Cherrymint90
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In search of an avenue to rant. TIA for your patience!
I was married once but the marriage only lasted for less than a year. We dated for more than 5 years before we decided to settle down but he wasn’t ready for the lifetime commitment. He asked for annulment and my world came crashing down.
Few years had passed and I’m still recovering from the pain. I managed to open up myself to meet stranger from online dating app recently and it came to my realization that I do not want a real relationship anymore but more of a FWB (a little more than friend but less than a couple).
Managed to matched a divorcee with kids (but kids not with him) and agreed upon the NSA arrangement. We met twice and went to bed once at his place (he stay alone), overall was good but I’m really afraid of the emotional attachment feelings would kick in anytime soon. We both have busy schedule, we are ok to meet 1-2 times in a month but text quite often during the day. I tried to ignore his message but he’ll always take the initiative to start the convo going.
This is my first time going into such arrangement and had done some reading to it. But might be hard to act on the actual arrangement. Should I call it quit and end this?
I was married once but the marriage only lasted for less than a year. We dated for more than 5 years before we decided to settle down but he wasn’t ready for the lifetime commitment. He asked for annulment and my world came crashing down.
Few years had passed and I’m still recovering from the pain. I managed to open up myself to meet stranger from online dating app recently and it came to my realization that I do not want a real relationship anymore but more of a FWB (a little more than friend but less than a couple).
Managed to matched a divorcee with kids (but kids not with him) and agreed upon the NSA arrangement. We met twice and went to bed once at his place (he stay alone), overall was good but I’m really afraid of the emotional attachment feelings would kick in anytime soon. We both have busy schedule, we are ok to meet 1-2 times in a month but text quite often during the day. I tried to ignore his message but he’ll always take the initiative to start the convo going.
This is my first time going into such arrangement and had done some reading to it. But might be hard to act on the actual arrangement. Should I call it quit and end this?
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