but it does not help himself much .. When he's just a baby making machine .
Take it easy ..,GO switch off together .
Take a small break or two or three EVEN .
You need not go far or long ... A couple of days at a chalet ( just be on ur own , don't go organising bbq etc ) or Sentosa or Malaysia or Thailand .
When your minds and bodies are relaxed... Just do it !!! Don't refer to charts / look at timings . Just enjoy ur togetherness .
Even a lazy weekend in bed helps .. Don't reach for ur phone the moment you open ur eyes ..
Reach for each other instead .. sleeping IN , enjoy each other's company .
Magic will Happen .
Now go forth and multiply !!
Good luck !!
lol. ;p