ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

hi sasha, thanks!
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Hi Mas

Welcome! Welcome!
So still on maternity leave eh.. best la..cherish the time you have bec once u start work, susah nak dapat time dgn baby. So who helps you now?

Botanic Gardens.. actually i never go u know. Will go with boboi one of these days la. kalau tempat takde air-con ni susah sikit i nak sampai..heheh
 
thanks nora!

nope..i'm already in the office..started my maternity leave abt 3wks before i gv birth. had to clear leave. but will be going on 1 wk leave in apr n june..balance maternity leave hehe

i agree kalau dha start work mcm not enuff time wif baby...by the time balik most days baby dah tido...only time we get to interact is during his feeds or nappy change. sedih at times.

my mom's helping me now..hehe..selamat! urself? tell me more ya...
 
Mas

Me too, my mum jage baby 24/7 la. She is satying with me, memang la without her i dun know what to do.. Weekends only my son will sleep with me. Teruk eh I... kalau tak enuf sleep i cant function.. mesti lepak at my desk!!

Most days i will reach home at abt eight. Then my boy sleeps at around 9.30 so kelam kabut la nak spend time with him. At the same time terasa jugak penat after the whole day at the office. Age is really catching up. Bile weekends I will bring him out la.. now he is coming to eight mths already. Ade gigi dua, 2 more coming soon.

Next week he's going for his first pneumococcal (sp not sure, but u know what i mean)shots. Usually when he goes for his normal shot dia tak demam la. Tak tau abt this one.

How mommies, when your baby pegi pneumococcal shots ade demam tak?
 
nora..

all of a sudden im feeling a little aprehensive.. i ask my hb.. u sure nak join??? i told him takya lah.. takot buang masa ajerr.. coz i takot he cant handle d rejection lah...

mas bunnyz,
i see.. so u r d one eh... i added u as my contact.. aniway, salam perkenalan.. :)
 
Hi all!

Wah, I MIA for so long. Really busy with work and the little one.

Thanks Lani for the wishes. Amaar had a great time at his party too. He had 2 rounds of swimming (sampai naik hitam). We did it at a relative's condo where the party is facing the pool. All the kids had a great time -swimming and eating.

And when he saw his Barney cake, he is so excited that he kept touching it. But by 7pm, our friend is so tired that he slept in the car on the way home.

I'm so busy that we opened his presents only last Tuesday. Will upload the pics soon!


ic, Amaar can't have his hair cut at the shop too. He will scream his head off. So now we'll do it when he's asleep. So far, the best method among all.
Mas, Welcome onboard.
 
nora

abt d sex bebas issues... sadly to say.. yup its happening.. n its sad lah.. but den, kite pon cant do anitin to help dem.. d least we can do is 2 didik anak2 kite... :) i do have a lot of frens yg mcm tu.. i mean.. not dat age grp lah.. in d twenties range.. to dem its normal.. mcm hari2 tukar baju.. for me, i dun judge dem by dat way lah.. after all dey r my frens.. i juz look on their good sides.. :)
 
sasha, 10am to Botanics Gdn ade berat sikit. hehe.. Tp kekadang kalo i bangun siang i dun mind. Beats gg in the afternoon! Nak cari cab pun susah. Pas tu ada pulak peak surcharge and watnots. :p Oh yes, swan Lake tu memang Adamnye favorit. Dgn kolam ikan yg pat atas foodcourt tu. Okie, i PM u my number.

If u nak pi zoo on weekday, I on also.
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mas..welcome on board...

so bz with werk having ISO till got no time 2 log in...nice meeting u gals n kids n the Man as well..sorri 4 not able 2 stay long..anyway my "pro" photographer ia asleep now...will tell him to downld the photo...

zu..adam is so cute n photo genic..ya lor Zu i dun tthink my older dd kno she was even there....du u kno she sleep till 7pm...n at 11pm she can still sleep again without me forcing her 2 sleep..

sharena ur gal is so slim not like my dd so gedabak..

sasha ur kids r so hensum n cute so r ur 2 gals..

hope 2 meet longer in the next met up...

wah the thread is going so fast ..cannot catch up..
 
Hey ppl!

WAH! The thread is sure moving fast huh! Baru log in semalam hari ni dah berjela!

Tgh cool down after kickboxing class so thot of checking out the thread.

Welcome Mas!

Abt the teens sekarang ni memang tak tahu apa i nak cakap. I realise that the girls are the one who are becoming more problematic. They are more daring now. InsyaAllah our daughters tak berperangai macam tu. I guess it's the westernised culture that are now very rampant. If u watch MTV u'll know what i mean. Too much sexual implications around sebab tu they think it's normal.

Anyway, kita banyk berdoa lah ya..

Sasha, I came across the thread where you were collecting names for ordering baby einstein cds. Is it good those cds? I've heard of them and apparently the kids learn a lot from those cd. Betul ke? I ingat nk order from you too but is it still on? As for your back pain kan I think it is cos of epidural. I've heard of mums who had that complain abt back pain. Even with me, I had the GA, I get back pains too. Malam2 selalu sapu YOKO YOKO. Baru boleh sedap tidur.By the way, apa your secret of losing your pregnancy weight? I really envy your figure lah! Selim melim! hahaha. Were u a stewardess befoe? Ada tokoh lah.

Yatie, it's ok lah. Pasal kita jumpa lambat kan.. Lain kali pun masih boleh jumpa lagi.

Siapa2 yg tinggal in the west, kita boleh ajak our kids swim at cicil service club bukit batok. I'm a member so can take in 4 adult guests tapi kena bayar $1 on weekday and $2 on weekend. My hb pun member so can take another 4. So siapa yg nak gi, we can arrange a gathering there.

My dd dah pandai tiarap skrg. Kelakar jugak tgk dia. Whenever we put her down slalu nk roll over aje. Kalau tangan dia stuck, she seems so determined to move her hand. Can be frustrated pulak tu. Bila penat dia rest head dia on the bed. Then try again. hahaha

I ingat nak put her in the Baby Gym kat cdans sini.. They charge 350 for 10 1hr sessions and they will use GD Flashcard approach. But belum sign up lagi lah. Heard there's a waiting list too. Entah betul ke tak.

Watie

Mana satu pulak ur hubby? Boleh kita cheer him on! Good luck eh.. Next Sat kan?
 
Sharena, wah!! panjang berjela seh crite. hahaha...
I got some of those VCDs. Baby Einstein. First tym i tgk boring la tp lame2 interesting jugak. At least for Adam lar gaknye. U nk pinjam, u drop by my place la. If u tink its good, then u can buy the whole set from Shasha. Its still cheaper than buying individually.
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BJG pat CDANS tu memang lar ada waiting list. Tapi slalu macam gitu la. Mktg tactics gaknye.
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Shasha, kalo kuar sorang gaknye org tak tau anak dia EMPAT!
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hey Zu

macam mana u tahu pasal BJG? U pernah masukkan Adam kat sana?

Ok nanti i pinjam dari u one cd dulu tgk cam mana.
Tak perasan pulak tadi i tulis panjang berjela.. hahaha
 
helo sharena,

yup.. its next week.. seram sejuk aku.. mcm nak cakap dgn die takya masok suda..
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coz its a very <font size="+2">BIG</font> step lah.. n oso we have other things 2 settle on dat dat.. unfortunately... thnx for ur support..
 
Zu,
Ok, I gt your ctc. But nxt week susah sikit pasal my younger bujang ni dah kena bronchitis lagi. Termasuk hari ni, dah 3 days, we are trapped at home. Better than him kena masuk hospital!

We can do the gardens abt 11am jugak if you want. Slalu I stay sampai 12.30pm gitu pasal by that time dah panas terik & usually we wld walk down to Tanglin Mall for lunch. What time Adam usually have his afternoon nap?

Psst, you read my mind on the zoo! Macam tahu aje I try to take the kids there at least once a wk too
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Biasalah, whatever to keep them occupied.

I will SMS you!

Ryatie,
Kesian your older girl. How old is she? My eldest dah stop napping since 3yrs. Abeh kalau ptg balik skolah, bising mulut dia. I jugak yg kena layan!

Ur younger girl kalau compare to yours lagi gedabak! At 6mths dah nearly 8.5kg & now she started on solids, semua dia bedal...lagi lah gedabak!
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Sharena,
Ya my friend lah tu nak kan discount so we did the BP. Kalau you interested, I can put in order for you cause we are ordering 3rd batch.

For me, I found the DVDs very good for my kids. On top of that, I bought them the book etc also. You test-drive frm Zu first then if you nak the whole set (22 DVDs), just PM me lah. I think my friend will order 3rd batch sometim nxt week.

Backpain, I rasa I will go doctor minta painkiller. I mean, seriously what can I or the doctor do but prescribe medication which I tk minat sangat makan ubat-ubat! Damage is done. Guess I just have to watch my posture etc lah.

My rahsia, simple. Have 4 kids then look after them yourself & do housework etc. Pasti success story in 2-3mths
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No lah, I think I very lucky pasal my body ni has high metabolism so I burn fats very quickly. Slalu lepas makan, I will perspire like anything & if I walk for 10-15mins, also the same thing. But I still flabby lah on the thighs, arms & tummy...cuma you tk nampak aje
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Tak de lag gi slimming session or makan ubat etc. At most, I only had 5 sessions of urut badan lepas bersalin for each child. I ni pun hantu junk, tk makan sihat langsung! Just pure luck lah...

Stewardess tu no lah but almost wt Silk Air or Emirates. Tapi tk menjadi pasal Emirates hv to be based in Dubai...tak rela berpisah wt my family
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Watie,
Dah lama tk dengar khabar...menjelma pun dia! Let us know kalau your HB dapat masuk, kita boleh vote dia...
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It is a BIG but BRAVE step...if its his passion, then your support wld mean the world to him!
 
Hi Sasha

My stepsister pun dulu dgn Emirates. She had to stationed in Dubai. But the perks really solid lah! She's a british so she got 300 pounds of call allowance. Then plus her other allowance sume she could earn abt 3000 pounds!! Really good money seh and she only did her 'A' Levels halfway.Tapi dia pun very brand conscious and would spend loads on clothes and shoes. Tapi pakai sekali terus put one side. Kalau I ni size dia, dah lama I cekup! Dia dulu pun very skinny but now dah gedabak (i ni cakap org pandai)! Anyway she resigned already aft working for a year. She got into bad debts. Imagine at 20 dah in bad debts? Anyway, dulu pun i pernah ada cita2 nak jadi stewardess but only becos of the privilege to travel. Tapi aft frequent flying i changed my mind. I can't imagine myself working as a waitress in the air and have to get over jetlags. Lagipun kalau i nak pun my dad is so dead against it. But i also heard bad stories abt them lah, entah lah betul ke tak.

Well enuf of that! Anyway Sasha, u ni cakap u still flabby on the thighs, arms and tummy???? Klau u punya dah flabby, i punya apa seh?

Memang betul lah eh, we women can never be happy with our bodies... My sis pernah told me that when she went to her slimming centre, org yg dah kurus pun masih nk gi slimming! Kan waste duit?

Sigh... k lah i ni dah banyak songeh... nanti boring pulak u all.

Enjoy the rest of the weekend!
 
sasha my dd at 6 mths her weight was 8.7kg...penat i angkat dia...dahlah tangan i sekeping..kadang2 mcm nak putus...my elder is 30mths old...yesterday lagi she hit record.. sleep from 4.30pm till 6.30am w/o wake up...so end up i tak keluar...abeh fedup tis morning dia bangun trus i tell my hb gi jb mkn mac...

sharena i pun dream nak jadi stewardess tapi hajat tak sampai..cos when dah grow survey2 gaji not tak great cuma dapat fly here n therer so ended up...now work like mad then gi holiday...lagi dah tambah satu lagi broke...so now i tot of migrating instead cos dah almost a century i kerja so tot nak jaga my kids...but not sure whether i get use to it...but i guess i'll try...

Zu..lepas sharena borrow i leh borrow tak...anyway..i have baby i can read cds if u 1 to borrow...
 
I think it's every girl's dream to be a stewardess. Gorgeous looking and yet get to travel.

My sis is with Emirates now. But the reality is far from every girl's dream. Hard to please customers , back ache from helping to put the hand luggage and not to mention jet lag. Sometimes she did not sleep for 24 hours. Tough!
 
ladies,
cakap pasal jadi stewardess ni, dulu banyak orang pernah ask me & my sis whether kita pun nak jadi stewardass once kita dah habis sekolah, and our answer was always no. cause my father worked with the airline before, as an inflight supervisor, then us kids used to travel with him, then we always hang ard with him and his crew, then when i see how hard they have to work, it's really not easy and not glamorous tau. kena deal with difficult & sometimes drunk passengers, suffer fr jet lag and sleep deprivation, & i think the worst job is kena clean the aircraft toilet! and it's really bad if got orang mabuk muntah in there!

anyway, even if my sis and i wanted to become stewardesses also tak boleh! cause we both don't meet the minimum height requirement! maklumlah, family ada gene katik...haha!
 
Sharena

u da pegi BJG punye trial lesson? i macam interested but so far la.. by the time i drive there my boboi pun da tido. nanti dia bangun cranky cranky dah lah muke dia perpetually masam...

Whats the time table like for the weekend class?


Shasha
how much for the whole set of baby einstein dvds?

I actually have the baby genius series (4 or 5 dvds) but my boboi bile watch macan takde reaction aje. as usual muke dia masam. Actually when pple ask me if my son look like me or my hubby, i tell them he look like bouncer outside club..hehehe
 
hey allz,

many thanks for the warm welcome!

this thread is sure going very fast....i baca sampai mabuk hehe

to nora: u r very lucky to hv ur mum wif u 24/7...for me everyday kena commute...send n pick up my son...only on some days my mum pujuk baru we sleep over. so far i belom seperated from my baby at nite...confirm i yg melalak hehe wkend is def precious kan
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Hi ppple

Mas, memang nora is lucky to have her mum stay with her. I wish iy could be the same for me too.
At the moment I send my dd to my in-laws which is opp the school that i teach. But then nothing beats having your own mum. Kalau nak comment pun takkan rasa serba salah..

Lani, you have highlighted the worst part which is toilet cleaning.. I can't bring myself to clean public toilets! EEEEWWWW!!

Mademoiselle, actually kan the SIA girls tak lah gorgeous. Diorang tu act aje gorgeous. Ada satu hari tu when I came back from Penang, I saw one SIA stewardess tgh tunggu her ride, like I was lah. Muka dia punyalah masam! I mcm nk go ovr to her and tell her that by putting up that kind of face, ppl might change their perception of SIA girls! *naughty grin* Tapi baik punya pasal, cuma simpan dlm hati aje lah.

Zu, bila agaknya I boleh ambik dari you ehhh..hmmm
 
hi Sharena,

tu lah...but Alhamdullillah my own mum yg jaga..kalau MIL...haizzz seram...semua kena *zip* hehe

btw dd tu apa eh? u all dha lama kenal each other?
 
Sharena, i da sms u.

Ryatie, i ade lagi satu BB Einstein kalo you nk tgk.
In fact i got a few. Cume i tink abt 3 je yg suitable for babies below age 1. Dun nid the BB Can Read. I also used to hv tp da dijual cos I dun find it suitable for Adam.
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my mom also stays with me and jaga my 2 boys....while my MIL stays in Pahang.
She ever offer me nak take care my 1st son on dat time....but no way lah coz tooo far away. Kan later my 1st son tak kenal i pulak.
 
Hi all

yes i am counting my lucky stars. My mum pun solo, so she can put in her time and effort to jage cucu.

Anyway, i think my mom can never do anything wrong while she jage my boboi bec she loves kids and now still care for my niece and nephew. So they will come to my place in the morning, go to school at noon then after dinner, my sis will fetch them. so my house actually always riuh la. Kalau weekend dorang tak datang then we feel bored.

Anyway, tax season is here... at last.. finally.. after years.. of doing my taxes.. now i can claim child relief....and grandparent caregiver relief.... happi seh...
 
and... working mother child relief... memang da lama i dendam gomen bec i always tak dapat claim banyak reliefs and then bulan bulan bayar income tax...sigh... and then kalau kasi those perks i always dapat yg paling sikit, so pathetic...
 
mas.....yup my MIL stays there and only on holiday umum then she will come here and meet her cucus. Anyway I selalu jugak travel gi pahang and meet the rest of the family.

b4 my mom jaga my 1st son, she willingly to resigned from her 15yrs of work to jaga my son....very2 appreciate with her.
 
^5 noni...i pun tak sabar nak buat those reliefs...thanks for reminding! hehe

sis mas...u r lucky...not easy to get a MIl as nice. btw is it tough to travel wif a baby...tot of taking a short break..but dunno how to start hehe takut he nangis n we dunno wat to do..
 
hey nora

i pun sama mcm u. Kali ni dapat jugak child relief. My hb usually claims for his mum.

Bertahun i byr tax bnyk2 and the perks pun sikit!

Nak downgrade lah gini...
 
alamak, very quiet today...

zu,
have you ever ordered tingkat meals from qzin before? sedap tak? how is the portion for 2 ppl? is the food pedas?
 
u got microsoft picture manager?? kalau ader.. either u compress.. atau u resize lah.. either way oso can.. :)
 
Wahhhh
dah lama tak masuk so many to catch up!!! No time to read all the above but eyes detected a newcomer...

Welcome Mas!!
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Watie
Gd luck to your hubby for this sat..Suami ku nak join tapi kesiannya dah tua,tak meet the cut off age ler..

Mademoiselle
Boy u kulit so tan and handsome!! Mata bulat sekali..I like boys who are tan..if too fair mcm tak boyish kan..just like my son..He's on the fair side..put him under the sun pun tak jadi tan mcm kulit boy u tu!!

The get-together session
Mama, mommy, ibu and ummi yg pergi tu,hw,happening? Heard u guys met 2 hrs later??!!! Sesat ke semua?? Whr is the picture? Still waiting tau..
 
shermin,

d cut off age is 30 kan?? hehe.. my cuz last time.. he audition 3 kali.. first 2 times, 1st auditon tak lepas.. den d 3rd audition, he got till d competition round.. dat was in d year 2005.. but he mintak undur diri.. coz due 2 some personal reason lah.. wat a waste.. kalau tak he could be in d finals already sey.. coz he really got a good voice.. its not easy tau.. so i rase.. my hb nie eh... isk2... i pun dun dare nak cakap d outcome..
 
amaars mom,
wow you boy punya badan damn solid eh! very tough looking, esp him standing next to that skinny scrawny boy!! no offence eh...hee....siapu tu? his cousin eh?
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i long time never some here oredi. ada meet-up kat botanic gardens? bila?

lani,
i ordered food from qzin before. we ordered during bulan puasa because i tak sanggup masak sahur pagi2 buta.

the food was too bland for my malay tongue lah. it was so painful eating the food every morning.

1 portion was enough for 2 persons, though. kita cuma masak nasi aje. we ordered 3 dishes + 1 soup.
 
Hi ibu-ibu semua,
Oh gosh, i had such a long 2 days wt very little sleep. biasalah kan, bila budak-budak sakit. Started wt my younger twin Rayhan over the weekend wt bronchitis then adik dia, Saarah got infected but luckily her lungs are clear. Yesterday, the other 2 decided to join the club & today mak dia woke up wt a bad sore throat!

Ahhh...all this penyakit! So benci...

Mademmoiselle,
Ya, ur boy is so cute. His eyes so bulat!
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Watie,
From what you said, your hubby sounds talented. Biar aje lah he join this time, manalah tau...besok lusa you ni jadi isteri to a celebrity
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Shermin,
I dont have pix of the gathering, rush Ryatie for them
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Tak sesat cuma we all arrived at different places. Satu kat Arrival Centre, satu in the middle of the gardens, lagi dua pulak near the Taman Serasi food court.
Nasib baik lah Botanic Gardens tu tak lah besar sangat...
 
naddy,
thanks for the info! actually maybe bland is quite good too, cause then my dd can eat the dishes as well. actually me kiasu, just planning ahead for the day when my maid contract ends next yr and we go without a maid, so thinking maybe i just cater food, so no need to worry abt cooking everyday, then can spend more time w/ my dd...
 


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