ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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Blom habis pasal MJ ni. So many stories are emerging, you'll never know mana betul mana tidak.
Today 1st day at work. So lemau!
Hana, in KL, we either stay at Concorde Premier or Crown Regency KL. The 2nd one is a service apartment. No frills. Both walking distance to KLCC and Bt Bintang area.
Today 1st day at work. So lemau!
Hana, in KL, we either stay at Concorde Premier or Crown Regency KL. The 2nd one is a service apartment. No frills. Both walking distance to KLCC and Bt Bintang area.
eliza_hairi
New Member
Hi sumer!!
Saper bagi2 harta MJ?? NAK! NAK!
Korang ader use rotan / physical means to discipline the kids tak??
Anak2 ku sibling rivalry to the max ah!!!Dah hari2 buat pasal, kalo gaduh leh sampai lebam2, luka kena cekau / gigit. Hari2 mak bpk jadi incredible hulk!! Soft approach dah pakai, tak jalan jugak... Even the granparents dono wat to do, sometimes we just separate them coz they are hurting each other.
I really don wan to start caning... my kids are 3yo and 1+ yo.
Saper bagi2 harta MJ?? NAK! NAK!
Korang ader use rotan / physical means to discipline the kids tak??
Anak2 ku sibling rivalry to the max ah!!!Dah hari2 buat pasal, kalo gaduh leh sampai lebam2, luka kena cekau / gigit. Hari2 mak bpk jadi incredible hulk!! Soft approach dah pakai, tak jalan jugak... Even the granparents dono wat to do, sometimes we just separate them coz they are hurting each other.
I really don wan to start caning... my kids are 3yo and 1+ yo.
mamaliz
Active Member
san...
okies...banyak jugak tu..hilmi ni malas skit bawak bag...kasi bag kosong pon dia taknak...hehehehe
sabrina...
im stuck in the middle..to use wen necessary...but not everyone will agree with the way i teach my kidslah...hehehe....
i masa kecik tak pernah kena caning...except by my atuk masa ngaji..my siblings kena banyakkkkk...
okies...banyak jugak tu..hilmi ni malas skit bawak bag...kasi bag kosong pon dia taknak...hehehehe
sabrina...
im stuck in the middle..to use wen necessary...but not everyone will agree with the way i teach my kidslah...hehehe....
i masa kecik tak pernah kena caning...except by my atuk masa ngaji..my siblings kena banyakkkkk...
mamaliz
Active Member
i tried the notty corner for hilmi.....but it stopped working when i move to my friend's place cos the bibik nanti ketawakan dia n senyum senyum..at times she pujuk also...haiz....
now it barely works...
sarah wasnt so notty so she only get the cane when she did sumthing wrong ever since she start school..
now it barely works...
sarah wasnt so notty so she only get the cane when she did sumthing wrong ever since she start school..
eliza_hairi
New Member
mamaliz, i pun stuck in the middle... nak bedal, kesian lak.. tak bedal, nanti dorang tak takut and wont stop.
lina, u pernah try that method of sending them to a spot to 'calm' down?
The problem is sometimes cara2 aku disciplin bebudak skola terbwk2 kat umah.... haiz!
lina, u pernah try that method of sending them to a spot to 'calm' down?
The problem is sometimes cara2 aku disciplin bebudak skola terbwk2 kat umah.... haiz!
eliza_hairi
New Member
Lynn, u r right abt that... my hubby and i pun rasa memang this is the reason... thats' y we r rectifying the problem.. by next the kids will be together in the same house. Kiter dah find alternative childcare arrangement...
tapi masalah yg skarang nie ader memang draining both of us...
ok will log in again later..
u all share2 ur input la..
aku nie jaga budak2 dah besar jer pandai...
tapi masalah yg skarang nie ader memang draining both of us...
ok will log in again later..
u all share2 ur input la..
aku nie jaga budak2 dah besar jer pandai...
sab...
yes my kids 10 n 9 now...it works for me...but after that ade interaction mode pulak like asking them why r they at that spot\room,etc.....
when Danish came...ade more rivalry ah...but i terapkan my kids how to 'sayang' their brother...but till today still gaduh but tolerable
yes my kids 10 n 9 now...it works for me...but after that ade interaction mode pulak like asking them why r they at that spot\room,etc.....
when Danish came...ade more rivalry ah...but i terapkan my kids how to 'sayang' their brother...but till today still gaduh but tolerable
Harlow!!!
zu tgh makan cheesekek frm shahlynn!!
niari masak sop sayur and fried chicken...
san,
u chk hotels along lrt lines la.. its easier to travel ard in KL. the jam pat sane lama sey!! normally if im there i also stay at concorde, park royal or novotel... bcos the buffet sodap!
i ever tried nova, its 3star, very kecik. bilik air muat satu org ajer... tapi pat bawah byk street stalls. walking dist to many shopping malls cos dekat bukit bintang. park royal, concorde, berjaya also ard here. concorde jauh pat dlm sikit tp naik lrt smp ler... HTHs
zu tgh makan cheesekek frm shahlynn!!
niari masak sop sayur and fried chicken...
san,
u chk hotels along lrt lines la.. its easier to travel ard in KL. the jam pat sane lama sey!! normally if im there i also stay at concorde, park royal or novotel... bcos the buffet sodap!
i ever tried nova, its 3star, very kecik. bilik air muat satu org ajer... tapi pat bawah byk street stalls. walking dist to many shopping malls cos dekat bukit bintang. park royal, concorde, berjaya also ard here. concorde jauh pat dlm sikit tp naik lrt smp ler... HTHs<font color="0000ff">Sab
i guess it best to put them together since their age gap is only 2 yrs.. kids klu selalu jumpa, selalu main sama2.. belajar sama2.. they can be very close.. and they neo they r sibling shd look out for each other..
ur kids age is the same as my sis children, they do quarrel but u ca see, they really care for each other.</font>
i guess it best to put them together since their age gap is only 2 yrs.. kids klu selalu jumpa, selalu main sama2.. belajar sama2.. they can be very close.. and they neo they r sibling shd look out for each other..
ur kids age is the same as my sis children, they do quarrel but u ca see, they really care for each other.</font>
Lina,
we did the same thing with Mika oso...
after every punishment, mesti ada interaction moment. we asked him dia tau tak knaper dia kena punish, blah blah....
and we explain nicely....
kadang, ada baiknya budak2 maid jaga, coz at least dorang sebumbung....
diff caregiver = diff way of upbringing.
if tak clash takper... but most of the time, budak2 jadi confuse...
we did the same thing with Mika oso...
after every punishment, mesti ada interaction moment. we asked him dia tau tak knaper dia kena punish, blah blah....
and we explain nicely....
kadang, ada baiknya budak2 maid jaga, coz at least dorang sebumbung....
diff caregiver = diff way of upbringing.
if tak clash takper... but most of the time, budak2 jadi confuse...
mamaliz
Active Member
<font color="119911">sabrina
u r not alone.. me also facing e same woes..
n now both kan wen dgn their gramps they r soo disobedient, so misbehaved bt once depan me or hub esp hub they will behave like an angel.. kkdg mmg i give up.. lagi mine is 5yrs & 4yrs lagi rapat.. apa pun tak bleh lain seh mesti nak sama & sakasma for them rotan tak jalan & tak takut.. irfan ever kena caned bt not my girl</font>
u r not alone.. me also facing e same woes..
n now both kan wen dgn their gramps they r soo disobedient, so misbehaved bt once depan me or hub esp hub they will behave like an angel.. kkdg mmg i give up.. lagi mine is 5yrs & 4yrs lagi rapat.. apa pun tak bleh lain seh mesti nak sama & sakasma for them rotan tak jalan & tak takut.. irfan ever kena caned bt not my girl</font>
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