ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?


<font color="0000ff">Dan
u tak resau ke if ur dotter very close wit ur helper rather den wit u??

if dat the case, i would rather she end her contract early.. </font>
 
<font color="ff0000">Lynn

She finish end Feb....
Furthermore i still on 3 mths probation...tak leh lepas kan my helper dulu</font>
 
Lina, yes i tend to eat alot of chocs also...
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Dan, i can understand your worries even though i don have a maid cause i noe how it feels. Last time stay with MIL, my son very close with PIL also cause i work. But wat to do we are working mums..
 
DAn

i think as marsyha grows older her sleeping time wld be lambat sikit

hopefully u have enough time to play with her

how's ur mum now?
masih attend theraphy?
 
<font color="ff0000">Nora...thanks for asking

She just went to consult doc on Wed at TTSH for her bronchi...due to her lungs
coz b4 kena stroke she's a smoker...

Then yesterday gi at AMK hospital..checked her bloodtest...
alhamdullilah all seems ok...
follow up will be at Poly for her med...
She lost another 5 kg
Fr 100+ to 80kg now</font>
 
Dan,
Yup, for ftwm, definitely your child will be closer to the caregiver, be it the helper, nenek, makcik, etc.
But yah lah, weekends , PHs, etc I'm sure you'll spend more time with Marsya.
 
<font color="ff0000">Athlete

Besok jugak ku ajak dia jln2...

Coz since raya all my kids duk umah je...sakit semua nye</font>
 
ye lah Dan.. u must show her that its more FUN to be with you
altho the time with you is limited

AND THAT EXPLAINS WHY FTWM ALWAYS OVER-COMPENSATE
 
for me pulak, its so clear now how my boy behaves differently with me and hb.

with the father, he's always laughing and playing.
but if my hb nak kasi susu or put him to sleep, he'll refuse to drink, or minum tak habis and will not sleep no matter how sleepy he is.

its so obvious that:
daddy = fun and games
mummy = takes care of basic needs
 
<font color="ff0000">Lunch

Kupang, tongeh goreng &amp; fried egg with Kuah Lemak cili padi...

Gigi sakit ah...nak kunyah pon susah...grrr</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">Dan
klu my boy lebih rapat dgn my helper or MIL, i would feel inferior..
sebab tu balik keje je, both me and hb will spend our time wit our boy.. we take turn.. siapa nak mandi dulu or do our stuff..

and i will suap makan or mandikan, everything i buat sendiri. cos i want the bonding. and maid will do her other duty

sebab tu, if me or hb ard.. naufal tak heran maid or MIL even they are main caregiver </font>
 
<font color="0000ff">athlete
dat is sooo trueeee.. hehehe

bila part nak main2, he will look for his father..

bila part dia nak mandi, makan, susu.. he will def want me to do all these..

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hmmmm....i pulak problemnya anak melekat sangattttt kat i....masuk toilet pon nak ikut,,,sampai sanggup tunggu luar...baring baring ada jer yg panjat n sit on me...ada jerrr yg nak menyandar...so the whole day 24/7 rasa ada weight on me....hahahaha...nak complain nanti katanya rezeki...nak diamkan tapi badan letih n mentally exhausting also...
jaga sendiri n tak jaga sendiri semua ada pros n cons ehhh....
 
<font color="0000ff">Liz
betol tu, semua ada pros and cons..!!
klu dah nak melekat je, leceh jugak kan.. satu keje tak leh buat..!!

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ahhhhh...tulah...i kena dok ngan hilmi ajerr...masuk dapor jer...dia dah "come mama come" dengan tangan tangan memanggil nak i temankan kat bilik tv....kalau biarkan ngan kakak sarah dia...abis..dah macam SPCA! cat n dog nya fight ongoing....i kat umah bleh jadi tarzan....kakakakakaka...
 
<font color="ff0000">Lynn

ape2 je Marsyha will walk to kitchen n look for her bibik...

will try to change my daily routine now...

kekadang the boys pulak yg jeles bila i sibuk layan my gal</font>
 
liz,
bukan kau sorang ajer jadi tarzan...
aku pun same2!

but aku opp la...
kalo games and fun carik mummy,
basic needs carik daddy.
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cos daddy kalo ajak main end up sleeping on the flr!
 
hahahaha.....zu, aku ngan kau bleh tinggal kat hutan lah camni....
laki aku susah skit kalau nak buat basic needs...kekadang kena scissor paper stone ngan dia ! at times tu kalau datang mood dia, best! umah dia bersihkan aku pon kalah...tapi itu part kena tunggu mood...once in a blue moon ahh...
main game of cos him, dia layankan sarah kat ps3 jugak....hmmmm...kalau hilmi dia kacau kacau budak tu..gigit2 lah...gonyoh pewut dia lah...or if layan both he will play ball...dalam umah! aku dok pikiran takut barang pecah~
 
argh!
boring sey... my mom just called.
this cousin of mine yg i tak berkenan sangat is having a b'day party for his boy this weekend.
kalau boleh malas nak pegi!
apa excuse eh nak kasi?
 
liz,
boleh boleh...
laki aku malas la nk layan budak2..
sumer aku kene suruh baru bergerak, but then end up tido!!
biadap kan! dats y budak2 nak main carik aku.
nak gi bawah ke park, sumer ajak aku. :p

athlete,
cakap ajer rmh ade org nak dtg!
tak pun anak sakit, nk tumbuh gigi.. byk rewel.
nak bwk jalan susah! :p
 
athlete....

ada open hse nak kena pergi...ada umah belum pergi...anak sakit...takut jangkit...hehehehe
banyak perrr..
memang actual fact this weekend banyak open hse n bdays lahh...not forgetting org kahwen also...hmmmm.....mlm ni pon dah start but too bad my hubby werkk...sob sob...
 
zu,
problem is, i stay with my mum!
so she will know.
sigh...

oklah gals, am leaving work now, get lunch then go home.
have a good weekend all!
 
<font color="ff6000">*BURP*
Alhmdllh...back from lunch. Had ayam penyet near Parkway Parade.

Hello nshah!
How's ur hub? OK?</font>
 
<font color="119911">san
thx for asking for now ok, hes discharge bt need to flw up with his doc directly.. hope it wont drag long lah, hope to find e cause fast</font>
 
mornin llina, betty, wati and san!

hmph, my weekend was major fail.
all my personal plans semua tak jadi...
bnayak sangat last minute jemputan...
then my hb pulak decided to paint our new place all by himself cos his uncle or whatever supposed to do it "bubble"!

wati, are u feelin' better?
how was maya's b'day?
 
wati, oops, thought maya's b'day was last weekend...
getting rid of cough, here're a few things that might work:
- warm coke w a bit of salt
- warm water w lemon
avoid:
-all cold drinks
-chicken
 
athlete, really ah ? Avoid chicken ? OMG.. haha..
ok can. I try. Warm water with lemon.. ? Hmm... will try this too..

warm coke with abit of salt ? Err... pelik eh.

I'm feeling lousy and useless today. Sakit gini kena dtg kerja. Kalau tak orang mata merah. Weekend was ok for me lah. Walaupun i sakit, i manage to get up and went to my fren open house and then Sun morning, sent Maya to Tumble Tots.
 
<font color="ff0000">U know what, last Friday, Marsyha slept with me...like cam biasa je without her bibik around...alhamdullilah.
Then on Sat pagi, I mandikan dia she like so happy playing with the bubbles..
Petang, bibik tried to mandi for her but she cried n runaway frm bibik..
So i just said come mama bath for u...wait for me in the kitchen.
She just walked n waited for me outside the toilet door...
alamak...i felt so happy...
I'm not so worried lah in that case if bibik not around
I have to spent more time with the kids now
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gd for u Dan...

*time check* barul kol 11.10... perut dah grrrrrrrrrrrrr

cip aku tgk kau dah slim sikit tau....good progress
 
Lina... iyer ker ?? Hehehe...
Best lah.. in person kau tgk aku eh... LOL*
(Now im jumping over the moon...nasib tak tersungkuh...)

Great motivation for me to lose more...yahoo!

Dan, best kan dapat bond dgn Marsya.. hehehe...

Smlm, bila i nak tido kan Maya... Maya suddenly said, Goodnite Mummy, Goodnite Baba, Goodnite Cats.... dah besar anak aku..haiz...

Anak kita nie cepat membesar eh...mcm baru smlm i watch her trying to take her 1st steps...
 
Notty, sorry ah... Aku nie sakit, so telinga ada pekak sikit... jgn marah.. amcam, minyak dah pakai ker belum...? LOL*
 


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