ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

sasha,
yalah, so kiasu hor? i doubt my maid will renew her contract lah, cause by the time her contrct with me ends, she would have been away fr home for 3yrs already. and i know she misses her son terribly, so not very nice to ask her to stay. besides, i don't want to be too dependent on a maid, ultimately i want to be maid-free one day. cannot get too lazy. i'm thinking once sarah is slightly older it would be much easier and we won't really need a maid ard.
 


Here r the long awaited photo, cumer ader 2 jer...gambar sasha whole family tak der lah...
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sasha kesian nyer u lepas satu satu sakit...makin slim lah ...heheheheh

betty... u gi maner ...dah lamer tak masuk......

amaars mom....ur son is as cute as the parents too..heppi belated bday to my hensem amaars :)


if u all wonder why i'm login so often tis 2 dayss...i'm on course lah...nanti tommorow dah kerja dan senyap...tak leh log in....weekend then i log in
 
sasha..

i was toking abt my cousin.. hahahaha.. bukan my hb... he's d one with a good voice.. ;p kalau my hb, okok je lah..
 
oh... dats u rupenyer eh... nice weather eh.. tapi very panas d terik ah~! i agak.. kalau i pi.. pakai tudung.. confirm kene heatstroke nyerr.. i cant stand hot weather ah.. :)
 
watie
quite hot..tat's y when meet up trus gi foodcourt...so next time meetup at 9-10 am better....so biler u leh join kiter...
 
insyaallah. kalau meet up pat west area.. haahaahha.. i got 2 small kids.. so very hard nak pi jauh2.. :)
 
west ...no prob...me also ader 2...another was sleeping tat's y not pix...usually got to tell my hubby to sent me if got meet up cos' cannot handle alone....last time when got 1 very easy to go meet up..
 
Zu...Ya..Adam's lembu tee is indeed very cute..macam orangnye jugak.
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Ryatie: Anymore pics? Both pics are beautifully taken...Your dd busy tengok apa tu?
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Sasha..Hope you and kids are feeling better now...I also benci sekali kalau kids sakit...lepas tu mak dia mesti sakit..snowball effect. Talking about maid, mine pun dah nak balik next yr. Sigh..Nak cari baru ni yang susah sekali since she has been with the family for 5 yrs now. Anyway, take care.
 
betty: hey u, yes u!! jumpa di sini rupanya hehe small small 'world' tapi kan awak jugak yg intro this forum..now dah hook! :p

Adam baby so cuteeeeeeee! who's his mom? i mean nick...
 
Zu!!
Adam so handsome!!! T-shirt pon cute!!

Ryatie
Hw come I didnt see sasha in the pic? Whr is she? gambar cuma itu aje eh? ade lagi tak?

Sasha
U tukang snap pic ke?? I hope all of u are feeling better now.. Anak2 sakit at least mommy's around to handle tapi kalau mommy dah sakit,who's goin to look after them..so ur health is important as well. take care.
 
here's r pixs...at last manage to download...juz now i download 2 wrong side...
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sasha not in pixs cos we went to the foodcourt..then i'd to go off...
 
Wah!! Banyaknye posts!!
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Baru dua ari ilang. hehehe...

Lani and Boo, ape yg Lembu tshirt? hahaha...
Dia cute in disguise je, bile buat I giler, tak cute langsung!!

Lani, yes. I pernah order dari Qzin. Memang bland langsung. Then i share same Adam. But utk sebulan je cos dorang slalu lambat, then salah kasi order 2x. senang memangla, tak yah susah2 masak. My dapur during dat period takde semut langsung. Maybe will continue la, actually saves money and electrik tau.
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Mas, I'm Adam's mom!
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Welcome here!

Watie, anak ko ru 2! anak Sasha 4 tp dia tetap datang.

Sasha, take care. Biasa ler budak2 kalo sakit kite yg sengsara. Tak cukup makn, tak cukup tido. hehe..
 
Thanks ryatie for the photos... best eh pegi meet up. insya'allah in future maybe more of us can join..

Lani
dah dapat buyer for ur place? Last time bile i put my place on the market, bile agent inform ade viewing kan, macam nak gile i kemas rumah.. nasib baik rumah kat sengkang tu tak besar sangat... but at that time it was so difficult to sell my house kat sengkang tu... so nerve wrecking.... then i had to pack for pindah.... wah lagi nerve wrecking.... tak tau lah how just the two of us can collect so much junk. dah lah tu, at that time my hb got five fish tanks to move also!
 
nora,
no we have not sold our place yet. haven't started marketing it yet. my agent adviced us to wait for our 1st hdb appt for the bishan flat 1st, then start marketing our flat, just in case the seller of the bishan flat backs out of deal at last minute. betul pun he cakap, i dont wanna end up stuck in a situation where i dah sell my place but got no house to move to.

i pun headache thinking abt how to pack my stuff. we have ALOT ALOT of stuff tau! my hubby ni karang guni jugak, everything also he will keep! and then we both buy alot of bks, cds, dvds, etc. i am planning to start packing now, then keep some of the stuff at my parents' empty flat 1st. so at least our house not so cluttered, then if ppl come and view the house pun at least will look pleasant. leceh eh nak pindah rumah? my hubby said aft this move we probably wont move for another 10-15yrs!
 
nora,
cakap pasal moving, i'm also in the midst of shifting. do you have any contacts of movers? realiable and yet tak burn pocket punye kind. the one that you had the last time, did they provide you with boxes tak?

lani,
where are bishan are you shifting? mahal kan fla kat sana? memang shifting home is memeningkan. from first appointment to the next..asyik sigh and pulang balik HDB. Sigh...lepas tu nak kena pack lagi...i'm also a karang guni...bukulah..mainanlah..baju...and i need to move out in may...that's like slightly more than a month's time...

zu,
you really ada banyak strollers ah...what's the max. weight for quinny zap? good to bring out when jogging kan? tapi very sure tak bole fit my ds. Lol.
 
You can try to contact the movers that i used his name is Kenny @ 9801 8331. But i moved more than 3 yrs ago.

I puashati with their service la. they do provide boxes. As much as u want, tak charge but when u unpack u return back to them. You call him first for quotation tau. No obligation. What i like is that a few days before the move he will send some men over to dismantle the bulky items like bed, cupboards and wrap them nicely. Even sofa and tables, washing machine pun all dorang wrap.

When looking for movers, be wary of those that dun come to look see before give quotation. My fren baru kena, cakap $200 and kasi kotak 15 keping aje.. manala cukup. that time i used like 45 boxes. Then on the actual day the movers demanded more money be dorang cakap banyak barang. Haggle haggle.. my fren kena top-up $120.

Lani
good idea to kemas the things u dun need first. so u tak rush, at the same time ringan ringan kan tangan la buang barang.... thats what i ended up doing when i dah tak kuasa nak kemas all the little knicks knacks. Mind you, i took me 6 mths to unpack everything u know.... i pun told my husband serik nak pindah pindah...
 
hi zu,
thanks! u hv such a cute son hehe

btw y are u selling the quinny zap? is it good? tot of getting for my son but too early now.
 
Adam is such a cutie. And the T-shirt's as cute as him. He's 2 already eh? My boy is turning 2 in June. Now already in terrible two stage so very difficult to bring him out on my own.

ryatie, lama tak masuk sini ah. Asyik jenguk sprees ajer. And busy with my 2 boys summore.
 
boo,
i am moving to bishan st 12, very very near the central area. it's an EA, with 4 bedrooms, exactly what we were looking for. we managed to find a flat that is selling below valuation, at $385K, cause owner want to sell off quickly and she had difficulties finding buyer, cause chinese not eligible. luckily i am malay, so hdb allow us to use my race.

i have 1 mover to recommend, another mummy on this forum recommended to me - First Professional Movers (contact person joe - 94506887). i think it's $300 per move, they will give unlimited no. of boxes.

nora,
yah i need to start packing now so can do slowly. maklumlah, got a toddler at home, so can't spend all day packing. so each day maybe 2-3hrs can lah, probably when she is napping/sleeping. i also like to throw away things when i pack, but i can't do in front of hubby, cause he is a hoarder. if he see me throwing away anything he will take it back and keep it! he will say can still use lah....
 
Hi mummies,
Nak kasi tahu aje after all the help that some of you mummies give me....my son's b'day mini birthday party celebration went well. Mak i..kata masak simple, bila sampai, nak pengsan! macam kenduri! Periuk semua besar-besar. Padahal, cuma my parents, my sisters & hubby, my son & me. Dia masak pulut kuning, kari ayam, sambal telur, roti jala, chilli ketam, nasi lemak, mango pudding then still have my son's birthday kek! I kena tapau lauk-pauk bila balik. Nanti bila gambar dah siap, i post kat sini. Kena pakai tradisional punya kamera pasal digital kamera dah rosak. Hai..nasib.

Hari ini, hati i tak senang. I terkejut dari tidur dengan telefon dari childcare. Teacher anak i bilang that dia ada diarrhoea and her exact words.."screaming in pain". So can you imagine perasaan i? I told her i overseas and ask her to call my hubby. Tapi i kat sini dah frantic gila. Telefon my hubby and my mother. I minta tolong my mother ambil my son dari childcare and jaga dia. Dari 2 pagi i dapat telefon, sampai sekarang tak boleh tidur. Walaupun mak i kata jangan susah hati, dia dah jaga anak i..tapi hati i not in peace. kalau boleh macam nak terbang balik. Kalau i balik, boss i cekik i. Hai..dilemma. Sorry eh mummies..just need to pour kat forum ni.
 
Boo, yr hero tak le naik Zapp la. ;P Its not very good for jogging also. Cos the wheel is too smooth. U can try the Silvercross. Its heavy duty, definitely can fit yr boy. U come up my place and see. I really wana get rid of them la cos its space consuming. Besides i ada 2 lg stroller pat rmh.
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Mas, the Zapp is good. Very smooth bile ditolak. Tapi only one position. I like cos mcm stylo gitu. haha.. Good for travelling overseas. I jual pasal i nk bli stroller baru tt can combine the qualities of the two 3wheelers i nk jual nie. hehe.. Besides the big jogger nie heavy duty. Kalo i kuar sorang tak larat nk angkat.
 
bettybad, my boy turning 2 in May.
Same la. Dia still manageable bile i kuar two-gether dgn dia. Tp bile kuar dgn my PILs, tak tau ape nk cakap. I give up. Kalo ckp byk2 bole jadi gaduh. Bukan ape, dorang nie manja kan dia sgt. So dia pon naik la tocang! Then kalo da start nangis, haiz... Malu seh! Tak boleh stop. Dia tau kan ade org backing. Tp biasa la, i tak kasi chance.
 
Hi Lani

Your new flat tu really a good buy lah considering the location and area! Mine is EM. I pun same the owner desperate to sell. When we were looking at EA and EM, my hb and I always prefer the EM. That's y we ended up buying. TAPI bila nak mengemas, baru padan muka i!! HAHAHA

zU,
Banyaknya stroller you ada! Buat apa bnyk2? Memang take up space lah. Nati kalau ada second one kan masih blh pakai..

Yati
Finally our pics are up! Cute lah Adam. Yg the pic where he was squatting down tu lagi cute!

Boo
U nak pindah ke mana pulak?

Sasha
Kesian nya u!! Take more vitamins and if u buy lozenges for ur sore throat get the green big ones. Can't remember the name lah but it's v good!

k lah sume back to my setting of exam paper... sigh!
 
Eh.. anyone know why i can post here but not at the overseas spree section. Its not that i am starting a spree.. i want to join the spree... or is GOD is telling me dun spend my money... aarrgghhh.
 
Sharena,
Moving to my dad's block...just four floors up. Senanglah...cos I've been staying at dad's place for quite a while. And ever since mum got ill, we've been there..helping out. So now with this flat that i'm going to be moving into, insyaAllah it'll be best for the kids.

Lani,
Lucky you! Flats there are normally very ex. And 4 bedrooms - that's what I'd like to have actually. Shiok..Satu boleh convert bilik main...kids pasti shiok!!!
 
nora,

i like how you think. hahaa! kalau tak boleh post, just PM the spree organiser.

ic,
what a plight you are in! how many more days before you can come back?
 
ic,
oh dear. this is what i dread about being a working mom lah, being worried sick abt your child and not being able to do much abt it. you just hang in there, i know your mum is taking good care of arshad.

sharena,
we also went to look ard at some EMs in bishan, but owners asking for very high, so we don't want. anyway, i takut lah stay in 2-storey flat with staircase, my dd ni suka naik-turun tangga. she can do that the whole day when we are at my parents' house in JB! kesian my maid gotta follow her up and down...and she very stubborn you know, orang nak pegang tangannya di tak kasi, abis bengis pulak tu, will shout "NO!!"

anyway, i used to stay in EM at tampines before with my parents (before i got married) and i know what it's like to clean up the place!

boo,
yah, having 4 bedrooms shiok eh? currently my 5rm flat got 3 bedrooms and it's not enough, cause 1 masterbedroom, 1 my dd's rm and 1 is hubby's study/office. we need an extra rm for a guest rm, cause my parents come and stay over at least once a week, and now when they are here they will sleep in the rm with my dd. anyway, if in future we have another child then each child can have their own bedroom also.

eh, nice nya you stay in the same block as your parents. i pun suka if i am staying near my parents. last time when hubby and i 1st bought this tampines flat of ours, we were just 5mins away fr my parents. very nice, can go over any time, and stay there till very late. then if my mum masak they will send lauk, etc. and when we go out with my bro & sis senang, can send both of them home at the same time.

but now my parents dah retire and pindah JB, so jauh (both my siblings pun dah kahwin and got their own places). only see them once a week, and once a mth we spend a weekend there with them.
 
Zu, here's the longwinded fishball recipe extracted frm one mummy's blog. Hv yet to try it though.

Fish Ball, Fish Cake

One of the favourite hawker foods in Singapore is fishball noodles. You would not catch me eating fishballs from hawker stalls though, not even if there was no more food left on this planet. I'd rather die. Most of the fishballs here have not been anywhere near a fish, being made mostly of fillers and artificial everything they really qualify as fake food. I have grown up eating home-made fishball for years and it is not too impossible to make.
The recipe here is truly a family recipe. My father obtained it from a fishmonger in Ipoh oh, 30 years ago. Now it has been passed to my husband, who usually makes it. I shy away from making this as it needs a strong forearm. It has only three ingredients: fish, salt and pepper. Some people may use a salt solution, that's perfectly acceptable. To make it even more tasty, one can add chopped reconstituted dried squid, dried sole or shitake mushrooms. But this recipe does not contain any pork or flour. The paste for fishball can be shaped into balls or cakes (hence fishcakes), so I am using the terms fishball and fishcake interchangeably here. Of course, it can also be modified with spices and herbs to make it spicy, Thai, Indian and so on.

Saitoh makes sweet fishcake, but are terribly bony. Yellowtail would be a good candidate but they come in small sizes and would make for much hard work. Husband got instead, 2 medium sized whole mackerels. The criteria for the fish is that it can be processed into a gluey paste, and these are only examples, your fishmonger may suggest better substitutes.

The whole fish is gutted and scaled by the fishmonger. At home, the head is cut off, and the fish filleted. A spoon is used to carefully scrap the flesh from the skin and bones. Sometimes, like here, the fish may have some roe, which is delicious panfried and dipped in salt and pepper.

The paste is then seasoned with a little salt and white pepper. White pepper more than salt. Now comes the tough part. Using just a metal spoon, the fish meat is "mashed and smashed" against the side of the bowl repeatedly, to try to work the flakes into glue. An alternative method is to use two cleavers and repeatedly mince the fishmeat on a chopping board, though I've never seen this technique before. The paste is about done when the colour turns 2-3 shades paler. To test the texture, a blob is cooked in some boiling water. It should have a chewy almost bouncy texture, with absolutely no trace of fish flakes, although it will not be as bouncy as commercial version. This part may take 40 minutes if you have strong forearm, otherwise you can do it for one whole day and it would still not glue-ify.
Then the paste is shaped into either balls or cakes, and panfried till cooked.

It can be boiled of course, but I prefer it fried, as it can then be cooled and packed in Tupperware and frozen for future use. The cakes are sliced and then cooked with vegetables or in a konlo noodles. Fishballs are very popular with adults and children, just make a dipping sauce to accompany it. Another use for the fish paste is to stuff it into vegetables like bittergourd rounds, wedges of eggplant, beancurd sheets and tofu to make Yong Tau Fu. The two mackerel yielded about 25 pieces of fishcake. Whatever you do to it, the taste is still of briny, sweet fish, and its firm bite and wonderful texture makes it the perfect alternative to meat.
 
hai semua,
i think baru 1 hari setengah tk masuk...ur msgs all dah berjela-jela. as usual lost!

hb & i also gonna start looking for a place soon. at the moment, we are renting so very rugi! but then hv to wait for him to apply his PR...dari tahun lepas i kept teklling him to, asyik "its not right time yet".

my status at the moment: si abang pulak dah naik demam. they are all coughing & 2 having runny noses. i think i am coming down wt smthg as well
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i dah jokingly bilang my hb, kalau i sakit, admitkan ajelah kat hospital so i can relaks! haha

so wat is everybody's plan for the weekend? i'm gonna hv to play it by ear...

Baby Einstein DVD:
if anybody interested, PM me. my friend dah order 3rd batch tapi only 5 mommies aje so dia adelah extra. its $120 for 22 DVDs.
 
hai semua,
i think baru 1 hari setengah tk masuk...ur msgs all dah berjela-jela. as usual lost!

hb & i also gonna start looking for a place soon. at the moment, we are renting so very rugi! but then hv to wait for him to apply his PR...dari tahun lepas i kept teklling him to, asyik "its not right time yet".

my status at the moment: si abang pulak dah naik demam. they are all coughing & 2 having runny noses. i think i am coming down wt smthg as well
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i dah jokingly bilang my hb, kalau i sakit, admitkan ajelah kat hospital so i can relaks! haha

so wat is everybody's plan for the weekend? i'm gonna hv to play it by ear...

Baby Einstein DVD:
if anybody interested, PM me. my friend dah order 3rd batch tapi only 5 mommies aje so dia adelah extra. its $120 for 22 DVDs.
 
Sasha
We hear your lament! hahaha... gara2 post bnyk kali...

Mummies
ya, i remembered that making a fishball is that easy in terms of ingredients but to make it perfectly round and bouncy is not!

Tapikan kalau kita buat sendiri, sedap atau tidak, our kids mesti makan punya.
 
this weekend i kena pegi geylang, nak beli day curtain material. bec i just realised this morning that the day curtain in my room dah koyak as in tattered (sp?)...so strange eh.. my hb cakap makan hari agakye... then i got to beg my aunty to sew for me. i wish i can sew curtain, so expensive la the workmanship.
 
NORA

i senang2 beli curtains kat metro or ikea... Lagi senang. Kalau nak murah, my MIL kata kat Batam! They even send to you... Can consider lah.
 
Buy from metro or ikea pun kena adjust adjust la. I punye rumah sewing machine pun takde. Ni da kira darurat la, have to ask my aunty to do a rush job.

anyway i pernah pegi tanjung pinang dgn my mum buat curtain, memang la dirt cheap. The price i pay for one balcony curtain in s'pore i bole dapat the whole house punye curtain when i order from tanjung pinang but material dia tak banyak choice sangat. Anyway, makan kat tanjung pinang best tau... I never been to Batam, but sejak u cakap pasal spa kat Holiday Inn sane tu, macam teringin pulak nak try.

Phew... its the end of the work week...best
 
nora
for me i decided to use blind after i realise that the blinds in my ofis was so low maintenace cos' everytime hari ray got hard time changing the house curtain...so at last only my rm ader curtai ...the rest evry samer ajer...most ppl said like chinese house but i dun care too tired to change so just vaccuum...abt the price is quite worth it to think that can use more 10yrs...parahkan aku nie...
 
yatie

i agree with you. At the beginning memang i nak pasang blinds in all the rooms and one side of the windows at dining area tapi time tu dah nak hari raya rasa macam curtain look nicer so bought lahat the last minute. Pagi raya pun my hb and i masih pasang curtains and kemas rumah! Dahlah tgh pregnant 8 mths! In the end kul 2 baru dpt keluar gi rumah our parents.

Haiz... cakap pasal raya pulak! Think of the spring cleraning boleh jadi back breaking!
 
zu, usually I dulu memang keluar berdua-duaan with my little boy tapi semenjak ada adik ni susah la. Kalau my hubby ada lagi terrible attitude dia pasal papa dia kuat back-up.

My house cuma living room jer ada curtains. Tu pun I beli yg dah siap from Guardian or Spotlight. The rooms I use those cheap white roman blinds from Ikea. Kalau berhabuk sikit, just vacuum. Bila kotor jer belilah baru. Hehe.
 
my hb ni tak suke pakai blinds bec rumah mak dia dulu pakai blinds for the whole house, color pink pulak tu..

Dulu i first time raye kat rumah sendiri tu pun bertungkus lumus kemas rumah. then we realise, other than adik beradik takde org datang sebab kite kan org mude... so after that for first day raye kite relak aje.. no hurry.. org pun tak datang rumah kite on first day.
 
Fasal Kain Langsir

My curtain so far cuma kat living room aje.
Heheee.. Bilik sume takde curtains sebab we
realised no one can look into our bedrooms. So,
kita malas nak pasang curtains sejak kita pindah
4 years ago. Hahahaaaa! Terok, eh?


Fasal Kemas Rumah Time Raya

Samalah nora. Kita tungkus lumus kemas rumah.
yang datang cuma adik beradik aje. Buang karen,
kan? So, we no longer work hard to spring clean
the house time bulan puasa. Dah seminggu lepas
raya, baru start masukkan kuih inside the jars
etc. Dapatlah beribadat lebih time bulan puasa.
(Tidur tu ibadah kan?)
 
nora
my blind ..is those roll blinds..when in day ppl fr outside cannot c us when there's no sun or light in the house. The colour u can choose alot of variety..so i chose light brown to match wat ever colour if i would change painting....

naddy
u nie klakar lah....anyway bab kemas rumah usually my hubby yg buat cos i cannot kemas rumah at home my dd stick to me like glue unless dia org tak der baru boleh du my chores.....
 
Wow, I give up! Cannot keep up with the too many posts. I pun tengah busy pindah. But for me pindah kerja!!

My company posting me to another office. From Bishan to Woodlands. At first quite angry cos it will be too far for me since I stay in Bedok area and has to travel all the way to Woodlands. But i"m taking it with a positive stride that it will be a better prospect.

The worst is still leaving my dear friends/colleagues. Sob! Sob! Nasib baik tak banjir office!!

Thanks for all the comments on Amaar. He memang gelap, follow his dad. When I go out with him alone, they could not believe that it's my son cos I'm very fair.

Ryatie, I know you!! Our hubbies study in Oz together, roomies. You should know who I am.
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mademoiselle
ya lor after i saw amaars photo..then i kno this hensem son was urs...bab pindah kerja, for me also feel sad kena tf, work 4 9 yrs tf 3 times already, luckily got driver...hehehhe..
 


Haiii cepat betol la thread ni..
Cant really keep up..
Talking about kemas rumah during raya.. tell me about it!! Thread kita yg during puasa tu tengok la..semua ckp pasal mengemas rumah jer..

Mademoiselle
My hubby pon kulit gelap but my son boleh terikut kulit i pulak..tapi muka dia exactly muka papa dia..so kalau i keluar berdua ajekan..nyonya2 straight away tahu,"wah ur son look like his daddy ah!" To me eh nyonya ni mcm tahu jer..so that means betol la tu takde mirip i!! Even relatives dekat or jauh semua ckp muka papa dia. Masa baru2kan quite disappointed tau(boleh gitu?). Yelah pasal I carried him in tummy for 9mths then tak dpt credit langsungkan!!Hahahaha... Kulit jer la tu pun tak berapa fair pasal dah combine kulit my hubby..

Watie
Whr are you? Senyap jer..so how's the audition yday..ur hubby gets to the nxt round? hopefully yes!! I was there to support some..halfway thru I pergi bishan then patah balik jurong pun the Q masih panjang,org2 yg I nak support pun masih belom nyanyi2 lagi!! Can u imagine pple beratur dlm panas then hujan!! Some were there as early as 6AM!!! Semangat kesenian betol!!
 

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