Snort, alot of time i'd like to cry and acknowledge my pain, but it's difficult. If i do that 'll be causing my pain for my hb. As I type my tears are welling up, but I can't allow myself to cry. I'm at work. When 'm at home, my hb refuse to let me log in to such sites. he feels it'll just bring back the bad memories. He wants to bring me to see odctors but I don't think I want that. I can't really talk to my friend as I think one of my closer friend is rather insensitive when it comes to this. She gets ratehr critical and think I should just move on. My other close friend, her hb refuse to have bbs, so she get very upset, emotionally whenver we talk about bb matters, so I also didn't want to confide in her. The only way I can express my emotions is thru tears, but I have no place for that. If I cry at home, hb will keep asking me to tell him how I feel, but I dunno how to express my emotions in words, then he'll want to drag me to the doctor for I just keep crying. So now I stopped.
K&K, whenever I see preggy I get very envious and think of getting preg. but frankly, I'm still very frightened. All these time I feel so lonely. Although family and frens are always with me during that bad time, I feel none of them know how I feel. Going thru daily injections, confined in alone bed for 4months, sleep alone every night in hopsital for 2 months, alone in labour pain for 20+hours, delivering the bb on my own, seeing him yawn and turn in my tummy during scans, feeling his hard kicks during his last hours. All these time, I was alone with kaden, maybe only he knows how I feel, but he's gone now. These are feelings that a second person won't know and feel.I'm afraid to feel so much for another then to lose him again.