ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?


notty

kau tau kite send the bibik back to agency if nobody takeover dia
we pay $10 a day for her lodging up to max 30 days
so when hantar dektu back to agenct $300 kena pay upfront
kalau ade org amik dia within that 30 days
then they refund back the balance
 
nora..leh pangkah nie agent...

normally agent deduct from maid nye duit...
or issit because kau tak kasi dorang 1 mth notice?
 
Selamat Pagi Singapura ! Feeling abt down cos smlm ada hal kat rumah.. so feel shitty. Came in here to be YAPPY YAPPY !

Nora, i didn't know that... hmm..
 
I think aku nie byk menyusahkan orang disekeliling aku. So now i'm thriving towards independent !

Lina.. yup.. life is too short.
 
lina

aku tak tau
but last time with previous agent i dun have this issue
kena one mth notice ke??
selalu aku tak suke off u go back to agent

actually aku semalam pikir dari aku bayar logding
might as well aku keep her until someone conperm amik dia

tapi semalm ade kejadian lagi
dah lah
cukup sampai di sini
 
"I think aku nie byk menyusahkan orang disekeliling aku. So now i'm thriving towards independent ! "

lain macam ajer bunyi dia...

salah satu yg aku learn...i dun pin up my hopes sooo high..nanti takut demoralize....
tapi we still need goals in life...
 
kejadian ape tu nora...?
kau buat SIT lap-lip...

setahu aku kena ade 1 mth notice....
so far with this agency aku no issue...sebab the very 1st one aku kasi 1 mth notice...
 
lina

aku paham SIT tu

previous agency no porblem
time bibik exorcist sakit and from hospital aku takmo bawak balik
i send her to agency and she satyed there for 10 days mebe before her flight
no charges

semalam lagi sekali anak aku berak tak dicebokkan
tu short version
long version boleh sempot aku

aku jijik tengok muke si bibik
suruh dia stand outside the house
10.30 baru panggil dia masuk
 
"anak aku berak tak dicebokkan"

ish ish ish...jgn2 bibik nye bawah pon berkerak....

bagus jugaklah kau antar dia besok...
tak yah waste unnecessary energy...
 
nora
yup getting ridiculous this agent! betul nye kerat leher

aku kena bayar:-
insurance 301
selection fee 100
ex-sin maid 100

aku ckp how confident r u that ur ex-sin can work?? infact, u shud not charg selection fee of 100, it shuld only apply on during our 1st selection. current maid dah 6 bln, kalau aku nak save $ aku just keep her another 1.5yr , new maid tukar byk duit pakai plus not sure if 100% good.
 
morning morning..

i'm feeling awful lah...
semalam got only abt 3 hrs of sleep.

nora,
susah jugak eh kalau gini.
nak hantar balik but still have to "pay" her.
 
My previous agent pon sama, kena byr lodging. $10 per day, psl dah benci sgt aku hantar jgk but they nvr ask me for any upfront. Took abt 2 weeks for agent to market her.
 
*geleng kepala*

normally kalau agency fee is e.g $488 then kau ambik yg $588 punye maid...then kena top up the $100...

main duit ajer eh nie ajer...selection fee i dun c why they charge....
 
Lina, issue aku nothing to do with hubby. It's more to my mum and siblings. Aku baru mintak tolong sikit, which i seldom asked, tapi their response was so huge that they made me feel so shitty about myself. Made me think whether aku nie selalu ker menyusahkan orang ? Padahal aku nie jarang asked for help.. haiz..
 
yep main duit jer... lose lose situation la

bile pikir geram tau
korang ingat aku ngan bibik lame tu ade tak all this problem.. NOOOO.......

tapi pasal ade pihak pihak tertentu yg carik pasal

mangsa yer akuuuuuu.. jugaaaakkkkk
 
cip

what to do cip...
kau pun dah ade bibik sekarang yg boleh diharap
make full use of her
jgn kasi chance sangat ngan ur siblings
 
"psl dah benci sgt aku hantar jgk"

aku pun notty, benci nah tak leh tengok lagik

aku mesti hantar dia

pasal next week hb dah travel
rumah takde org
 
Nora
aku suroh dorang waive $100 for ex-maid, suroh dorang waive $100 selection fee kat boss dia tak blh, tu cost for check up and etc. kalau tak waive jgk, high chances aku tak tukar..
tak tahu lah if lina (agent) mention my name to u, but I really make things difficult for her, I told her this agency tak mcm ni dulu, its really terrible and I'm gonna share with all my contacts. Ni last lah, no more dealing with them.
 
Nora, bibik nie kita share ramai.. aku tak kisah. It's quite a funny story lah. Smlm i sent my cat for sterilization. So after 6.30pm can collect the cat from the doc. Then adik aku balik, aku nk mintak tolong dia hantar aku to the clinic, but then he marah aku. Ckp kenapa aku selalu menyusahkan dia. Then ada my dad's car. But my mum tak kasi pakai. I was like sedih lah. They know my money situation and yet asked me to go to and fro by cab. I know it's my cat and my problem, but then mintak favour 1 nie jer.. haiz.. bising dia nau-zubillah. So aku nangis2 lah keluar rumah mak aku dgn Maya. I asked the maid to go home and basuh baju. Aku nangis silently lah.. tapi Maya nampak and asked me "Mummy, what's wrong?" So aku lagi lah EMO..
 
wati then dun ask any more favours fr them walaupon keluarga sendiri coz nanti the remarks wont be good...nanti kau jugak yg sedih...

*tepuk2 wati*
 
notty

aku pun peng, asik asik bayar
kate jer 1 yr free.. that makes up for the $200 difference in agency fee

so their fees dorang tak transparent
tapi dah baisa la, bile tukar bibik duit keluar banyak
cip - mnk


*pat pat cip's back*

sudah lah.. dun think wat wat...
ade lori ade bus ...
 
Wati,
don't be sad.
sometimes, the people closest to us are the ones that hurt us the most.
its good to build relationships, but at the same time, at the back of your minds, must make yourself be as self-reliant and independent as possible.
 
Lina.. dulu aku kena jugak this kinda of remarks but tak preggy so aku tak beberapa affected. Smlm was like the last straw..aku mcm dah tak bleh angkat lah...mcm mintak sedekah..

*Let's change topic*

Niari korang jln raya ? Niari me and my lil family jln raya i think about 2 houses yg dekat2 jer... rumah makcik hubby. Then besok baru all out.
 
weekday aku malas la

niari pun send my sis to airport abt midnite, her flight at 2am

goodbye my baby sister goodbye home-cooked food..
 
nora
sorry psl aku yg reco kau this agent and caused u to be in this terrible situation..sorry chong..

cip
*hugs* tu yg aku rasa slama ni, dah mcm org luar..

athlete
quote:"sometimes, the people closest to us are the ones that hurt us the most."

i second that!
 
weather is so dark and gloomy.
just like how i feel.
last nite, at 3am, was wide awake, thinking about some personal problems.
tgh emo, tak rasa takut pulak!
heh.
 
notty

ape nak sorry
aku pegi bec my previous agent got no biodata
kalau dekni takde biodate, aku pi another agent oso
dah memang takdir kena tukar agent


"sometimes, the people closest to us are the ones that hurt us the most."

ya lor

home-cooking
my sis here my mum cook
if not ... ikut mood
 
athlete

sini dah hujan lebat
pi toilet tak leh dok at jambs lame
kalau nsk dok lame kena pakai payong.. tempiasss


eh kesian kite kite eh.. mcm mcm issues
 
yer yer oh aku gi lab...sklai barang lum masuk...so relak japz till lunch...
nak kena buat lincah...today friday ohhhh tak nak balik lambat...

tadi hub antar Danish gi doc...
leave dah tarak...

semalam aku jadik nurse...chk temp.danish ajer..
 
Ladies.. Are we being too emotional or memang kita semua nie byk masalah masing2..? Apa2 pun kita jgn harap lah orang lain yg nak pujuk kita.. Balik2, diri kita yg kita kena pujuk kan..
So let's be strong and overcome anything that comes in our way.

Nora, same issue like mine. Kalau my brother from Sengkang dtg, mcm majlis keramaian... hehehe..

I think it's about time aku belajar masak sendiri. I mean, selalu nk harap mak masak.. sekarang dah merajuk, baik aku belajar masak...hehehe.. Actually aku nie boleh masak. Cuma malas. My hubby suka if i cook. Dia kalau makan senyum jer..
 


Athlete, smlm pun aku tak bleh tido. Kul 3.30am bangun, tukar pampers Maya.. abih dia mengigau, carik2 my mom.. haiz. Aku dia tak carik.. hmph!
 

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