ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

mas
tak smoke ah cume mulut aku muncung jer cam daisy duck

tapi betol eh.. friday nak buat pahala...

tapi aku cakap sini eh.. my mil ni ade trend. sakit, pi doctor, doctor say nothing, nanti anak anak tak puas hati, mintak pegi hospital investigate, then turun naik hospitals check itu ini... result nothing
yg amik hantar all my hb.. yg lain pandai cakap/sms jer
this is also the reason why FIL tak kuasa nak layan her.. the trend dah banyak kali

Tapi kalau pi shopping sampai tekka, arab st pun boleh pegi sendiri or with the doters (yg suddenly boleh ikut dia, kalau tak alasan yer keje lah, nak jage anak lah...)
 


Actually org tua ade this tendency tau... cam hyperchondriac

I believ so lah..bec she suke pi hospital.. she likes gg to polyclinic to go mmammgram and pap smear semuer. i know bec the bill comes to my house.

Every year she go for woman wellness check up at poly abt every 3 mths she go doctor check up.

Last year heart trobles, pi balik heart centre test macam mcm.. tarak apape.. a o k
 
nora,
wow admire her...aku nak gi check-up2 ni semua takot.....dia bleh fav....

kalau nora goes w/o saying lah dia kan allergy to pain
 
<font color="0000ff">Nora
dat trend sama dgn my MIL... nanti sebuk hb kena amik leave just to send for checkup itu ini kat hospital..!!

e diff only.. MIL takde anak pompuan.. anak yg lagi satu.. asik tak boleh amik leave je.. busy selalu ...

i tell u ehh.. both FIL and 2nd son cant be bother wit her.. only hb je yg terhegih2 layankan karena mak dia..</font>
 
Lynn
kite yer hb nie behv cam same eh..

mas
tu lah.. kalau mak aku nak pegi those kind of check ups.. cepu mas lah...
it is an important check up lah.. tapi i've never met anyone yg do it so diligently
aku tanyer the doters do they go for such check ups, dorang tak pulak..
 
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tmrw my Sil buat kenduri arwah 100hari after Asar for her FIL...

dat day hub said he will wait for me till 6pm aft the workshop then go together, then suddenly dia tukar tune smlm...will go kenduri aft 3pm coz takot tak ramai org dtg baca doa..! pdhal sdara ramai..namanye org boyan kan..guarantee ramai...nie mesti dah kena cocok...:p

my hub said he will fetch me aft 6pm, I said tak payah...waste petrol je...anyway kenduri dah habis pon by then...

then hub sd, he will take bus with the kids to Bt Batok and leave the car for me to drv to Bt Batok.....still by the time everything is over, aniwei kesiankan my kids kena naik bus for my sake...

hmm..still negotiating with him not to attend...most importantly dia attend...but he die die sd he wants me to go and willingly to fetch me...sigh...</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">remember yg i tell u all MIL masuk hospital pasal sakit perut?

dat morning dah gi GP.. GP cakap takde apa.. bila petang masih sakit.. she request nak gi hospital.. kena tahan on sat nite.. mon morning dah leh balik.. cos nothing wrong..but she request to do X-ray or scan...!

so few days later kena gi hospital balik for x-ray den come back again for result.. den gi lagi for scan pulak.. den come again for result ... in e end takde apa...

den u noe what.. dia complain sakit pinggang pulak.. nak jumpa specialist pinggang pulak...

all e checkup.. hb yg kena amik leave and teman kan dia.. yg sorang lagi tu.. asik cakap busy je.. leave tak approved.. chet!</font>
 
lynn

lagu yer same jer... my mil pun pandai nak mintak referral to hospital tau.

pi clinic tak main.. doctor kasi ubat tak jalan..lagi kalau dr cakap nothing wrong.. huh.. lagii she tak percaya... mintak referral... hahhah kayakan gahmen

my bil tak boleh amik leave bec june sch holidays dia ikut bini dia balik russia satu bulan, so leave mesti reserved. Pakcik senditi meninggal pun tak melawat jenazah, only can come after work.
 
notty,
sama je tune macam aku nya mil...

27/05 ni ada kenduri kat Yishun 40 hari...Hubby fm senoko will need to fetch me ni @ Changi then go to Marsiling to p/u my mil then proceed to Yishun....aku heran napa my mil can't take taxi to go my herself....tapi aku sabar je...breathe in breathe out.....
 
<font color="0000ff">Nora
sama lah tu bunyi nya.. boleh dangdut sama2.. hehehe

Naqi
betul betul betul.. selagi boleh sabar.. kita diam je lah.. breathe in breathe out ahhh..... </font>
 
<font color="000000">Slynn
dats why lahh...laki aku takot sgt dgn kakak dia tu...agaknye nak tunjok ngan biras aku tu yg dorang adik bradik tu co-operative lah tu konon..but biras ku tu mmg baik..</font>
 
shahlynn,
exactly....depan aku dia cakap time mother's day celebration...aku nak cakap apa...diam jelah...

beli minyak vesawit banyak2 to substitute petrol
 
<font color="ff0000">Baik....baik ada makna tu....
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...Dialog madu 3</font>
 
mas,
kau ajerlah yg naik cab...
sampai sana, "Mas naik cab, Mak... tak sesat pun. Pandai apek teksi tu bawak mas sampai sini..."
 
<font color="000000">Nora
agaknye lah tu ehhh...tapi i dah lama tak gotong royong pat dapur..psl his aunt/cousins buegam with me always control the kitchen..so i will laze around mcm mem besar aje..</font>
 
Kadang2 ada licence kereta pun susah kan ? Smlm i gie rumah IL. Then my dad kasi pakai kereta WISH dia tu drive to my IL place. Sebab dia tak nak cucu dia naik mrt.. kan musim flu.. So aku drive ler.. So bila nak balik aku amik kereta kat multi-storey carpark. Then my MIL like so excited, ckp "Wah senang lah sekarang korang nak bawak aku jalan sana-sini!" Then bapak dia pun ckp "Dah boleh sewa kereta masuk JB gie holiday" sigh* slap forehead. Bukan aku tak happy nak bawak dorang jln, tapi let me remind you ladies, tt my IL memang kuat ikut rombongan sana-sini, and by the time dorang balik, dah pokai sampai duit EZ Link dgn duit belanja pun takder..

My MIL lagi ada cheek to suggest now we can start to buy car.. mampus! Aku nak beli kereta ? hahaha... wait long2...then she said, "Takperlah, kita boleh share2 per keluar duit kereta...." (Nie citer aper nie.. citer kelakar kaper...!) Aku bingit ada, menyampah pun ada.. cos i knew deep inside my heart.. my kind loving husband will ikutkan ajer..

So i can foresee all these problems. Like asking us to send them around, then petrol and duit sewa ? Saper yg nak gie bayar.. Every Sunday is my family day (Me + Hubby + Maya).. so if dorang nak merayap, my time is taken.

So now aku mcm worried. Tapi worried for the unknown future pun buat aper kan.. so aku nak train diri aku tu buat bodoh.... hahahha
 
Nottygal / Nora.. same like me.. Dorang plak takut lauk pauk dorang habis.. kalau aku diri kat dapur.. (Kesian jadi gemuk kan... byk sangkaan buruk nya..) heheheh
 
wati cerita kau lak macam cerita aku...but mil aku alrite...sampai dia cakap to my fil...si Lina nak keluarkan kereta memang boleh tapi tiap2 bulan?
 
Nora.. sigh* aper nak buat.. memang lumrah kan ? Bila time anak dia masih dara...hhehehe.. I mean sebelum dia kahwin dgn aku, bukan main dorang besar-besar kan adik-adik my hubby... pijat semut tak mati tau.. sekarang, pasal anak dia dgn aku pun ada lesen kereta.. bukan main besar bubble kat atas kepala dorang tu...

sigh* seram.. jauhkan... tapi siang-siang aku dah ckp, dorang kalau nak suruh you drive sana-sini.. dun expect me and Maya to follow... both of us will be having mother daughter bonding..
 
Nora Aw.. hahaha.. tu ah... "I a MAN".. confirm meninggal orang tua tu kalau dorang tahu yg anak dia kahwin dgn jantan dan telah dijadikan hamba sex aku. heheheh
 
So for now, i'm keeping my hopes high. Kalau laki aku termakan 'janji manismu'(lagu Exist)... at least i have you ladies to share my heartpain.. hehehe

takperlah. Syurga ditelapak kaki suami.. i always remind myself this...so kalau suami senang hati, kita dapat syurga.
 
confirm meninggal orang tua tu kalau dorang tahu yg anak dia kahwin dgn jantan dan telah dijadikan hamba sex aku. heheheh

<font color="000000">Wati
siol eh kau! mulut pon berpuaka mcm aku!! lol</font>
 
I slalu jugak dengar, "sewa jer.... nanti kita kluar duit minyak &amp; 50-50 duit sewa"....
sampai masa, tak puuuunnnnn...........
laki aku yg kluar duit sewa keta, duit minyak..!
 
sebab itu aku banyak berdiam je kalau bab inlaws2 ni....i simply dun wanna put hubby in a diff position...tapi kekadang macam Mt Pinatubo juga aku meletup..
 
Gerls

Insya'Allah kite dapat menantu yg baik hati, baik budi perkerti dan sayangkan kite eh... Amin

Maklum, kite kit nie anak boys kan....
 
macam2 bleh kluar......ishh kau pun macam dok sebelah rumah aku...tahu eh...hehehehe tersasul..

nora,
amik...sejuk perut aku mendengarnya....insyallah
 
Hahaha.. NOra Aw, tgk kita terus berdoa... mintak-mintak menantu aku tak mcm hantu.. hahaha

Notty, kadang2 berpuaka ah.. tak bleh tahan kan.. tapi mesti maintain sabar ah.. aku now dah redha..
 
<font color="000000">Wati
hehehee....yalah..its only when ppl tend to push us too far that caused mount mount meletop!</font>
 
Insyaallah Amin. But i think my mum is quite bagus ah.. Sayang my SIL melebihi batas. I ave never seen my mum being sarcastic to her, or being mean to her.. Tu sebab my SIL syg my mum, mcm-mcm hadiah dia belikan my mum, sms almost everyday to tanyer khabar my mum.. talking abt that.. Do you guys call your MIL randomly to tanyer khabar ?
 
<font color="ff6000">Wati,
Not for me. I duno y but I'm just too afraid. My BIL's gf did try doing so but MIL ended asking $$$ fr her since dah "mesra". Till den, dah tak berani nk kol-kol.

MIL pon tk pernah tny khabar my sons. Only call hub when she need $$$ or help. On top of that, will say that she misses my sons etc..</font>
 


<font color="ff0000">Wati

My MIL jauh di mata...kat Pahang...once a while je i call her...furthermore she will be here to n fro every 2 weeks</font>
 
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