Folic, thank u for your offer... Congrats to on your baby girl! 6 mos old already...
i am simply thankful to cross the 22w mark with my current pg. i didn't want to let fear and worries hit me becos i know it's never-ending for the 9 mos! i do get anxious if i haven't felt my baby move for a few hours.
i'm just looking forward to Dec when i deliver... i'm considering using a technique called Hypnobirthing which basically uses deep relaxation to aid in a natural, drug-free childbirth, which i so heroically hope to have!
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Coral and all the ladies here, i found it so sickening to the core when i read in books that after the first tri, miscarriage risk drops to 1% and here i was, that horrendous 1%. i thot then that i was a RARE case but since then, i've realised that there are so many of us out there suffering with little support. I didn't know of this website then becos SINGAPOREMOTHERHOOD just doesn't seem like a place for Losses, right??! the worst is that our babies are just a statistic, with no right to a registration becos technically (URGH) we didn't have a child. My baby now sits on my dresser in an urn... one day, she'll return to the earth.
perhaps it would be good to spread the word about
www.childbereavementsupport.org.sg becos i think a visible support group like that works too. in time to come, they'll have their own bulletin board for mothers who have loved and lost.
devastatedmum, look for the rainbow as the sun starts to shine through for you eventually, becos it will happen. for now, i know it seems impossible. take your time yet do know that when you've reached the bottom, there is only one way out...UP! you know, after a while, i stopped writing on the bulletin boards becos i felt that the more i wrote, the more it kept me from healing. maybe it's the same for you?
Coral, my hopes and wishes for you...