ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

<font color="0000ff">Quote *kecik hati orang westside tau... *

aiseymen wati.. sori lah aku tak tahu hati org2 west kecik2.. perasaan aku "besar2" org west tu.. LOL *jgn marah, gurau je*</font>
 


<font color="119911">morning

ladies yg ada pembantu, can i noe wats e timing of ur maid tido &amp; bangun can share? altho tak da peraturan from agent tp i jus wanna noe..</font>
 
Badan boleh besar, tapi deep-down inside we are sensitive people tau...

Betul tak Shahlynn.....

Date takmo jauh2 ah... Nanti dah puasa, sibuk nak preparation raya... nanti bulan raya, sibuk, nak jalan rumah saudara....
 
Lynn

The feeling is mutual, pada kiter org westside / sembawang, tampines dan kawasan sewaktu dgn nyer is so ulu for us too.
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Shahlynn, Wati
Takper... Org east yek aper.... he3!
 
<font color="0000ff">Nshahi

i let my maid sleep early, and i expect her to wake up early too.. e reason cos i wake up very early and want her to get up b4 i does..

Sleep at btw 9-10pm
Wake up - 5am</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">Naqi
kau tak nak jeneket ehh? ok lah klu gitu kita siap kan fishkek... LOL *Betul tak shahlynn*</font>
 
Wati,
btol btol....
kita nie badan jer besar, tapi hati kecik!
*mana ada orang hati besar cam badan dia?*


Okaylah....
if July, makan @ Breeks or Secret Recipe okay tak?

The seafood kita postpone to time most can make it...
Good things come to those who wait!
*Aku pun nak claim habuan aku dari Lina &amp; Mas*
 
Morning semua!

Lynzi
how was yr trip? Takde gambar ke? Faiq pun ikut kan? Must've been fun!

I tak tau pun abt the motherhood exhibition. Are the prices of diapers really worth it? Tapi yang tak sanggup, the crowd kat situ lah...lagi2 ni ada Barney show lah apa lah...

Mas
My birthday is also in early august! So that makes us Leos
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<font color="119911">ok.. tp u all yg suruh dorang tido at e said timing or dorang auto eh?
aku tgh menyirap ni.. cam nak balik seh pa'kal my collg takda i had to cover her duty till tomorrow!!

she ckp she wakes up at 5.30am tp i &amp; MIl ckp terpulang.. janji jgn lambat dari me bangun coz i mmg bangun pagi on wkdays kan.. so i told her latest u can wake up is ard 6am or even 6.30am lah not later.. then tido plak.. ill repeatly told her to sleep early.. timing not specific coz i kkdg masuk lambat &amp; if wkd mmg lagi lambat ah.. tp smlm kira or i tink she tido very siang liao.. at 10.45pm or 11pm? n selalu shes e one yg drag her work till late nite pernah i bangun ard 12+ tgk dia lum tido lagi.. my fault meh?
dah tu tadi pagi ku bangun &amp; masih hegeh2 at home dia tak nak tanya aku satu question pung..
instead my hub tgh tido at bilik,

dia ketuk pintu at 8am tanya soalan bodoh, nak talipon rumah or sms rumah bleh tak? mmg i niat ingat nak suruh dia call rumah dia malam ni.. coz nari genap 1wk dgn kita.. bt dia tanya salah org, so hub rampas talipon from her n asked her to wait for me to come back..
then at 8.30am ketuk lagi, nak bicara.. hub dah bingit tanya apa? she said she tak tahan tido kul 12am.. hub pekik kat dia, ckp tg mam balik..
so kesimpulannya bukan kah itu KURANG AJAR namanya?? kenapa tak tanya me but my hub???? i cant ctrl my anger seh!!!</font>
 
Betul tu Sab.

August? Me anything ah... tak nak banyak cakap ah... Banyak cakap banyak hal per...
 
Sabrina, Wati, Lynn

Actually, I don't mind kalau jauh, tapi ada access to MRT etc. Tapi, kalau pergi makan kat tempat yang jawuh, pas tu takde MRT, tu yang lengit tu. One such example is Bottle Tree Park, Hehe.

Actually Mak's place standard pun dah turun, I agree. Cuma quantity aje remains the same. And although I'm in the east, I'd call Mak's place Ulu, sebab susah nak get there via MRT. Susahkan orang yang datang aje.
 
<font color="aa00aa">smalldreams,
pics lum upload ah..still in my hubby's dslr.
the trip was reali fun.
u should see how faiq was so excited trying to snorkel though he still cant do it.
he loves looking at the fishes and corals.
lepas tgk fish, he will continue with playing at the beach or swim in the pool.
punyalah excited anak aku..
i think he got even darker now..hahaha!!!

oh about the diapers..can be really worth it if ada promo.
cos they always have bundled deals.</font>
 
Morning Dan

Lynzi
Good that you've had fun!
Beach holidays are always fun!
I think if I go trengganu, i'll fly there also.
Tak sanggup seh nak drive up for 12 hrs.
Did that 2 yrs ago, and I don't think I'm game for it - backbreaking!
Haiz, don't think I'll be going on any more holidays soon.
The last one I had in Japan has wiped out my savings &amp; i'm still slowly recovering... haiz...
 
morning mummies!

i'm reading on the missing air france plane..so kesian..still not found..arghh such news are really not helping someone with aviophobia like me!
 
<font color="ff0000">Nazlin

U duk jauh lah....i tak dapat take pic with of u &amp; San
next gathering

btw, kirim salam kat Jahat Emeelea tu...she's always busy
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hehe yes dear!must must take pic next time
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Ok, will do insyallah..ah ah dia tu kalah i yang ada business..ekeke..ada jer plan plan dia yang last min...but she was helping me on sunday for the tudung wshop and notty met her during the wshop.
 
Nazlin
Wow, what babes in those photos!
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That Air France story, is really scary eh? It could happen to anyone. Dah jadi cam case bermuda triangle pulak.

Nshah
yr hubby mengaum kat yr maid ke? Confirm yr maid terkejut. Whatever it is, u must tangani masalah ini dengan cara berhikmah ok? Jangan ikutkan perasaan sangat, if not, boleh hilang akal &amp; we might do something unfair to another human being.
 
<font color="ff6000">Korang dah upload pics sey. Insyllh I'll try to upload during wknds kalau tiada halangan.

Nshahi,
Be calm ok?
Is this e new maid aft u've changed?
Hope you'll take things calmly.


Dan,
Next time kita take pics together-gether ok?
Takmu majuk tau...</font>
 
<font color="119911">wati, smalldreams
mayb my sentence tak clear ke? all this while shes been asking or telling me her problem bt y today e 1st time i tglkan dia dgn hub &amp; irfan je at home she buat perkara bodoh by knocking my door at 8am &amp; tanya nak call back home bleh tak then 8.30 nak discuss abt her timing tido.. kan kurang ajar? she can wait for hub to wake up or wait for me to come back kan? or ask me pagi tadi? bukannya dia tak jumpa i bila pi work seh??? tak masuk diakal, even agent disagrees of wat shes doing..
dont worry i wont do stupid to her, ill jus send her off habis cita lah.. pening aku camni.. at work tak tenteram seh

cuba lau in u allnya situation u all leh diam ke? bt if u all ok, sorry ah not me coz sblm ni she confide everything in me by y today? this morning, now? again its not bcoz of JEALOUS bt this is RESPECT, org tgh tido kau tak leh sabar?</font>
 
<font color="aa00aa">wah..lawa2 yg dalam those pics tu..
segan hamba nak take pic kalau join u all for gathering next time.</font>
 
<font color="ff6000">Nshahi,
This may look disrespect but mayb she do not know. Y dun u elaborate it to her?
Are you kids ok with her?
How's her job so far?</font>
 
tapi laki aku ngah tido pun, aku kejut...
aku tak peduli! aku nakkkkkkkkkkkkk
hehehehheh


mas, ur course on thurs &amp; fri kan?
dun think can join korang for lunch la.
last week jer dah 2 hari aku mc.
 
shahlynn aku kalau tgh tido bukan tak bleh...bleh tapi kena brush teeth dulu...hehehe

Aku pun lum tahu pegi ke tidak...
Aku ada induction dis thur n fri...dunno if i can postpone my course....I need to settle all the stuff b4 fri...Weekends aku ada masak at Melaka
 
<font color="119911">ish mas/ Slynn
ni lau kita kejut lain lah dok.. lau maid kejut apa hal siak? dia pun nak ke?
btw mas, jauhnya masak?</font>
 
Dan,
lunch?
Ooooooooo........ Mas ada course @ orchard building... sebelah building sakura tu.
so dia nak meet nora for lunch.
den i said, if aku bleh kluar, aku join them for lunch....
which is unlikely la... coz dis week tak sakit, so takleh jumpa doc, so takleh jumpa dorang.
den, tak kena pergi Thomson oso... camner nak kluar?
 
nshah,
lain orang, lain culture dok!
so mebe she think its okay tu knock on the door, to ask....

korang ingat tak, korang kecik2, pagi2 ketuk pintu parents korang, nak mintak duit jajan, nak pergi skolah.....?? cam gitu lah agaknya, pada si maid...
 
<font color="ff0000">shahlynn
i see i see...

nshah
watever the case is, since the maid is new, bila balik just give her wat are do &amp; don't...
mayb she belum arif lagi the hse rules
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Mane semuer olang????

Still slow eh for this page to load.

maid
i try my best not to leave any grey areas
give specific instructions and time table

i never say "suka hati kamu" "up to you" etc.

maids cannot read our minds... so kalau tak cakap entah ape dorang buat.

I also made it very clear with the maid that anything speak to ME and DO NOT speak to others.
Esp hb, i forbid any communication.

sleep: 11.30 earliest
wake up: 6

anyway, i googeld the ustaz and waheeda story, betol sab cakap his wife very pretty, the waheeda, alah.. so so only..
 

<font color="119911">NAw
tulah i pun heran kenapa plak dia berani comm dgn my hub &amp; worst org tgh tido kan? which is such tak masuk diakal.. wen kena tanya by agent tadi, she told agent, tght dat sir &amp; mam sama aje? apa dia buta ke? aku pompuan, laki aku tu pun pompuan ke?
haiz.. tp skg ni MIL dah ngamuk nak hantar dia balik for good, tak nak kai dia lagi.. so how eh? wat shld i say to lembutkan hati dia utk kasi e pembantu another chance?

mas
dah pi kedai yg at bt batok tu?

ish asal lambat eh nak upload? too big ke our topic ni? i mean our thread?</font>
 

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