ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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lina, wah yr daughter so sweet looking! and at this age, B-G relationship start so early eh.. dono how i'd deal with it with my daughter next time.
nora, yeah saw yr FB status last night.. tu lah, sometimes orang nak beraya tapi lupa nak ingat pasal tuan kerja ke, penat ke. esp kalau rumah tu ada orang tua, usually nak tido awal kan..
nora, yeah saw yr FB status last night.. tu lah, sometimes orang nak beraya tapi lupa nak ingat pasal tuan kerja ke, penat ke. esp kalau rumah tu ada orang tua, usually nak tido awal kan..
wati
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I pun tak jalan during weekday. Tak larat seh. Tapikan, on Monday night, i was at my mum house. My cousins and aunties came with all the small kids. Padahal dorang skooling the next day. And they left the house at 12 midnight. Siao seh.. Then, i notice 2 of my cousin perempuan, for all along pakai tudung. Tahun nie raya terus tak pakai lah.. Fesyen agaknya.. sigh*
"kite tertunggu tunggu bec cakap nak datang lepas mahgrib"
ah ni lah janji melayu.. actually they meant to say, lepas maghrib dorang siap-siap, pas tu kol 8+ baru kluar, tunggu teksi etc etc sampai dah masok 9+
and actually kalau yg jauh-jauh tu tak payah kelam kabut nak pegi weekday nights lah..
kita sebagai host memang tak penat jalan, but takkan nak pakai baju butterfly macam nora cakap kan.. abis tu bila tamu dah balik kita mana nak wash up, nak settlekan kids etc etc dah almost midnight.. haiz susah kalau tamu tak paham.. nak cakap byk pon tak boleh..
ah ni lah janji melayu.. actually they meant to say, lepas maghrib dorang siap-siap, pas tu kol 8+ baru kluar, tunggu teksi etc etc sampai dah masok 9+
and actually kalau yg jauh-jauh tu tak payah kelam kabut nak pegi weekday nights lah..
kita sebagai host memang tak penat jalan, but takkan nak pakai baju butterfly macam nora cakap kan.. abis tu bila tamu dah balik kita mana nak wash up, nak settlekan kids etc etc dah almost midnight.. haiz susah kalau tamu tak paham.. nak cakap byk pon tak boleh..
nor
betol betol betol
semalam pukul 11 i mandi then wash up my son sekali
bec dah main main with the cousin dah peluh peluh
cip
ah fesyen anak cousin mak aku pun
dari kecik 5 6 tahun pakai tudung
dah keje tak pakai.. one teacher, another one a nurse
bile dorang tak pakai tudung datang raye aku wondering - ni sape?
maklum jumpe setahun sekali
betol betol betol
semalam pukul 11 i mandi then wash up my son sekali
bec dah main main with the cousin dah peluh peluh
cip
ah fesyen anak cousin mak aku pun
dari kecik 5 6 tahun pakai tudung
dah keje tak pakai.. one teacher, another one a nurse
bile dorang tak pakai tudung datang raye aku wondering - ni sape?
maklum jumpe setahun sekali
wkdays out for me..aku rather balik umah, mkn, check homework anak2..pastu lepak depan tv...org2 ni tak faham ke, mcm takda hari lain pulak! And there are also some yg kol as late as 12am nak dtg on weekends, tak bole salin my "uniform" sampai dorang dtg, ada jg ckp otw otw tapi tak sampai2.. i sms to come next time aje, nak tido!
fesyen tudung 'ada-tak-ada'
ah this one I dah nampak years back.. what i noticed is that some of the people i know, they like to make their kids (pri sch and even sec sch) wear tudung masa jalan raya.
but in normal days, bila keluar jalan tak pakai tudung and of cos go sch tak pakai cos they dun attend madrasah full time.
so bila those girls dah besar they decide they actually dun want or rather not comfortable/not prep to don the tudung yet so they decide not to.
of cos kita yg jumpa dorang setahun tak sekali macam hairan "anak tiri saper ni??" (heheh.. yah sounds crude, but seriously who's to cham muka yg jarang jumpa)
i don't blame the girls for not wearing the tudung cos ni semua kena dtg dari hati, and doesnt mean tak pakai tudung is worse than those who wear. yg penting dalam hati ada taman!
ah this one I dah nampak years back.. what i noticed is that some of the people i know, they like to make their kids (pri sch and even sec sch) wear tudung masa jalan raya.
but in normal days, bila keluar jalan tak pakai tudung and of cos go sch tak pakai cos they dun attend madrasah full time.
so bila those girls dah besar they decide they actually dun want or rather not comfortable/not prep to don the tudung yet so they decide not to.
of cos kita yg jumpa dorang setahun tak sekali macam hairan "anak tiri saper ni??" (heheh.. yah sounds crude, but seriously who's to cham muka yg jarang jumpa)
i don't blame the girls for not wearing the tudung cos ni semua kena dtg dari hati, and doesnt mean tak pakai tudung is worse than those who wear. yg penting dalam hati ada taman!
just came back from canteen.
ingat nak beli epok2, tapi dah habis.
perut tgh lapar sangat.
makan biskut tawar dgn milo aje.
yup, my whole family semua tidur siang.
my mom's place by 9 rumah dah gelap.
now my boy pulak ikiut.
jln raya, kita pukul 8 dah sampai rumah, terus mandi my boy and put him to sleep.
my hb's side all macam tak percaya my boy tidur siang.
they think i just use him as an excuse.
like i got so much time to think of of such a creative excuse.
ingat nak beli epok2, tapi dah habis.
perut tgh lapar sangat.
makan biskut tawar dgn milo aje.
yup, my whole family semua tidur siang.
my mom's place by 9 rumah dah gelap.
now my boy pulak ikiut.
jln raya, kita pukul 8 dah sampai rumah, terus mandi my boy and put him to sleep.
my hb's side all macam tak percaya my boy tidur siang.
they think i just use him as an excuse.
like i got so much time to think of of such a creative excuse.
wati
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Nor.. yg my 2 cousins nie.. haiz.. dah berumur.. dah berumahtangga.. pakai tudung dari dulu.. nie anak2 dah besar, step tangkap jambu, rambut pergi rebond..etc. Then both are housewives.. but i heard, dorang salah campur orang.. kes hantar anak pergi skool, then ikut yg mak2 lain lepak kat CC, campur dgn pakcik2 karaoke kat CC / kedai kopi.. haiz.. all this while hubbies tak tahu.
lina, yah true sebaiknya memang bagus if they wear. but at sch age, macam odd kan just pakai time raya jer.
i believe in my girls wearing tudung only if they are prep to do so later once they are of age - maybe poly/uni time when they are full time wearing it. and will emphasize that its not a fesyen item, kejap pakai kajap tak.. then rambut terkeluar kat depan ala dato Siti N.
open haus
i am planning 2nd Oct but masih dalam plan.. almaklum rumah i kalau 3-4 families dtg dah penuh.. so fening camner nak buat open haus.
takkan raya nak buat kat func room kan..
will let you all know again, insya'Allah.
i believe in my girls wearing tudung only if they are prep to do so later once they are of age - maybe poly/uni time when they are full time wearing it. and will emphasize that its not a fesyen item, kejap pakai kajap tak.. then rambut terkeluar kat depan ala dato Siti N.
open haus
i am planning 2nd Oct but masih dalam plan.. almaklum rumah i kalau 3-4 families dtg dah penuh.. so fening camner nak buat open haus.
takkan raya nak buat kat func room kan..
will let you all know again, insya'Allah.
athlete
i wont inform her
usually i wont
when i send back i bring them to agent without their things
then i go back
check their belongings then send her stuff back to agent
i dah bilang my mum sudah jgn cakap cakap dgn bibik lagi
let her be these few days
dun waste energy
maids...really cam hit jackpot
one thing trf maid u can see them for urself and interview
tapi tengok ape reason lah dorang kena tendang
i wont inform her
usually i wont
when i send back i bring them to agent without their things
then i go back
check their belongings then send her stuff back to agent
i dah bilang my mum sudah jgn cakap cakap dgn bibik lagi
let her be these few days
dun waste energy
maids...really cam hit jackpot
one thing trf maid u can see them for urself and interview
tapi tengok ape reason lah dorang kena tendang
bye lina.
my mom dah lemak lah nak buat housework.
plus my bro n sis pemalas!
i'll just keep trying to talk her out of it.
kalau the new maid really teruk (jauh kan lah!), my boy will go to childcare.
then its up to my mom to handle her when it comes to housework.
i will cuci tangan.
my mom dah lemak lah nak buat housework.
plus my bro n sis pemalas!
i'll just keep trying to talk her out of it.
kalau the new maid really teruk (jauh kan lah!), my boy will go to childcare.
then its up to my mom to handle her when it comes to housework.
i will cuci tangan.
babes, kalau engage PT helper ni kena tengok2 eh. pasal my fren have this helper who comes every 2 weeks or so. been engaging her for a few months.
then recently she notice that one of her Longchamp Le Pliage bag missing when she was looking for it.
and only her hub and herself with 2 kids staying in the house, no one else have access to her house.
then nak tanya/tuduh pon no proof so she didn't confront. but she mention the bag was still around the week before the PT helper came to clean.
then recently she notice that one of her Longchamp Le Pliage bag missing when she was looking for it.
and only her hub and herself with 2 kids staying in the house, no one else have access to her house.
then nak tanya/tuduh pon no proof so she didn't confront. but she mention the bag was still around the week before the PT helper came to clean.
wati
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*Back from lunch*
Nor, pandai plak PT helper tgk bag branded2.. hehehe.
Anyway, nak tanyer.. my FIL/MIL nak buat kenduri cos they going haji. They ask my hubby whether can borrow my maid for 2 days to sleep over and help my MIL with the housework and cooking. Kita tak kasi jawapan..we just keep quiet. Can i have some suggestions ?
Nor, pandai plak PT helper tgk bag branded2.. hehehe.
Anyway, nak tanyer.. my FIL/MIL nak buat kenduri cos they going haji. They ask my hubby whether can borrow my maid for 2 days to sleep over and help my MIL with the housework and cooking. Kita tak kasi jawapan..we just keep quiet. Can i have some suggestions ?
wati
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I told my mum abt this maid borrowing issue... She suggest to tell my FIL/MIL to personally call my dad cos he is also paying for the maid. Kita share cost lah. So kalau kita bilang dorang to call my dad... confirm dorang cancel plan tu.. ehehe.. cos FIL aku nie ego sikit.. he wont talk to my dad.