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wati
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Aiyah.. let say guys normally do things with their 'd*&k' lah.
My fren gave birth at 33 weeks. Baby stable but had to stay hospital for 2 weeks. She gave birth bcos she was under a lot of stress.
You know that kita kahwin, we are tied under a 'special' bond between us and ALLAH swt. Do not misuse this. I strongly believe tau in this. We as a women are all given sixth sense. I've done my research. If you are a loyal and loving wife, GOD will be by your side. So he will take care of you and your heart. If your hubby cheats on you, then GOD will give you signs. Only how you intepret it.
My fren, had dreams about a girl. Then she was puzzle cos she dun know this girl. And why would she dreamt about her. Then another dream was about her husband cheating on her.. like sleeping around. Then she go and interrogate her hubby. Ask him whether he ever cheat on her, and after much interrogation, he said "Once, before married. That's all"
So she was getting more curious. So she prayed hard that ALLAH swt will help her to overcome this problem, then found out that he slept with her again after my fren is 3 mths pregnant.
He said, HIS COUSIN introduce to him. And this girl is budak MADRASAH ok !! Only 22. She slept around. My fren was so upset. She said on the day the hubby slept with that girl, the hubby knock off at 5pm, met up with her at hotel 81, had sex and then he went home to meet with his wife (my fren) for dinner and movie.
And in terms of 'service'.. My fren 'service' her hubby almost everyday. She is very pretty and sexy and YET the hubby stray... Sigh*... She herself not sure what went wrong... All the hubby can say was..."I'm sorry, I was not thinking right when i decided to sleep with her..."
My fren gave birth at 33 weeks. Baby stable but had to stay hospital for 2 weeks. She gave birth bcos she was under a lot of stress.
You know that kita kahwin, we are tied under a 'special' bond between us and ALLAH swt. Do not misuse this. I strongly believe tau in this. We as a women are all given sixth sense. I've done my research. If you are a loyal and loving wife, GOD will be by your side. So he will take care of you and your heart. If your hubby cheats on you, then GOD will give you signs. Only how you intepret it.
My fren, had dreams about a girl. Then she was puzzle cos she dun know this girl. And why would she dreamt about her. Then another dream was about her husband cheating on her.. like sleeping around. Then she go and interrogate her hubby. Ask him whether he ever cheat on her, and after much interrogation, he said "Once, before married. That's all"
So she was getting more curious. So she prayed hard that ALLAH swt will help her to overcome this problem, then found out that he slept with her again after my fren is 3 mths pregnant.
He said, HIS COUSIN introduce to him. And this girl is budak MADRASAH ok !! Only 22. She slept around. My fren was so upset. She said on the day the hubby slept with that girl, the hubby knock off at 5pm, met up with her at hotel 81, had sex and then he went home to meet with his wife (my fren) for dinner and movie.
And in terms of 'service'.. My fren 'service' her hubby almost everyday. She is very pretty and sexy and YET the hubby stray... Sigh*... She herself not sure what went wrong... All the hubby can say was..."I'm sorry, I was not thinking right when i decided to sleep with her..."
smalldreams
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Wati
That's eerily scary. Is this her first baby? Hope she has got good family support.
I guess whether you're in madrasah ke, pakai tudung ke, nothing can be said about your morality lah. Though of course, we'd expect pple from madrasah to behave better.
That's eerily scary. Is this her first baby? Hope she has got good family support.
I guess whether you're in madrasah ke, pakai tudung ke, nothing can be said about your morality lah. Though of course, we'd expect pple from madrasah to behave better.
<font color="119911">mooncake
i jus cant appreciate e taste, tak tau makan..
even macaroons pun i don like hehe
wati
ish dahsyatnya hari2 dpt pun lagi nak menggatal siak tul jantan tu.. dah tu bini lawa lagi ish apa seh dektu, ke saja nak try tasting yg lainnya for fun? celaka tul, yes jus ditch him je ah jantan tak guna tul!!!!</font>
i jus cant appreciate e taste, tak tau makan..
even macaroons pun i don like hehe
wati
ish dahsyatnya hari2 dpt pun lagi nak menggatal siak tul jantan tu.. dah tu bini lawa lagi ish apa seh dektu, ke saja nak try tasting yg lainnya for fun? celaka tul, yes jus ditch him je ah jantan tak guna tul!!!!</font>
wati
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yes. I always envy her tau.. Actually nie is her 4th child. Badan masih solid tau.. Tall.. her face flawless, hidung mancung.. Haiz.. Service hari2 pun orang tak appreciate.. betul tu..
Tu sebab my fren tak tahu aper nak buat. Mcm lost ah. cos in person he is the perfect hubby. Tapi bila dia selidik punyer selidik.. Haiz!
Kesian tau.. Stress sampai terberanak. Initially she already wanted to leave him. Dia dah nak mintak cerai, but then the guy broke down and ask for forgiveness... he loves her and the baby too much. He even said that the wife is "Beautifully Perfect". Great mom, wife, partner... gorgeous.
For now, she is healing with time.. But keeping all the photos of that girl. korang bayangkan budak nie give all her naked pics to my fren hubby. Tak ker bodoh..
Tu sebab my fren tak tahu aper nak buat. Mcm lost ah. cos in person he is the perfect hubby. Tapi bila dia selidik punyer selidik.. Haiz!
Kesian tau.. Stress sampai terberanak. Initially she already wanted to leave him. Dia dah nak mintak cerai, but then the guy broke down and ask for forgiveness... he loves her and the baby too much. He even said that the wife is "Beautifully Perfect". Great mom, wife, partner... gorgeous.
For now, she is healing with time.. But keeping all the photos of that girl. korang bayangkan budak nie give all her naked pics to my fren hubby. Tak ker bodoh..
smalldreams
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Nshah
Memang, mooncakes tu macam kena ada acquired taste. Just like hotdogs. haha. Ko tak suka pun takpe, save $$. Mooncakes are so expensive!!
I've been trying to hold off from getting the prima deli snowskin ones, tapi i think tonight or tmorrow i'll go get it.
Wati
Haiz, sedangkan artis2 yang jambu2 tu pun can have their hubbies stray, sometimes for a less attractive woman. Kelemahan lelaki kan, one of them is towards perempuan. Sometimes we may think our hubbies are not desirable to others, tapi, never know how other women can find them attractive. Then when they get to know one another it's really like falling in love all over again. Haiz...
But it's not smart to give pics of yrself in vulnerable shots to others lah. *shudders* wonder how when she kawin later. Nanti dia dah jadi wife, baru dia tau how it's like, worrying whether her hubby would stray daily.
Memang, mooncakes tu macam kena ada acquired taste. Just like hotdogs. haha. Ko tak suka pun takpe, save $$. Mooncakes are so expensive!!
I've been trying to hold off from getting the prima deli snowskin ones, tapi i think tonight or tmorrow i'll go get it.
Wati
Haiz, sedangkan artis2 yang jambu2 tu pun can have their hubbies stray, sometimes for a less attractive woman. Kelemahan lelaki kan, one of them is towards perempuan. Sometimes we may think our hubbies are not desirable to others, tapi, never know how other women can find them attractive. Then when they get to know one another it's really like falling in love all over again. Haiz...
But it's not smart to give pics of yrself in vulnerable shots to others lah. *shudders* wonder how when she kawin later. Nanti dia dah jadi wife, baru dia tau how it's like, worrying whether her hubby would stray daily.
<font color="aa00aa">wati,
i think must prepare not only emtionally, but most importantly, financially and mentally also.
mesti ada contingency plan ready in hand gitu.
oh btw yesterday, i buka at chai chee.
masyaAllah..the oat prawns and chilli crab menjilat jari..tak puas gerl..
bila ni kiter nak pi makan besar kat sana without the kids and hubby ni?
hehehe...</font>
i think must prepare not only emtionally, but most importantly, financially and mentally also.
mesti ada contingency plan ready in hand gitu.
oh btw yesterday, i buka at chai chee.
masyaAllah..the oat prawns and chilli crab menjilat jari..tak puas gerl..
bila ni kiter nak pi makan besar kat sana without the kids and hubby ni?
hehehe...</font>
Wati,
sebagai kawan...walaupon seberat mane kes...jgn sesekali nasihat kawan tuk bercerai.....
nak be prepared buat ape...its like we r waiting for it to happen...selisih
regardless hub kite cam mane pon....isteri shld be financial and emotionally strong....itu pesan arwah mak aku
ok bye kawan2...japz lagik i dah nak balik
sebagai kawan...walaupon seberat mane kes...jgn sesekali nasihat kawan tuk bercerai.....
nak be prepared buat ape...its like we r waiting for it to happen...selisih
regardless hub kite cam mane pon....isteri shld be financial and emotionally strong....itu pesan arwah mak aku
ok bye kawan2...japz lagik i dah nak balik
styliciously
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wati,
happened to read ur post abt ur fren. Hope she find solace in Allah, esp when she is at the most vulnerable after childbirth. Perhaps, she gave birth earlier coz God wants him to treasure his family and show him how much she had suffered. Divorce may not be the answer coz he will get the punishment that he deserve. Whatever the problem, we women mesti sabar n doa banyak2.
happened to read ur post abt ur fren. Hope she find solace in Allah, esp when she is at the most vulnerable after childbirth. Perhaps, she gave birth earlier coz God wants him to treasure his family and show him how much she had suffered. Divorce may not be the answer coz he will get the punishment that he deserve. Whatever the problem, we women mesti sabar n doa banyak2.
mamaliz
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wati
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Good Morning Lina... and other 'silent reader'...
So happy cos, tadi pagi lepas sahur terus sambung buat cornflakes... And within 1 hr, VOILA... sumernya selesai.. Amin..
Tonight i will do CHOCOLATE PEANUT BUTTER CUPS and MILO Biscuits.
After all these, then i will start to really kemas rumah... Buang yg 'keruh2'... and i will discipline myself to keep it clean and simple.
Yang lain aper rancangan ?
So happy cos, tadi pagi lepas sahur terus sambung buat cornflakes... And within 1 hr, VOILA... sumernya selesai.. Amin..
Tonight i will do CHOCOLATE PEANUT BUTTER CUPS and MILO Biscuits.
After all these, then i will start to really kemas rumah... Buang yg 'keruh2'... and i will discipline myself to keep it clean and simple.
Yang lain aper rancangan ?
<font color="aa00aa">morning all lovely ladies!!!
wati,
wah..semangatnya buat kuih pagi2.
admire u lah masih ada energy and stamina lagi.
i nowadays ni asik ngantuk je..dah brapa hari naik train tido from yishun all the way to cityhall asik nak terlajak je..hehe..
as per normal, 10 malam terakhir ni, hubby will ajak me go terawih.
after that at nite after faiq sleep we will tadarus together then solat sunat.
then terus sahur barulah sleep..
tu yg ngantuk ni..
tapi my hopes is mudah mudahan our effort will pay off and insyaAllah dapatlah kita berjumpa dgn lailatul qadar.</font>
wati,
wah..semangatnya buat kuih pagi2.
admire u lah masih ada energy and stamina lagi.
i nowadays ni asik ngantuk je..dah brapa hari naik train tido from yishun all the way to cityhall asik nak terlajak je..hehe..
as per normal, 10 malam terakhir ni, hubby will ajak me go terawih.
after that at nite after faiq sleep we will tadarus together then solat sunat.
then terus sahur barulah sleep..
tu yg ngantuk ni..
tapi my hopes is mudah mudahan our effort will pay off and insyaAllah dapatlah kita berjumpa dgn lailatul qadar.</font>
<font color="aa00aa">morning lynn, mira!!!!
wati,
aku ni rugged ke?
hehehe...
kadang i ni leka but my hubby yg rajin ingatkan..
yelah lagipun i ni dah banyak dosa kat dunia ni..mudah mudahan dapat jumpa malam penuh berkat tu dapatlah juga cuci dosa2 aku ni kan..hehe</font>
wati,
aku ni rugged ke?
hehehe...
kadang i ni leka but my hubby yg rajin ingatkan..
yelah lagipun i ni dah banyak dosa kat dunia ni..mudah mudahan dapat jumpa malam penuh berkat tu dapatlah juga cuci dosa2 aku ni kan..hehe</font>
<font color="0000ff">Wati
i baru baca ur posting at ur fren. and i agree wit lina and styli.. jgn terburu2 buat keputusan especially dlm keadaan marah..
mcm styli cakap, perpisahan bukan jln kluar yg terbaik. memang berat mata memandang berat lagi bahu yg memikul.. insya-allah ada hikmah sebaliknya.
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i baru baca ur posting at ur fren. and i agree wit lina and styli.. jgn terburu2 buat keputusan especially dlm keadaan marah..
mcm styli cakap, perpisahan bukan jln kluar yg terbaik. memang berat mata memandang berat lagi bahu yg memikul.. insya-allah ada hikmah sebaliknya.
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<font color="aa00aa">mira,
u buat cookies apa tu?
i ni rindu sangat baking..ingat besok nak buat brownies ah..lepaskan kempunan sikit..hehe
lynn,
tak go masjid.
we terawih kat mph near our block..around blk 687 belakang rumah danryan tu.
tadarus and the rest done at home ah.
insyaAllah we will khatam before syawal menjelang ni..left 4 more juz to complete.</font>
u buat cookies apa tu?
i ni rindu sangat baking..ingat besok nak buat brownies ah..lepaskan kempunan sikit..hehe
lynn,
tak go masjid.
we terawih kat mph near our block..around blk 687 belakang rumah danryan tu.
tadarus and the rest done at home ah.
insyaAllah we will khatam before syawal menjelang ni..left 4 more juz to complete.</font>
<font color="0000ff">Lynzi
ohh buat kat bawah blk, dulu when i was young pun selalu ikut my late grandma buat kat bawah blk je.. now ikut hb gi muhammadiyah pulak
btw kat bawah blk u all buat terawih + witir + tadarus sampai kul berapa sey habis!!??
den mlm at home u sambung solat sunat lagi??? </font>
ohh buat kat bawah blk, dulu when i was young pun selalu ikut my late grandma buat kat bawah blk je.. now ikut hb gi muhammadiyah pulak
btw kat bawah blk u all buat terawih + witir + tadarus sampai kul berapa sey habis!!??
den mlm at home u sambung solat sunat lagi??? </font>
<font color="aa00aa">tania,
most co dont practice that ah.
lucky i ni govt job so dah dapat pay last saturday..hehe
insyaAllah if i buat lebih will pass to u some.
nora,
ni dah penat ke sampai salah hari?
hehe
lynn,
eh tadarus done at home..just me n hubby je.
terawih kat mph tu habis around 10 gitu.</font>
most co dont practice that ah.
lucky i ni govt job so dah dapat pay last saturday..hehe
insyaAllah if i buat lebih will pass to u some.
nora,
ni dah penat ke sampai salah hari?
hehe
lynn,
eh tadarus done at home..just me n hubby je.
terawih kat mph tu habis around 10 gitu.</font>
Lynzi,
I make tarts, chocolate chip cookies, corn flake chocolate, peanut cookies and one special one which my maid make. I brought those non cook fish and prawn crakers and ask my maid to goreng.
my chocolate chip cookies had become chocolate cookies because my maid mix the chocolate chip with dough while I was talking to my MIL over the phone. when come back the whole dough become chocolate liao.
I make tarts, chocolate chip cookies, corn flake chocolate, peanut cookies and one special one which my maid make. I brought those non cook fish and prawn crakers and ask my maid to goreng.
my chocolate chip cookies had become chocolate cookies because my maid mix the chocolate chip with dough while I was talking to my MIL over the phone. when come back the whole dough become chocolate liao.
smalldreams
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Morning all!
Lynzi
Wah rajin you! I think this time round, I'm so weak & would succumb to sleeping instead of terawikh.
Mira
Wow
you really have a lot of energy to bake all those cookies! I only baked a couple of cheese cookies. That's it. My sister wanted me to bake some cookies for her but I told her really no time already.
Wati
peanut butter cups sound good! You pernah makan yang Reese peanut butter cups? I love those. I think my #2 baby likes peanut butter. Before I end sahur, I'll usually have a slice of roti & peanut butter.
Lynn
You dah boleh puasa? That's good
Lynzi
Wah rajin you! I think this time round, I'm so weak & would succumb to sleeping instead of terawikh.
Mira
Wow
you really have a lot of energy to bake all those cookies! I only baked a couple of cheese cookies. That's it. My sister wanted me to bake some cookies for her but I told her really no time already.
Wati
peanut butter cups sound good! You pernah makan yang Reese peanut butter cups? I love those. I think my #2 baby likes peanut butter. Before I end sahur, I'll usually have a slice of roti & peanut butter.
Lynn
You dah boleh puasa? That's good
smalldreams
Active Member
Haizzz....pagi2 darah dah ups...!