ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

Do you guys call your MIL randomly to tanyer khabar ?...

aku angkat tangan dulu n say nope....
but my FIL will call 1 week once to tanya khabar...
 


Hmm..Tr aru col my youngest DD fall sick...sigh..lucky my hby hm fetching her now...

Wati

Nvr call MIL since married..only mt when there is occassion...
 
Quote "Do you guys call your MIL randomly to tanyer khabar ?"

I admint.. NEVA!!!!
whn hb go overseas and suruh bilangkan mak dia that he dah selamat sampai pun.. ku rase suunguh sungguh keberatan..


btw.. aku dah sms hb cakap "hows ur mum?".. heheh *tersnyum sipu*
 
<font color="000000">Wati
nope. only when she needs something..

...so when she call for me and happens that me in the toilet, i will not rtn her call..normally she will try agn to get me...</font>
 
{Do you guys call your MIL randomly to tanyer khabar ?... }

i dont. coz PIL will call almost every nite, just to talk to husband &amp; cucu. But when they senyap, I will tell hubby to call her.

Hubby yg banyak berbual ngan MIL. from politics to pasal cucu, to gossip, etc... Abt anything la.
after they put down the fone, hubby will tell me what they talked abt.
 
I dunno why the hb and mak dia VERY emo whenever he travels.. and he travels like avery 2 mths ok..

kalau boleh mak dia mesti nak hantar kat airport..
 
Oooopppssss...
i wanted to add....

i always remind myself, nanti bila i ada menantu, jgn melenting bila menantu tegur.
i noe most MIL pantang if DIL tegur. macam ego berderai gitu...

May we all become good, understanding &amp; loving MILs....
 
San, sigh* tu pun part of my worry too. Nowadays, i dah jarang call. I will ask my hubby to call.. tu pun dia kadang2 malas.. cos he said got nothing to talk abt. Kalau tak habis ah kita.. confirm dia mintak duit or suruh dtg rumah. hehehe... jahat betul aku nie kan.
 
<font color="000000">MIL will call hubby using his hp..

She tak pernah call my house to talk to my sons..Tapi kalau anak2 kepada hub's eld bro, MIL akan dtg dan selalu jengok...rumah aku setahun sekali baru MIL dtg...kalau tak raya agaknya tak dtg lah..

Hub's elder brother nak kasi mthly allowance, MIL kena dtg collect pat Bedok Rsvr...hmmm..</font>
 
Wow... amazing.. aku ingat aku sorang yg tak call, ramai juga kaum kerabat.. hehehe..

Nora..phee weet... angkat nampak.. hehehe

Shahlynn, bagus betul laki kau tu.. bleh gossip dgn mak dia.. Mintak2 kita akan jadi mertua yg baik dan sabar..tak bleh laser..

Sometime PIL tak sedar yg anak dorang nie not that "Angel" afterall.. cos, whenever mak dia sakit, i will be the one asking him to go straight after werk to see her everyday. Then i will be the one asking him to call her everyday and tanyer khabar... sigh* apa nasib kita sang isteri.
 
Nottygal, pakal aku jauh, kalau tak aku pun dah collect allowance kat rumah kau. hehehe

Anyway, FYI ladies, my PIL and BIL pun tak datang my house during raya..
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Adik ipar i pun tak pernah salam mintak maaf dgn me or my hubby..
 
salam raye
dulu my younger sil pun tak salam, after a few years, aku sound kat elder sil baru lah she do it

kepala tutup, otak tak pikir.. tak masuk angin agak yer. *ampunnnnnnnn..... tapi i honest mah*
 
<font color="000000">Mas, Nora,
tahun nie korang tak dtg siap korang eh!

Wati
kekadang aku rasa dorang tak dtg lagi puas hati! lagi brape hari raya nak abis baru dtg buat ape..aku nie kira adik..dorang nye rumah aku nak kena tala muka dulu the first few days of raya!</font>
 
Afternoon ladies, hari ni cerita pasal menantu and in-laws.

This morning brought my mum for pre-op check-up then malam ni ada PPIS mothers' day dinner at Sheraton Hotel.
 
Sob sob
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Sedih kan? Aku tak heran sangatlah kalau adik-ipar aku tak salam mitak maaf... maybe dorang tak biasa. But then recently i did ask my hubby, :

1) Kenapa your family tak pernah dtg rumah kita time raya ?

2) Kenapa adik-adik you tak pernah salam mintak maaf dgn kita ?

3) Sekiranya, your parents dah takder, you mean that you and brothers will not have any connections since you all memang tak practice bonding ?

Tak payah nk tunggu dorang dtg rumah, sedangkan bila 1st day raya kita pergi sana, the family won't be in their raya clothings. My MIL will be in her butterfly baju, FIL baju baru balik sembahyang, adik2 kat dlm bilik tgk TV / Sleep. Then bila kita balik, my MIL will ask them to come out to mintak maaf pun adik-adik dia tak buat oi... sigh*

Actually all these i blame my PIL for letting this situation be as it is.. cos memang family dia case buat hal masing2.
 
<font color="119911">as for me i frequent call MIL nak kata kan 1 day 2-3times partly coz nak bbual dgn my doter gak.. bt since now SIL duk sana dah jarang skit call ah..
bt i dont call my own mum selalu coz my son selalu tido time i nak bbual dgn dia.. he will sleep from 6pm - 10 or 11pm so cant talk therefore i dont call often ah..</font>
 
<font color="119911">wati
ur hub family scenario is mirror image to mine.. bt since i dah kawin nilah my adik2 tau salam &amp; hormat i else, tak da u.. kita buat hal masing2 n tak bertegur sama kkdg..
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mmg my family no bonding thus ku ni camgini egoist semacam.. even kkdg malas nak bbual dgn laki
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Hi Cik Zainab... jgn marah eh kalau posting kita over the board. Kita luahkan perasan ler..

Have fun tonite..!

Nottygal, kau jemput Nora and Mas jer..
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<font color="000000">Wati
lom jempot kau dah ckp jauh...

Wati...Wati...
sudi tak u dtg umah i raya tahun nie...
*simpul2 rambot*</font>
 
Nshah, jgn marah kalau kau tersinggung eh. Aku cuma cerita jer.. takder kena mengena dgn your family. Tapi entahlah.. tu sebab i can see my hubby orang nya mcm CLOSE Book... i can nvr know what is deep inside his heart when it comes to his family. Kesian tgk dia..
 
*Waves back* to Gal.

San, I'm fine Alhamdulillah, how are things with you?

Wati, apa pulak over the board. This issue will always be hot topic, i.e. relation with the in-laws.

I also have experienced bad relation with them but luckily hub understands his mother and his sibling's character so he just tell me to ignore them. Raya pun dorang jarang come to our place because (according to one of his siblings) they are jealous of us.

Apa yang dorang jealouskan pun kita tak tahu, anyway what is so great about earthly possessions kan, yang penting kita baik budi pekerti dan tingkah laku dan TAK mengkhianati orang lain.

*Sorry eh panjang lebar pulak*
 
<font color="119911">wati
taklah i tak tersinggung langsung seh.. i cuma terkejut ah ada gak org cam my family.. n thus im a very confused, rowdy person..
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yes we r not opened to each other, selalu tak tegur sapa tau.. entah nanti wen my parents dah tak da entah cana entah.. sbb tu i sedih.. mmg if can i nak perubahan bt its soo diff ah.. esp me with my parents cant get along &amp; mmg dah byk dosa i.. selalu bbual tengking2 coz dorang bbual dgn i cam nak gaduh bt hub tak leh terima bt i told him its not ez for me to change &amp; for me to change them even..</font>
 
<font color="000000">Cik Nab
hambat setuju..

Wati
ku tak rasa lah si nshahi tu marah..dia cuma tahu merajok je...lol!

*cabott*</font>
 
<font color="119911">gal
ah betul.. betul.. betul.. entahlah ku ni ada byknya sensitip ah..
even now i tgh confuse dgn my marriage life entah apa nak jadi dgn aku ni pun tak tau lah
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Hahaha.. Nottygal,.. mentelnya... insyallah i sampai rumah2 members tupperware di East side.. hehehe..

Nora, tu lah dia.. orang dia actually secretive. Gigi dia berlapis-lapis, mesti lah senyum , confirm nampak.. hehehe

Cik Nab, yes.. story mcm gini always hot! True, it's earthly possesion, kita tak patut jealous kan.... so cik nab giving away your coach bags ?? *wink wink* Hehehe
 
Nshah, banyak bersabar dan mintak petunjuk dari yg maha ESA...

Nottygal, kan dan kena sound lagi... lain kali nk jemput, jemput sumer.. kau bili bulu.. confirm orang bingit tau.. hehehe
 
<font color="ff6000">Hi Cik Nab,
I'm fine too. Alhmdllh. For now, all's ok.
Thanks for asking.

Notty,
Mentang-mentang I nk balik Smbwng, dia jemput yg dekat jer...Hep!</font>
 
*Shoving kisses* to Nora.

Dan, its my pleasure.

By the way, have an interesting story to share. Earlier this afternoon I had a call from Clementi Police Station on my mobile. The I/O says he needs me to be a witness for a fraud case.

Terperanjat juga sekejap, rupa2 nya the person whom we have been recommended to buy cheap milk powder (in my case Gain IQ) is now charged for selling stolen goods.

Nora, that's the reason she has been giving all kinds of excuses for the delay. Even when we suggest to collect from her dia kasi excuse, reason being I think she is not able to get the goods out.

Nasib baik I still have the SMSes in my HP, so the I/O will come one of these days to get statement from me.

It seems that quite a few of my daughter's friend has been called to give statements to the police.

FYI she is an Indian Muslim lady by the name of Nisha.
 
<font color="000000">dan,
ampun tuanku...

ewah..ewah..semenjak dua menjak nie..asyik nak perah minyak je ehh...mentang2 abg lagi 2bln nak balik..semangat dah membara-bara ehh

San,
alalalaa..busyuk busyuk!

Nshah
toink! mesti lah aku jemput kan..grrrr...tapi aku bleh bet kau tak dtg..
psl laki kau tu lah..lol! *cabott*</font>
 
nanti kita set 1 hari, kita jalan raya ramai2 kay.... jadi takder rumah yg bleh TER miss....


Alahmdulillah,
my hub cumer 2 bradek jer.... tak byk songeh.
tapi during the last raya haji &amp; PIL in mekkah, alahaiiiii..... sunyi nyerrrrr
 
Cik nab

really!!! oh dear... Whatever it is hopefully the law is not too harsh on her.

Mcm mcm orang berani buat to get more money.
 
Wati,

I have recently sold one of my Coach and one of my Burberrys bag.

Al-maklum lah sekarang dah jadi minister of domestic affairs tak perlu banyak bag.

Itu pun masih ada yang I intend to sell.

By the way, if anyone's keen to buy Crocs at discounted price my friend has quite a collection of brand new pairs to clear, let me know so that I can forward the inventory list.
 

<font color="119911">gal
ish bila masa aku ada tanya kau tak jemput aku ke apa ke? anyway like i ever mentioned before so far i can only berkawan dlm ruang cyber je bt if nak bertemu or go for gathering mmg susah.. sal aku tak campur org takut org tak suka aku, so biar aku bbual pat sini je.. so takpe i noe my limits
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kan aku dah majuk lagi.. alah anyway if i tul nak go over u allnya umah, ill ask personally lah takkan nak tanya sini kan?</font>
 
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