Hi everybody, I would like to share something with you regarding piano lessons for young children. Most music schools and teachers will not tell you these, but I do wish parents to be more informed on how their money is spent, especially for non-musician parents.
Coming from a piano teacher's point of view, there is really no advantage in starting lessons for very young kids. I would say anytime before primary 1 makes no sense. Unless your kid is Beethoven or Mozart. Then they do not even need lessons in the first place.
Why? Because in learning music, you need to be able to first do basic counting, know what a 'steady speed' means, and a certain level of analytical skills. The problem with sending too young kids is that the teacher will just spend ages teaching them basic things over and over again, and the kids just do not understand. They do not have the mental capability yet. You are paying the teacher to do the same thing over a long period of time. This is not money well spent.
Secondly, young kids have extremely short attention span. In a 30 minute lesson, the kid is only paying attention for at most 10-15 min. For the rest of the time you pay, the teacher needs to try to get him to listen. Not money well spent.
It is a common misconception that the younger one starts, the higher the achievement. This is not true. Also, there is no such thing as fingers becoming too 'hard/inflexible' later in life to learn piano. Strong, well-trained fingers come from lots of practice, not born out of young hands.
In terms of maximizing 'returns on investment', private lessons beat group settings hands down. But if your priority is providing a playgroup for your child, the group setting might be a fun option. Just don't expect focused, quality musical coaching for your child.
I started piano lessons at age 12. I out-perform all my peers who started much earlier. Musical talent is inherited, not forced upon.
A great number of teachers out there offer long lessons (charging you by the hour), and push you to take exams grade by grade, year by year, so that they can charge you more year after year. Long lessons is not good for your child's musical development because most of the time, your child cannot pay full attention for the whole lesson. For grade 4 and under, 30 min lessons are enough. Grade 5-8, 45 min is enough (for private lessons). Also, having exams year after year actually deprives your child of exposure to learn more music. On average a student takes 1 year to prepare for an exam, and he/she only learns 3 songs per exam. Multiply that by 8 grades your child only knows 24 songs in his/her life. Doesn't make a competent musician. Music can only be learnt through lots of exposure. We Singaporean parents are too strongly influenced by the education system here that we think the only way to excellence is through multiple exams. This does not apply for music.
I was lucky to have an excellent teacher. I only set for exams for grades 3, 5, 7 and 8. In between she taught me to understand the different music styles, background of various music masters.
I have friends with grade 8 qualifications who can't play any songs other than their exam pieces. They can't even count beats properly, cannot understand how a song should be expressed at first look, can't play to the speed of a singer/choir. I am not joking. Because these are not the things in the typical exam syllabus. I consider them music failures.
I constantly reject students under 6, discourage them from taking exams unnecessarily, and will not lengthen their lessons just to charge them more money. Sadly many parents measure their kids' progress by piano exam grades, which actually has no bearing on his/her musical achievement. I understand why they do that because this is the only tangible milestone they can see, as most parents are non-musicians.
As a teacher myself, this is my very honest opinion coming from my and others' experience. I am not bashing other teachers and hope to offend no one. You may well disagree with me. I only wish to offer a different standpoint to what most parents hear/know. Of course there are always exceptions.
In general, engage a teacher only if he/she truly inspires your child to learn more about music. Reject those who constantly puts down your child, make him play out of fear, and make him dread facing piano lessons. Music should be fun to learn, intellectually stimulating, and not to be produced in a fearful, pressured manner.