Junaine
last time my boy pun gitu,asyik nak dukung aje..but we have to discipline them.What I did at that time was firmly telling him that he must sit on the pram and I will NOT carry him up even tho he melalak..initially it was hard pasal he kept crying and i ignored..But after a while,he got used to it and he knows going out means no dukung2. Memang I ckp senang la eh but for some mummies, I know wont be that easykan..but no matter what, I always stick to my rules. So child will not get confused.
Nur
I thinkkan you shouldnt leave without telling her. When you do that,your child may feel more insecured. So I suggest,make known to her that you'd be back to fetch her..keep reminding her before goin to school that you are not going to stay on with her AND maybe you should try saying 'See you later' rather than 'bye2'.
Alamak I sound like a pro la..tapi sorry eh if I sound like one..tak sengaja,thought of sharing my genuine pendapat based on experiences and what I have learnt so far la..
Alhamdullilah, for my case, DS tak nangis for a 1st time in school when he was only 18mths. Takut juga pasal I heard if they do not cry,means they are unaware of the new environment around them. That shows the standard of alertness of a childla.. But for my case, I do not even have to stay in the class..he happily waved goodbye to me..asked me to leave. The class ada one way mirror in the observation room for mummies to see everything but the teachers and students cant see us..So its a plus point la that I can still see him..and was very surprised that he really enjoyed school!
So I really believe, input positive details about school to a child. It really helps mine..Just my two cents worth
Nora
I pun rasa tgh renovation..tapi a friend told me she just brought her child sana..so that one need to really reconfirm 1st. Tapi so far,respond on gathering mcm slow jer..
Mana Lani n Sasha? Tak nak join ke the gathering?