Hi Vamiga! Thanks for the advice! During my last confinement , I did not manage to get my friend's recommended nanny so I got one through the recommended nanny .She recommended her friend and it was a nightmare for me . She will stationed at the TV from 7pm to 12.15am watching her favorite taiwanese drama. I will get to drink my tonic soup after her show 12.30am. The next morning, she will get up at 10 am and when I get up, she will ask me to eat cookie and milk for breakfast. Then she will start to cook the lunch. The lunch will be 1 soup cooked portioned for lunch and dinner, 1 steamed fish and 1 vegetable . Dinner time, will be the same dish. Afternoon, she will take her nap. After her nap , she will eat her tea break and ask me to eat cookie and milk again . Then she will warmed the soup and steamed 1 fish and fried vegetables for me.. I will be having the same type of food throughout the confinement. Baby bottles not properly cleaned and sterilized . Moreover, she kept squeezing my baby's nipples till there was milk oozing out. She said there was a must so that baby when she is growing will not feel pain. Now , my 3rd toddler daughter has a inverted nipples. I was feeling so sad whenever I see her inverted nipples. My 1st and 2nd daughter all do not have inverted nipples. Moreover, nobody in my family has inverted nipples, so sad for my 3rd daughter, next time, when she grows up and wants to breastfeed , it will very challenging for her. Moreover, that time, during my confinement , it did not hit any festive season, and in 2010 , already charged $2600 plus Ang Paos . For that amount , that quality of services she provided. That's why, now very scared if paid so much, is that confinement nanny able to provide quality services? Since , this time also through 3rd party recommendation...
Now at the moment, my #1 is in p2 and 2 in K2. The #3 is 2yrs old . I am a SAHM so usually will ferry my #1 back from school and #2 through school bus. But, next year, my #2 will be in P1 . So , both #1 and #2 will have to fetch from school plus all the CCA .. As we stayed far from their school , the school bus does not want to come..so I had so choice but to ferry them back myself...That's why now also thinking of moving near the school so I can engage the school bus to fetch them to and fro from school.... But in order to move near the school also has to sell my place to buy a new place.. So a lot things been stressing me up...