ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

"its the env lah...
camner nak pandai cakap, if the adults tak layan berbual, tak tunjuk ajar..."

this is what my hb cakap bec ape budak tu cakap the adults balas "ape u cakap nie" thats it

but my fil say my sil tu jage anak betul betul
nak kasi anak dia pandai
she told me recently whatever homework sch kasi SEMUER dia dah go thru with anak dia before
anak dia tau buat.. bagoslah

aku angguk kepala jer lah..maklum i not sahm cam dia
 


nora,
u better advise mak dia to beli share banquet...
since anak dia suka makan kat situ...

1- mak dia masak tak sedap. banquet lagi sedap, lagi selera.
2- kat banquet, nak makan tak kena torture...

sometimes kids remember the little little details which we adults tend to overlook.
 
during my 2nd girl Pri sch. there is a boy like that. if he is normal he is Ok but when he is angry even the teachers cannot do anything. Onlt one or two teacher cannot handle this boy. The classromm same more get the Tent, camping tent... in the class room.
 
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Hello again, back from a quick lunch. I feel quite giddy pulak hari ni. Tapi tak guna balik rest, work still needs to be completed.

Nora
kesiannya budak tu. Dia dah associate lunch with crying &amp; rough behaviour agaknye. 4 yrs old actually dah besar jugak kan. Dah boleh self-feed. mana lah ada orang suap budak with feed on top of body - that's not normal behaviour

Actually kalau budak takmo makan, takyah paksa. Just let the kid eat whatever, drink whatever. Kalau lapar, sure makan</font>
 
I shd really stop this...but

the poor boy dunno how to feed himself
reason: berkecah, makan tak betol if feed himself

the other day we went cycling and then lunch at banquent with them

they were amazed izzat can use fork makan mee

last last takmo cakap pasal dia lagi
 
<font color="0077aa">Shahlynn
Talking about the baby assessments eh,
I find it quite ridiculous seh. Things like, can baby say, "Papa, Mama". or whether baby can roll, etc.

Maybe those are just yardsticks, tapi I just find them so strange. So, if budak tak leh say Papa, Mama at 15 mths, dia mesti di-refer to a speech therapist?

kesian baby2... kecik2 dah kena assess, which percentile they fall in &amp; so &amp; so</font>
 
<font color="119911">yup agree with smalldreams
hes 4yrs dah same age as irfan.. mmg kkdg irfan mmg tak nak makan mmg kkdg i marah gak bt i tak pernah ah buat camtu to him.. coz irfan wenever with me he can forget abt makan, selalu or sentiasa kenyang je.. bt once dah malam org dah masuk dlm nak tido ah time tu dia complain lapar, tak kasi kesian, kasi kita dah penat 1 hari haiz..</font>
 
<font color="0077aa">ok ok Nora, you don't have to continue. Anak orang eh.... just hope his social skills would get better.

Or perhaps if that little boy selalu jumpa izzat, he might learn a thing or two from izzat. Children learn via modelling kan? Boleh izzat jadi cikgu!

My mom just SMS-ed. She said she taught Adam to say Bismillah. Tapi yang keluar Bismiyah...hehe

San
Hola! I had cereal prawns from Chai Chee Rest. Teringat you ...</font>
 
<font color="119911">ppsstt..
assesment kan ive act forgotten to brg my kids to poly since irfan was 2yrs &amp; azza finished her course of jabs.. so theres no assesment checked for her at all.. bt will this affect wen shes gg P1? hmm coz i totally forget ah.. as shes always not here in SG wen its her bdae..</font>
 
nora,
sorie ah...
but tu jenis orang2 yg dia jer betol, dia jer pandai, dia jer bagus....
orang camnie, i just, "gasak ko lah nak! bukan aku kasi ko makan pun!"
i iyerkan ajer...

smalldreams,
mika very picky eater.
i think i ever mentioned here, dat we call him unta. eat today, wont eat for the next few days...
alhamdulillah... dah makin besar, dah makin byk energy burn, dah senang makan...
which is why, the moment dia kata dia nak makan jer, we would kelam kabut whip something for him. so long he eats.
any side dish yg dia suka, asyik tambah, we sanggup tak makan, just so he can have more...

u noe, when my 'dating tactic' works, i think we were the happiest &amp; proudest parents on earth...
 
it doesnt matter wat age tau self feed onot. its whether u ever kasi anak tu experience self feeding ke tak. take adam for eg, his peers yg pegi skola bole self feed v v well. makan tak kecah, but adam just so-so. cos reason: mak dia, yrs truly, malas nak kemas when he makan berkecah! haha.. tapi asal dia tau makan sudah ler. and forcing a kid to eat pun tak bagus! nanti phobic. like yr nephew tu ler, associate makan with screaming!

actually i tink SAHM more malas than FTWM.
cos kite stay at home full day, kekadang tu tings tat we can avoid doing extram we avoid. haha.. mcm self feeding la, mandi ler etc... :p
 
<font color="0077aa">shahlynn
tapi weight dia OK kan? OK lah tu... :p

Re : Carpet shampooing
Would anyone know if I can get this service for my home anywhere? Or should I just invest in a steam cleaner?</font>
 
nora,
kat McD bleh cakap?
ehhehehhe

smalldreams,
yup yup....
but its soo unfair kan...
so, dat boy dah pandai2 mcm2... and just bec my boy tak respond they way u want, are u saying he's got learning disabilities?
 
moms,

i wana get smtg for dad tapi really dunno wat to get for him!! aku nak blikan ipod, tapi my mak plak kate tak mo.. takut my dad dgr dangdut, haha...dia kate dia geli!!! but i tink he really will like it cos he loves listening to music! any ideas? TIA
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<font color="ff6000">Nshahi,
Sorry for not replying. I was bz with my kids...
Can u confirm the quantity?
And again, isit possible if there's a delivery charge delivered to ur building?</font>
 
smalldreams,
weight dia?
hahahahhaha....
kudut &amp; tinggi!
he's only 18kg tau... and he's turning 5.


carpet shampooing...
u can buy shampoo &amp; DIY.

for pro, yes... ada company datang rumah &amp; clean ur carpets.
but i dun have their contact no. hb's uncle engage the services very raya
 
<font color="0077aa">Zu
canggih seh ipod! How about an antique sony walkman for him? Hihihi!

I don't think I'll be getting anything...is that bad of me? Maybe just some $$</font>
 
<font color="aa00aa">hihi..im back!!!!!!

punyalah ngantuk..had such a heavy lunch.
the carrot cake from cedele soooo nice..hehehe..</font>
 
<font color="119911">san
can we do it via sms? ive already sms u e confirm order twice. Sms me pls.. or later thru msn? ill b back at my desk by 2.40pm</font>
 
<font color="119911">Slynn
ur mika more berat than my irfan deh.. gd for u &amp; him.. irfan so even kurus &amp; tg je..
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smalldreams,
i will put small carpet yg pat Geylang jual $30 those kind masuk my washer! haha..
tak kaput tak tau ape nk cakap..
dat day hub caught me doin dat..
habis aku kene marah! haha...
 
san nak kene angkut barang2 pi hantar opis nshah!
tgh imagine san mcm samsui woman!
tak glamer sey.. pi opis w bau2.. haha...

eh.. san i tot u on leave?
saw yr MSN status.
 
<font color="0077aa">
Zu, my mom does that too! Tapi these carpets are the thick sorts lah. Urgh, i don't like carpets but my hubby *must* have them.

I macam nak gantung kat luar aje time hujan, and then let it clean itself, tapi gross kan? That's why I think I'll call for a carpet cleaner.

WOuld anyone have a steam cleaner? Is it worth it to get those? I nak get tapi takut nanti menyemak lah</font>
 
<font color="119911">san angkat samosa tu her opis, ill meet her at her building.. mana ada she hantar to my building..</font>
 
<font color="aa00aa">arghhh..who was that who said if by 15 mths havent say mummy or daddy tu means something wrong??
oh nooooooo</font>
 
zu,
my mom bentang carpet @ kitchen.
den she kol all anak2, kasi berus sorang satu - dok scrub carpet.
with air sabun &amp; all...
den, she vacuum the excess water. she jemur.

carpet dah settle, kita kena scrub kitchen plak.
2in1!
 
haha.. bagus idea tu!!
i oni recalled i kecik2 kite adik beradik wash kitchen!
happy sangat.. now kau cakap pasal cuci karpet, maybe next time i do tat! haha...
 
{who was that who said if by 15 mths havent say mummy or daddy tu means something wrong?? }

something wrong ah...
sebab anak lynzi by 18mths dah bleh memorise the whole encyclopedia...
 
me back...arghhh sedap sikit da take a nap...
baca pasal autism semua ni..takut jugak....sejuk perut jap...tapi alhamdullilah glad wiz Anaqi's development...No doubt tak lah all the alpha he recognise but i'm letting him taking his own pace
 
<font color="0077aa">Shahlynn
If only that was feasible for me, memang i dah buat. Actually I toyed with the idea of scrubbing my carpet in the toilet bathtub pas tu, gantung kat luar rumah. Tapi I fikir, carpet tu dah berat giler with water, macam mana lah aku nak angkat, heret pergi luar rumah...

haiz..what a silly problem I have

Lynzi
U gi check health booklet. Kan ada all those checklists kan? I'm not sure if it's 15 mths ke 18 mths, tapi ada one part if they can call out Papa/Mama. Alah ni semua tak penting lah, we know our children best. </font>
 
<font color="ff6000">Zu,
Am on leave and will be back next Mon.
Multi-tasking. Now Harith's asleep while I mop the floor cum chatting...

Kalau lambat reply, faham-faham ok...</font>
 
<font color="aa00aa">slynn,
faiq cuma boleh recognise alpha eh..bukan memorise encylopedia tau.
aniwei zaman encyclopedia tu..yg salesman ketuk pintu rumah asking to buy the whole set is so 80s..hehehe</font>
 
<font color="ff6000">Nshahi,
I don't thnk so I can bring to work if i nvr take cab with 2 boxes of samosa cos i need to brng some files to work. Unless i seek help fr my younger bro to deliver to ur building but with delivery surcharge...u lemme noe aite.</font>
 
mas,
pasal autism... kita jer yg tahu capabilities anak2 kita...
aku tak heranlah...
a Genius is born, not created.

*note to self* think Michael jackson, think safiyah.

i strongly believe - Allah Maha Adil...
kekurangan yg Dia beri kita, Dia gantikan dgn Kelebihan...
 
smalldreams,
hahhahah....
only do that if its carpet murah, buat basahan....
if its those thick expensive ones, better u get profesionals to do it...

alternatively, like i said, buy carpet from home fix. leave it for a few hours, den vacuum...
cheap &amp; easy.


zu,
manalah aku kenakan lynzi!
kau nie pun...
 
<font color="0077aa">Shahlynn
Wow, those must've cost a bomb.

My hubby ada a whole shelve full of those encyclopedias. Frankly I really boring tau when I see them, coz they take up too much space. THere was once I told him to pack them in a box, coz no one uses encyclopedia anymore.

Tapi his reply really made me regret &amp; feel bad asking. Those were gifts from his late dad. He said he'd want to keep them coz got sentimental value. Haiz... nak tak nak, terpaksa lah I leave those alone (while I stuff the newer books elsewhere).

I also feel like getting rid of my thick textbooks from year 2000...tapi my hubby said, tu semua ilmu, tak patut dibuang.

*shakes head*

Lina, apa lagi, gi lah canteen

Feeling so nauseous today....gahh...</font>
 
hahhaha....

lina will come with her kids,
i will come with my sisters....

lina &amp; i amik sorang $500.
lina kasi anak2 dia sorang $10.
balance she keep.

i will give my sis sorang $5.
balance will go into my HELP-ME-BE-NORA'S-NEIGHBOUR-FUND tabung.

muahhahahhaha
*rubs hand*
 
mas,shahlynn

though aku dulu tutor but i never 'force' my kids to study or set unrealistic goals......
its not abt scoring...but we also need to cultivate independent learners....how to handle stress, social aspect etc....

what makes u happy? i ask my kids...n it MUST NOT CONCERN A PERSON\things,etc
 

smalldreams,
my parents cant afford to buy the whole range.
maklumlah, byk commitment....

so when he was posted @ Ulu Pandan incinerator
(he kerja cisco), dgn kuasa Allah, at dat time,
the publisher buang ALL encyclopedia &amp; childrens britanica, just because they just printed a newer edition.
so apa lagi, my dad grab lah...

blom masuk tong... all books in their own packaging. boxed &amp; taped up.
all the pakcik cisco kerja situ tak lepaskan peluang...
My dad took 5 sets each.
give away to my uncles &amp; took 1 set each for us.

its been under my bed all the while. until i kemas2. now its in the playroom, on the shelf.
waiting for its rightful owner...
 
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