ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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I dah kat umah.. tekak very the perit, badan sengal.. asked my helper to cook plain porridge for me
then nanti lepas makan i nak makan ubat flu then nak nap for a while before i go for my night class.
oh lupa nak announce, today my last day at work. i dah tak keje buat sementara cos my helper nak balik kg.
then laki dia plak buat hal tak kasi dia re-contract padahal at first when my helper bincang with her hubby, he said "terserah kamu"
so by right my helper cuma cuti-cuti indonesia 2 weeks but now i really tawakal jer lah..
and to think i dah renew work permit and bring her go med and all. i can feel my maid nak keje lagi but i just takot her hubb stop her.
kalau dia balik in 2 wks i go back to work, kalau tak i have to take another maid, train and have to extend my leave till much later.
I'm very thankful i have some savings to fall back to. kalau tak haus jugak sey..
then nanti lepas makan i nak makan ubat flu then nak nap for a while before i go for my night class.
oh lupa nak announce, today my last day at work. i dah tak keje buat sementara cos my helper nak balik kg.
then laki dia plak buat hal tak kasi dia re-contract padahal at first when my helper bincang with her hubby, he said "terserah kamu"
so by right my helper cuma cuti-cuti indonesia 2 weeks but now i really tawakal jer lah..
and to think i dah renew work permit and bring her go med and all. i can feel my maid nak keje lagi but i just takot her hubb stop her.
kalau dia balik in 2 wks i go back to work, kalau tak i have to take another maid, train and have to extend my leave till much later.
I'm very thankful i have some savings to fall back to. kalau tak haus jugak sey..
Sep 12, 2010
Fatal crash on CTE
By Melissa Pang
A MOTORCYCLIST died yesterday on the Central Expressway (CTE) in an accident that also involved two lorries.
A police spokesman said the accident occurred at 3.20pm along the CTE in the direction of Seletar Expressway (SLE), before the exit to Ang Mo Kio Avenue 3.
The motorcyclist, a man in his late 20s, died on the spot from his injuries.
He was pronounced dead at the scene by paramedics at 3.35pm.
His female pillion rider, believed to be in her 20s, suffered abrasions and was taken to hospital by ambulance.
The accident, which happened across three lanes, left only the left-most lane accessible to vehicles, and resulted in a massive jam believed to have stretched all the way to Moulmein Road.
Fatal crash on CTE
By Melissa Pang
A MOTORCYCLIST died yesterday on the Central Expressway (CTE) in an accident that also involved two lorries.
A police spokesman said the accident occurred at 3.20pm along the CTE in the direction of Seletar Expressway (SLE), before the exit to Ang Mo Kio Avenue 3.
The motorcyclist, a man in his late 20s, died on the spot from his injuries.
He was pronounced dead at the scene by paramedics at 3.35pm.
His female pillion rider, believed to be in her 20s, suffered abrasions and was taken to hospital by ambulance.
The accident, which happened across three lanes, left only the left-most lane accessible to vehicles, and resulted in a massive jam believed to have stretched all the way to Moulmein Road.
momma_naqi
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Nor...insyallah hopefully she will come back...
Beyyer makan obat cepat2..
Beyyer makan obat cepat2..
hub my yg meninggal last week...
padahal tak ngam ngan adik-beradik...
bile adik dah meninggal...pasal 'harta' semua sanggup pasang lawyer....
sanggup turun tempat kerja..mintak 'duit' any insurance to transfer account to the sibling...padahal tu duit untuk isteri\anak2...
now aku tak tahu ape jadik...
padahal tak ngam ngan adik-beradik...
bile adik dah meninggal...pasal 'harta' semua sanggup pasang lawyer....
sanggup turun tempat kerja..mintak 'duit' any insurance to transfer account to the sibling...padahal tu duit untuk isteri\anak2...
now aku tak tahu ape jadik...
wati
Active Member
Hallloooo... my jungle friends...
REALITY SHOWS - I love Keeping up with the Kardashians, ANTM, Clean House...etc.
TOILET - Tempat jatuh lagi dikenang.. hehehe.. lampu toilet aku selalu on every night. Tak baik tido gelap2.. tu my mum pesan lah.
Notty, accident nie memang cause massive jam seh. Tapi berita harian tak keluar pasal citer nie. I tahu he died on the spot. The 2 lorry drivers were caught cos they partly caused the accident.
Nora... now i feel like eating LJS plak.. hehehe.
Nor, take care.. minum air banyak.. cuaca panas oi...
Peah, kesian baby girl you. Take care ok. You pun jgn demam plak.
Citer hantu tak habis2 lagi ker ? Malam nie malam Jumaat tau.. heheheh...
REALITY SHOWS - I love Keeping up with the Kardashians, ANTM, Clean House...etc.
TOILET - Tempat jatuh lagi dikenang.. hehehe.. lampu toilet aku selalu on every night. Tak baik tido gelap2.. tu my mum pesan lah.
Notty, accident nie memang cause massive jam seh. Tapi berita harian tak keluar pasal citer nie. I tahu he died on the spot. The 2 lorry drivers were caught cos they partly caused the accident.
Nora... now i feel like eating LJS plak.. hehehe.
Nor, take care.. minum air banyak.. cuaca panas oi...
Peah, kesian baby girl you. Take care ok. You pun jgn demam plak.
Citer hantu tak habis2 lagi ker ? Malam nie malam Jumaat tau.. heheheh...
momma_naqi
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bayeekk....hehehe
jari terplecot
jari terplecot
momma_naqi
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aku makan roti n nutella...tak ada selera nak makan sangat
héľ)ö şüméř,
pàřđöñ föñťş àķü éhķ...
öřğ çàķàp àķü đà ťéřşàmpöķ
şmĺm àķü màşüķ ťhřéàđ ñı, màķ öíı çıťéř hàñťü éhķ
đà ťü mĺm ĺàķı àķü pĺàķ büķàķ çıťéř hàñťü
àpé ĺğ, ťřüş ĺàřı màşüķ bıĺıķ.
bťw, àřé béñđà2 ğıñı mçm büřüñğ ķéř, àđé ķépàķ?
çöş đàť ťımé àķü şéç 4, ĺépàķ2 pàť pàşıř pàñjàñğ pàřķ,
àķü ñàmpàķ şhàđöw, ťéřbàñğ àťàş ķépàĺà àķü,
béşàř ťàü şhàđöw ťü, àķü ťķ ťéřfıķıř ĺà çıķ pöñ,
àķü ıñğàť büřüñğ héłàñğ, àķü püñ ťğķ àťàş ĺà...
jéñğ jéñğ jéñğ... ťàķđé àpàpé püñ!
pàřđöñ föñťş àķü éhķ...
öřğ çàķàp àķü đà ťéřşàmpöķ
şmĺm àķü màşüķ ťhřéàđ ñı, màķ öíı çıťéř hàñťü éhķ
đà ťü mĺm ĺàķı àķü pĺàķ büķàķ çıťéř hàñťü
àpé ĺğ, ťřüş ĺàřı màşüķ bıĺıķ.
bťw, àřé béñđà2 ğıñı mçm büřüñğ ķéř, àđé ķépàķ?
çöş đàť ťımé àķü şéç 4, ĺépàķ2 pàť pàşıř pàñjàñğ pàřķ,
àķü ñàmpàķ şhàđöw, ťéřbàñğ àťàş ķépàĺà àķü,
béşàř ťàü şhàđöw ťü, àķü ťķ ťéřfıķıř ĺà çıķ pöñ,
àķü ıñğàť büřüñğ héłàñğ, àķü püñ ťğķ àťàş ĺà...
jéñğ jéñğ jéñğ... ťàķđé àpàpé püñ!
wati
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Kalau pergi lawyer, the person can agih-agih kan harta dia witness by lawyer. Hukum faraid is applied if orang tu tak tinggalkan harta dia kepada sesiapa then boleh ikut hukum nie kan... aku main agaklah. Cos my dad siang2 dah bilang kita kalau dia meninggal tak payah nak gaduh adik beradik cos he aldy met up with lawyers to set aside his will. So he warned us not to disturb my mum's share... hehehe..
notty,
kalo aku carik kan itu lianhe zaobao pun kau tau baca ke?
hehehe... lianhe zaobao dia sama mcm news biasa.
kalo kluar lianhe wanbao lain citer.
cos lianhe wanbao dorang mcm gosip paper tau.
AKU DA TUKAR FONTS LAR...
Tak baik korang halau aku dari sini.
mana lagi aku tompang pahit manis hidup aku.
*tarik sleeve lap air mata buaya*
kalo aku carik kan itu lianhe zaobao pun kau tau baca ke?
hehehe... lianhe zaobao dia sama mcm news biasa.
kalo kluar lianhe wanbao lain citer.
cos lianhe wanbao dorang mcm gosip paper tau.
AKU DA TUKAR FONTS LAR...
Tak baik korang halau aku dari sini.
mana lagi aku tompang pahit manis hidup aku.
*tarik sleeve lap air mata buaya*
athlete,
kalo divorce tak salah custody will be given to mom
unless, the husband kasi evidence yg si mak tak mampu jaga anak
mcm ade affair, tak betol ke... etc
I tink kalo death, either one of parents yg masih hidup
then baru next of kin, like grandparents
pasal inheritance, I tak brape pasti...
maybe like wati said, kalo tk buat will,
then ikut hukum faraid.
kalo divorce tak salah custody will be given to mom
unless, the husband kasi evidence yg si mak tak mampu jaga anak
mcm ade affair, tak betol ke... etc
I tink kalo death, either one of parents yg masih hidup
then baru next of kin, like grandparents
pasal inheritance, I tak brape pasti...
maybe like wati said, kalo tk buat will,
then ikut hukum faraid.
momma_naqi
Active Member
keje gahmen byk leave.
aku pun nakkk..
aku pun nakkk..
i know someone bpk dia meninggal, he is eligible bachelor with good job n high salary, duit diagihkan secara faraid, termasuk adik bradik bpk dia, then dia, baru mak dia dpt...
eventually duit yg mak dia dpt is very little, all this while his mum is SAHM..arwah bpk dia sole-bread winner. So when his mum sound dia, duit dia tu blh kasi his mum tak..he replied,"Mak tak takot dosa?????"..his mum very sad u know...
hmmmmmm........
eventually duit yg mak dia dpt is very little, all this while his mum is SAHM..arwah bpk dia sole-bread winner. So when his mum sound dia, duit dia tu blh kasi his mum tak..he replied,"Mak tak takot dosa?????"..his mum very sad u know...
hmmmmmm........
athlete,
ramai org islam memang tak buat will
but skrg org da lebih tahu and more are well off,
so I guess the trend is changing.
no need apologise, aku pun sebenar nye tak tau.
main hembus ajer... kekeke.
correct me if im wrong.
cos benda2 gini aku tak pernah nak amik tau.
ok, lets say kalo bapak aku make a will,
adik badik tak puas hati then nk claim ikut hukum faraid,
boleh ke? *pardon my ignorance also*
ramai org islam memang tak buat will
but skrg org da lebih tahu and more are well off,
so I guess the trend is changing.
no need apologise, aku pun sebenar nye tak tau.
main hembus ajer... kekeke.
correct me if im wrong.
cos benda2 gini aku tak pernah nak amik tau.
ok, lets say kalo bapak aku make a will,
adik badik tak puas hati then nk claim ikut hukum faraid,
boleh ke? *pardon my ignorance also*
wati
Active Member
Notty, tu yg susah eh.. anak lelaki dapat 2 kali ganda. My dad siang2 dah 'burst' kan bubble my brother. Dia ckp, "Jgn nak ikut hukum-hukum faraid bila dtg kat harta aku eh..Aku dah buat will. Mak korang will get most share. Then Kakak (aku lah tu) & Abang (Adik lelaki aku) will get equal. Then followed by the rest siblings, then cucu2... Adik aku boring jer..
momma_naqi
Active Member
notty...
actually...hukum faraid tu memang hukum n we ought to follow....
BUT as penerima pun kita kena pakai hukum akal...
takkan kita yg berkemampuan nak tengok balunya mati kelaparan ...
actually...hukum faraid tu memang hukum n we ought to follow....
BUT as penerima pun kita kena pakai hukum akal...
takkan kita yg berkemampuan nak tengok balunya mati kelaparan ...
ekcerli..'lelaki' dapat lebih ade sebab...dorang tu waris untuk jaga the 'living'...ade tanggung-jawap...
but sadly ade ambil kesempatan...bila part tuntut ikut faraid...dah dapat ikut ke lain...
that is why now mostly now dorang ambil will...
consider cam 'hadiah'kan the 'harta' ....
but sadly ade ambil kesempatan...bila part tuntut ikut faraid...dah dapat ikut ke lain...
that is why now mostly now dorang ambil will...
consider cam 'hadiah'kan the 'harta' ....
momma_naqi
Active Member
Nora...kalau keje gamen....
aku tak yah plan....main apply je....
Part will2 ni ..akak tak pandai sangat
aku tak yah plan....main apply je....
Part will2 ni ..akak tak pandai sangat
wati
Active Member
Lina, betul tu.. orang dulu2 harapkan anak lelaki yg bela mak dorang bila bapak dah takder. Tapi sekarang trend dah berubah. Anak lelaki dah jarang amik kisah mak.. yg anak perempuan mcm aku lah rajin jaga mak.. *ewah*.. heheh.. So tu sebab bapak2 takut tgk bini dorang kelaparan atau diletakkan dirumah orang tua bila dorang takder.. tu sebab dibuat will.. So that the wifey will be taken care of. Sama macam orang cina jugak. Dulu beriya-iya nak dapat anak lelaki tu carry their names, then dpt anak perempuan dorang bunuh or humban ketepi.. tapi tu dulu. Sekarang semua dah rojak. Most of my chinese frens nak anak perempuan. Bila i tanyer kenapa, dorang ckp, "Cos my Lotter will take care of me mah..."
Zu, dosa ker tak.. aku no comment ah. Not sure.
Zu, dosa ker tak.. aku no comment ah. Not sure.
momma_naqi
Active Member
nora...kalau macam gitu....
consperm adik beradik pun tak kenal
consperm adik beradik pun tak kenal