Shocking-most Singapore men who work in Batam have affairs/mistresses/secret wives
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susanna_low
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What's new? Nowadays it's easier to find a man who stray than to find a faithful man.
What makes me sick is the fact that some of them are having long term love affairs even love child while they are so called happily married with families here in singapore. The worst is their wives have no clue or no idea whats going on. Most of these men are working for big singapore based companies there and travel to and fro. The best part is they have no remorse or guilt:arghhhh
Yes thats an old story a lot of women have come to believe that batam has changed, yes it has changed they no longer go for older men, a lot of young and well to do men from the engineering industries are available. this one I'm talking about is young men with young kids at home here. Most old men stories come to light very easily and they went to prostitutes but these men know how to play it safe its so easy to find an affair with their local colleagues who will be working as accountants, administrators and so on. I lived there nearly 2 years and saw things to my horror. If any of your husband working in an engineering industry in batam I will strongly suggest you keep a close eye on them. Just came back from there and thought of keeping our fellow mummies posted.
blur_ballerina
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How about men who travel to china and kl for work trips for one week or so per month?
do these men stray too and their wives wont know?
do these men stray too and their wives wont know?
alot of men stray and come home pretending to be family men. really sick, these hypocrites. the worst part is that these ppl don't go for hiv screening. i think the law should make it compulsory for all to do hiv testing every 2 years or put it as mandatory part of a blood test. in the past, ppl were scared of tuberculosis and hepatitis, now it's definitely stds and hiv.
Joanne,
Yes, but not sure if they will cheat on their family if they love them enough. I know 1 of my Hubby's x colleague still cheating with long term affair and pretending to be a great hubby and father here......I wish I could find their family and knock on their door saying "wake up people".
Yes, but not sure if they will cheat on their family if they love them enough. I know 1 of my Hubby's x colleague still cheating with long term affair and pretending to be a great hubby and father here......I wish I could find their family and knock on their door saying "wake up people".
anyone if given the right opportunity will cheat, men or women. it is because society condones men cheating but not women, so women hide it better or dont dare to cheat. too many temptations out there, especially if the male ego is easily stoked by a submissive woman from a poorer country who just needs the financial support. some men do not like equality, they need to be the big man. so here comes the china/philipino/vietnamese women. ever wonder why they are never from the richer countries like korea or japan or taiwan?
By all means they can go and find a submissive women from a poorer country who will feed their ego while double/triple timing men and will throw them out once their $$ and youth is depleted or when they find a better one. Thats why these men don't dare to throw their family cos that is their asylum at the end. But I'll respect them if they inform their wives their need and get themselves out of the marriage before they find another women and not pass any std. A real man will dare to do that but not a cheater. Agree that women also cheat but the percentage will be far less in a similar situation. Being honest and truthful man is far more attractive then being the big primitive man.
karmabites
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betrayal is the worst feeling ever. enough to cause one to go into depression.