ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

<font color="0000ff">Lina
my coy, klu antar course sure inhouse.. tapi yg best nya dorang selalu cater for lunch and tea-break sekali.. hehehe

betty
entah ehh, the feeling susah nak explain.. when u dah ada, tiba2 hilang.. and when u nak try again, mcm something stopping u gitu..

memang nak try but not now, insya-allah soon.. anywei, i'm still seeing my gynea to ensure i'm perfectly well for nx one. </font>
 


Selamat pagie semua !!!

Did you guys read yesterday NEWPAPER report abt that little girl yg kena pijak2 pasal cigarettes sampai mati ?

I baca, and i cannot believe what i was reading. The mother ckp, on the day the toddler was killed.."Both parents, went out for an hour long shopping spree in Jurong. Leaving the 2 yr old, 1 yr old and 4 month old baby at home alone... BABI PUNYER ORANG !!!

Dorang tinggalkan anak dia yg kecik gitu kat rumah ... Ya Allah...kenapa lah orang mcm gini pun ada! She told the judge "We go out to buy toys for the kids. When they came home, the 1yr old and 4 month old is crying in the room. She hears them, but decide to 'rearrange the slippers outside the house' first.

Arrgghh !! Im so upset about this. She should go and just commit suicide after making that statement. I think they were both high on drugs... Eeh.. geram nyer aku... !
 
lynn,
inshAllah lynn...lagipon some p-ple cakap bende2 ginie jgn dipikirkan sangat...takut jadi stress

my company in house tak besh...sebab ade emergency...u kena settle ur work though u on course

smalldreams..
ya we'll see how....
 
<font color="0077aa">Wati
I'm appalled too. Tapi jangan pulak ko gi carik dorang satu Jurong tau.

Dorang gi kedai kejap je ke pegi jurong pt? But that's not the point. I'm also disturbed that they left 3 young kids, who are still almost babies at home alone.

It's really very sad
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Wati, sabar sabar. Yesterday my husband and I pon were cursing. The husband lagi teruk cakap both parents deserve kena gantung. Now the father is trying to shift the blame on the wife. Tapi lama jugak eh kes ni masuk trial. Happened in January. Who leaves their young children unattended while they go out sey? Something unthinkable!!
 
wati,

kau tgk yahoo punye report lagik kau geram...

"I did not go into the kitchen to stop my husband as I thought that was the way he wanted to discipline Nikie," the wife was quoted as saying by the newspaper.
 
tak kisah lah dia belik barang aper - they said they went to buy birthday present

but its doesnt mitigate the fact that they left 3 young babies at home

kalau yg 2 mths old nangis nak susu
yg 2 yr old tu boleh buat kan??
 
kalau pat US...those who tinggalkan anak kecil without supervision boleh kena charge tau...

i think nanti the mother also kena charge ah....

nie semua ade hikmah....mudahan2 the other 2 kids 'welfare' pon akan dikemukakan
 
<font color="119911">lina
SME= SAUSAGE MAC MUFFIN wtih EGG

smlm in ST dah kuar berita ttg arwah Nikie tu.. so kesian pat ku try to imagine she kena tendang &amp; pijak laki... binatang peh bapa..
n sungguhmepek.com ada ke tglkan dorang alone while they cari bdae pressie nikie? haiz n e hub ckp plak yg act e mum yg caused e girl to die, by hitting her with a broom? subhanallah..</font>
 
<font color="0077aa">
yang 2 yr old tu pun masih baby seh.

Sometimes eh I pun rasa geram sangat dgn Adam, and give him one hard smack on his butt or thighs. Hopefully I pray jangan lah sampai syaitan influence kita jadi cam tu sekali
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The couple is also very young. With kids whose age gap is verrry close. I wonder how they cope financially also. But I guess they are alright, since they can afford ciggies.</font>
 
nora...
dulu my brother ade jiran...suke tinggalkan anak cam ginie...

dia nak gi kedai...anak tito...dia boleh tinggalkan...

walaupon dah ditegur...dia tetap cont...dia cakap 'tak de ape2...dah biasa'
 
<font color="aa00aa">lina,
ICT tu info comm technology.

kes sallehan ni complicated.
lots of interviews have to be done plus the medical report of the autopsy je took quite some tiime to get.
then they still have to put sallehan to imh for psychological assesment and the report pun take time to come..</font>
 
<font color="0077aa">naqi
boleh main lego &amp; duplo blocks. boleh main train...hehehe...

Haiz...totally different mentality lah some pple. Susah.

lynzi
ish, thing for yr own safety, benda confidential cam ni you baik jangan share kat such a public forum. No offence, just a gentle reminder.</font>
 
Yes. She stupidly stood there just to watch cos she think the husband disciplining. Confirm drugs lah. My husband baca pun dia menyumpah lah. Sedih kan !! She is exactly like Maya... Badan yg kecik and fragile mcm gitu kena pijak dgn jantan tak guna tu. That is even not her real father tau !

She claim in the paper.. dia telling them saying like.. "Eh, kita keluar pun ada belikan dorang toys per.." STUPID STUPID MOTHER !!!

Kalau aku nampak pompan tu, jaga dia.. Kena maki hamun dgn aku cukup2...tak kena terajang dgn aku tu nasib ah...

YES... She should be hanged together with the husband. Waste space kat dunia nie jer.
 
<font color="119911">anybody can help me? how do i translate hindi words into english? apa webbie shld i go eh?</font>
 
smalldream...
to think of it ....anak tau buat tapi tak tahu jaga..
So I rather believe in the quality of a kid rather than the quantity of kids
 
smalldreams...tak per lynzi ade lawyer hihiihihi

yup unless dah proven n keluar pat papers...oklah to discuss

lynzi,
ohhhh info comm tech....like emails,internet...

my company....kalau this type of course they shrink to 1 day
 
nshah...type at google....

"So I rather believe in the quality of a kid rather than the quantity of kids"

mudah2an kite tergolong dari parents yg melaksanakan amanah dgn baik....Amin

dunia akhirat...kena jawab beb
 
<font color="0077aa">Wati
dorang takde internet, jadi tak boleh online shopping cam kita. Kena beli kat physical kedai

mas
entah lah quantity Vs quality tu, lain orang lain opinion...</font>
 
Smalldreams... sudahlah. geram betul tau. Can you imagine if the climb on chairs and look out the window ? Or go to the kitchen to find food.. then jumpa pisau ker benda lain to play with ...

Subhanallah...! Yes.. I hope they will take care of the next 2 kids welfare. Not sure whether that stupid woman is allowed to jaga them already.
 
<font color="aa00aa">nshah,
online ada language translator.

lina,
kat sg ni pun ada law pasal child abandonment.
its under child and young persons act..can go online and read up.
if u park the car, terlupa your child is behind and u leave pun u can be charged esp if ada org buat report and the poor child may die thru lack of oxygen.</font>
 
mas,
lynn gi lab ah mane lagik...

wati,
i hope too

smalldreams,
i dulu tak der online shopping...nak gi beli barang pon...bawak ah tu budak2 sekali or at least 1 adult kena ade....
 
<font color="119911">ku dah google dah cari via online translator cam nak rak, so i went to indian collgs &amp; ask haha habis cita</font>
 
Not sure how they all can forget about their kids. Sengaja lah. Maybe to them while the kids are sleeping in the car, they will so call die a slow and not so painful death. Cos the kids wont wake up due to lack of oxygen. They will definitely die in their sleep.
 
wati,

in Oprah...got this mother suppose to sent her child to childcare then to work...

normally tu tugas hub dia but on that fateful day...her hub got sumtink on...

she proceed as usual she even went to the childcare...but her mind cam blank gitu...then she drove off to work...but she tak realised yg dia tak drop off her child at childcare...till one of her coligs found her child in the car....
 
<font color="119911">NAw
tak lah ada contest to find a room with indian, hindi, punjab theme or names rather haha
ive got 7 names mana tau bleh menang.. well try je.. if menang pun dpt ipod je bukannya smtg big</font>
 
morning semua!
just got to office, now baru b'fast.
BK and kopi

child abuse, ni heesh...
i can v emotional abt it,
then nanti will rant bukan2 pulak.
just thinking, baru main ciggies aje dah kena gitu...

betty,
ya lah, my hb pun not happy with them.
cos some of the design and apa diorang buat lain sikit.
but gd thing is we're only doing kitchen and feature wall.
small things that can actually be fixed.
in the end my hb cakap sendiri dengan the workers themselves to help do some of the fixes.
although i must say they're quite prompt and workmanship quite gd.
 
Nshah, semangat masuk contest.

Lina..kesian budak tu kan.. Sometime.. i think kalau kita nie berserah kepada ALLAH swt, insyallah DIA akan memberi kita petunjuk untuk kita hidup dgn berkat. Everything happen for a reason. I think yg budak 2 yr old to happen pun sebab ALLAH nak these 2 idiots to be in the limelight so that other people know and learnt about them. And also save the other 2 kids future. As for yg budak tu, i guess.. ALLAH swt telah meringankan kesakitan dia..Mungkin dia kena tendang and pijak, at that point of time.. she did not feel any sakit.. Subhannallah. Tuhan tu maha kaya.
 
ok, just 1 small rant...
i hope they find the accussed guilty.
but not get death sentence, but life in prison.
cos then he might get a taste of his own medicine.
cos i heard that in jail, if you're in cos of children related crimes, you will def "kena teruk" by the other prionsers.

ok rant over...
 
I believe kalau tak mampu nak tanggung anak, amiklah precaution. Kita yang dah tua ni kalau kena pijak (accidentally) dah rasa sakit even if cuma kaki, can you imagine the pain dipijak dengan sengaja by someone at least 5-6 times heavier than you. Nauzubillahiiminzalik. Mudah-mudah kita diberi kewarasan walaupun dlm keadaan marah. Cannot deny the fact that sometimes kalau marah mcm over. I'ld rather shout at my boys then to actually use force. Bising-bising lah.

Athlete, semua nasib masing-masing. Mcm mana careful pilih ID pun sumtimes ada hiccups. Yesterday, hub and I went to P/L/U/S interior. Very attracted by their designs and layanan but not sure whether the guy can work within our budget. Waiting for quotation.

Am actually waiting for my mum at the busstop. Lambat pulak dia.
 
athlete....yup...esp those yg suke rogol....

morning san

tapi so sad....some of the men yg dera budak...
got away with just a few years in prison...even though budak tu ade permanent damage
 
betty,

yup, kalau nak 'pukul' anak sekali pon jgn dlm keadaan marah.....itupon ade tempat2 tertentu yg dibenarkan n tak ler sampai berbekas

aku jadi 'tarzan' melebih.....
 
Bettybad
Susah tau nak cakap abt some types of pple. Kalau suruh amik precaution, nanti kata less fun lah, etc or they'll have their own methods of precaution. Basically some pple just have their own way of thinking lah and are not open to suggestions.

Cuma I heran, how the mother can also give birth one after another. Kalau aku, dah kena depression agaknye. Imagine, anak 23 bulan, 12 bulan &amp; 2 mths. Takde kerja lain, beranak aje!

Altho I'm working, I already feel that expenses budak bukan main tinggi lagi. Let alone anak 3, jarak dekat2. Adoiii....!

Athlete
Haiz..can feel yr anger. Don't worry, they'll get what they deserve.

Lina
Betul betul betul. The psychological hurt is so deep. Plus, we tak tau how these budak2 will turn out, given they've witnessed so much violence at home.
 
Lina ... yes true.. Itu pun aku tak faham.

Ada 1 kes yg a toddler (boy) and his mum bf yg gigit buah budak tu, then pukul dia and throw him to the wall... Judge only give 7 years ?! Aper siak... Kasi life kan bagus.. Biar buah dia kena gigit kat dlm... Badigol Soot lah judge nie!
 
Betty you nak pergi mana dgn yr mom?
bestnye, asik jalan2 aje
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How much you pay for sunsurf lite eh? Rite now, i harapkan wireless kat rumah je, so at least i can surf when i'm in bed ke malas nak On pc.
 
<font color="119911">peah
yes i also wonder how they bleh eh beranak setahun satu.. haiz.. aku je yg ada dua ni stress seh aft beranak je sangkut another.. lagi kita ni working..</font>
 
Just now lynzi mentioned that the accused would have to reviewed by IMH.
Dia ada record mental health ke?
Or is that standard procedure?
So there's a chance that he might get a lighter sentence or even let off if he's found to be of not sound mental health?
 
<font color="119911">ish im soo bored ah in office.. tak bleh kuar lunch, tak bleh dgr anytg from youtube, tak bleh sesuka MIA aarrrggghhh..

peah
if ur phone ada wifi pun bleh surf kan pat luar?</font>
 


wati,

tulah.....geram aku bila baca the verdict

smalldreams,
my 1st two kids setahun satu....

jaga satu hal...masuk childcare\kindergarten...sungguh terasa.com

beli barang2 every mth.....dah macam twins...
 
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