ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?


sob sob..sher, kita almost serupa ya..*hugz hugz*..cuma i terbalik, my mum tinggalkan my dad

u know my dad never speak to me abt my mum till once when i was 15.Masa tu, i had problems with my step mum and i was so sad and i asked my dad why i can't have a normal family.Then my dad pujuk i and told me that i have been so strong..that was when he told me that when after the divorce with my mum, she called to say she want to come back and rujuk..my dad said he was so happy that he cleaned up the house, he cooked her fav dishes, he bathed and put nice clothes on me..and we both sat on the sofa, waiting for her....we waited and waited...the whole evening and nite..but she never come back....

when i heard that i cried and cried cos i felt sorry not for myself but for my dad...
 
<font color="aa00aa">sri,
i oso use those wet tisu makeup remover kind.

sher,
oh dear..didnt know that your childhood was quite tragic.
but your mum must have been very strong to be able to bring u up alone sampai u jadi 'orang'.</font>
 
oh tu story top secret...my anak tiri lelaki 16 yrs....but tinggal with the mother...but i tak pernah berjumpa...

itu shaja...the rest cannot story
 
<font color="aa00aa">nazlin,
ya allah..sedihnya story pasal u n dad tunggu tu.
i literally am crying here.
sampai my collig yg kat sebelah tanya i kenapa sey.
but i can feel how mcuh disappointment and sadness your dad must have felt.</font>
 
{my dad said he was so happy that he cleaned up the house, he cooked her fav dishes, he bathed and put nice clothes on me..and we both sat on the sofa, waiting for her....we waited and waited...the whole evening and nite..but she never come back....

when i heard that i cried and cried cos i felt sorry not for myself but for my dad...}


Gosh, Nazlinnnn....
I'm tearing... really, i am...
 
Nazlin... really mcm citer drama lah.. I salute your dad for raising you well...

ehem, ehem... so dad must be good looking lah nie.. dia kerja Steward right ?
 
<font color="aa00aa">nazlin, sher,
u gerls deserve all the happiness in the world now that u have been thru so much pain and hardship last time.</font>
 
Quote "ehem, ehem... so dad must be good looking lah nie.. dia kerja Steward right ?"


betol betol beto.. aku curious jugak nie...
 
Ok kengkawan, i feel that today's topic and conversation is the best so far... Telah membuka minda dan mata kita...

HUGS for everyone !!!

Going off now... goodbye
 
Naz
We both had a fair share of kesedihan.
Its so hard not to have a complete family..bila hari raya Im sure u feel the same way as I did kan masa kecik2 dulu..
Selalu tertanya how come pple can have a meriah one, how come I have no father to jln with..
Mine was heart breaking la..My mom so strong cari nafkah utk me pasal duit pun takde frm my dad.
Every Hari Raya, my mum tried her very best to have a new baju for me..tak mcm org lain baju jln silih berganti.

Isshh dah lah cerita sedih pulak...whatever it is Naz, we are lucky to have a complete life now. Ada husband and sorang anak. Cukup la to make my life sooo happy. Allah maha kaya.
 
Sooo sad... berat mate memandang lagi bera bahu memikul

Kau tengok si mas tak terkate ape... masih tarik tarik tisu and hembus ingus dia..

sher
sekarang kau nak belik ape baju/bag berdosen dosen pun boleh... mekkap jgn cakap lah
 
Nora
LOL..
Tak la sekarang kalau bila beli kan still I knw whre I came frm so I must not lupa asalku.Selalu fikir berkali2, kasi duit kat my mom lagi bagus!
Up till now, nanti my mum will say takpe beli la.
 
Nora
She said its all because of me that she survived the storm. And for me its because of her that Im a very strong person within..(chet!! Ampu diri sendirik ni!)
 
Lina,
good things come to those who wait....
Perservere. Dah namanya ujian... nak buat camner?

Hikmah disebalik kesabaran ke atas ujian yg diberikan.... Nikmat kan, Nazlin &amp; Sher...
 
Agree with Wati, hari ni punya stories, really worth every "refresh"
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Thanks for sharing, Sher &amp; Naz (dua2 jambs)
 
<font color="aa00aa">mums and dads who are in this kind of situation often draws their strength from their children.
bila terpandang and teringat muka anak, teringat untuk sabar dan redha dan hadapi hari2 yg mendatang.</font>
 
hugz all mummies here..tks tks tks babes..though i just got to know most of you but i can feel that u all are genuinely nice n concerned for me
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*hugz lagik ah*
 
Nora..hehe handsome lah jugak kan..hehe..he used to be a singer tau in the 80s..ekeke..but after that he so busy flying.Now still flying..but he cabin crew exec already so he fly only to audit the crew.
 
hmmm.. singer mane name hilal eh.....
hmmm nanti balik tanyer my mom

i'm glad u feel comfortable with us..
ye lah kekadang kite megarut jugak...
 
{mums and dads who are in this kind of situation often draws their strength from their children. }

Lynzi,
tu kalau parents yg pandang muka anak....
yg sanggup berkorban demi anak2....
May Allah balas jasa mereka....

Yg hanyut?
Yg sanggup tinggalkan anak2 demi carik kesenangan, tapi takder hala tujuan?
kesian anak2....
yg tanggung, yg ikut hanyut, anak2....
May Allah guide them to the rite path....
 


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