ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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Sabrina, thanks.
Lina, yup memang dari dulu ada low blood pressure but now not so often as before.
Shahlynn, paper was so-so. Almost withdraw from the exams smlm pasal mind was totally blank plus dah ada slight fever. But, one kakak (almost same age as my mum) in my course gave me words of encouragement and asked me to just try. Cannot remember anything before the exams. I was prepared to 'die'. I was also displaying all the classic exam stress/ phobia symptoms. Surprisingly, bila dah dapat paper, alhamdulillah, agak-agak boleh lah pass cukup makan.
Lina, yup memang dari dulu ada low blood pressure but now not so often as before.
Shahlynn, paper was so-so. Almost withdraw from the exams smlm pasal mind was totally blank plus dah ada slight fever. But, one kakak (almost same age as my mum) in my course gave me words of encouragement and asked me to just try. Cannot remember anything before the exams. I was prepared to 'die'. I was also displaying all the classic exam stress/ phobia symptoms. Surprisingly, bila dah dapat paper, alhamdulillah, agak-agak boleh lah pass cukup makan.
eliza_hairi
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lina
u nak jadi teacher eh..?
u nak jadi teacher eh..?
<font color="aa00aa">lina,
if u nak jadi teacher i realli salute u..
not many people are cut out for the job.
teaching is easy but all the other admin/ miscellaneous plus having to handle the management is tough and frustrating.
zu,
tulah..sakit datang balik..
ni dah drifting in and out of sleep but now terpaksa bangun cos i have to tidy up hubby's resume.</font>
if u nak jadi teacher i realli salute u..
not many people are cut out for the job.
teaching is easy but all the other admin/ miscellaneous plus having to handle the management is tough and frustrating.
zu,
tulah..sakit datang balik..
ni dah drifting in and out of sleep but now terpaksa bangun cos i have to tidy up hubby's resume.</font>
<font color="aa00aa">betty,
bagus u eh..anak dah dua pun can still study.
that time i took degree tu i was oredi teaching but not married yet.
time tu je dah macam2 cubaan cos i was teaching afternoon session the lepas tu kena go nite class lagi kat SIM...punyalah malas.
alhamdulillah now semua dah habis.
i wanted to continue with masters but my mum bising suruh i carik bf and cepat2 kawin...hehehe..
so till now my masters tinggal angan2 je...hehehe</font>
bagus u eh..anak dah dua pun can still study.
that time i took degree tu i was oredi teaching but not married yet.
time tu je dah macam2 cubaan cos i was teaching afternoon session the lepas tu kena go nite class lagi kat SIM...punyalah malas.
alhamdulillah now semua dah habis.
i wanted to continue with masters but my mum bising suruh i carik bf and cepat2 kawin...hehehe..
so till now my masters tinggal angan2 je...hehehe</font>
<font color="ff6000">Zu,
Nak balik nie...my mgr apprvd my work fr home today for 1/2 day. I wana see what my maid's doing cos my mom'S COMPLAINING dari tadi pagi.
I wana know what's happening + waiting for hub to be home in e evening.
Betty,
Ic..tot u nk upgrade in teaching all e way. Insyllh, you'll be able to pull tru. I baru nk start with my cert in Biz Admin wic will be starting nx Mon.</font>
Nak balik nie...my mgr apprvd my work fr home today for 1/2 day. I wana see what my maid's doing cos my mom'S COMPLAINING dari tadi pagi.
I wana know what's happening + waiting for hub to be home in e evening.
Betty,
Ic..tot u nk upgrade in teaching all e way. Insyllh, you'll be able to pull tru. I baru nk start with my cert in Biz Admin wic will be starting nx Mon.</font>
<font color="aa00aa">starting this friday he is no more plainclothes officer.
they are taking him out of task force and asking him to go back to team doing 12 hr shift work.
tu yg dia malas.
plus nowadays alhamdulillah he got lots of calls from companies since he got his degree.
tu yg he thinking of trying out other jobs if the pay is better.</font>
they are taking him out of task force and asking him to go back to team doing 12 hr shift work.
tu yg dia malas.
plus nowadays alhamdulillah he got lots of calls from companies since he got his degree.
tu yg he thinking of trying out other jobs if the pay is better.</font>
<font color="ff6000">Zu/Lynzi,
Maid's ok tapi tak sure kenapa with her this days. It's so diff fr wat we see at Wdlnds.
Not auto with my prnts but auto ONLY when I'm at home.
My mom kata, this is nt her 1st sleeping at 1045am. I dah ckp dgn dia, once all done..she can sleep as early as 9pm or latest 10pm. So far, tdo 9pm or 930pm. Fr wat I see, she hv more den 8hrs of sleep compared to me and hub. She woke up at 6am since Harith need to be ready b4 7am. So, y e need of morning slp?
I tol her, kalau ptg tk byk keje, she cn take a nap for sometimes provided my kids are aslp if not, a NO for her.</font>
Maid's ok tapi tak sure kenapa with her this days. It's so diff fr wat we see at Wdlnds.
Not auto with my prnts but auto ONLY when I'm at home.
My mom kata, this is nt her 1st sleeping at 1045am. I dah ckp dgn dia, once all done..she can sleep as early as 9pm or latest 10pm. So far, tdo 9pm or 930pm. Fr wat I see, she hv more den 8hrs of sleep compared to me and hub. She woke up at 6am since Harith need to be ready b4 7am. So, y e need of morning slp?
I tol her, kalau ptg tk byk keje, she cn take a nap for sometimes provided my kids are aslp if not, a NO for her.</font>
lynzi,
ar ar lar.. aku dok tepi tingkap nie pat pc. then aku dgr mcm bende terbang masuk. then i saw beside the dryer sometg black.. lipas sak.. besar!!! rmh aku takde lipas.. kalo ade gedek siak!! ble fly lagik!! tapi aku da spray for 5mins tau! takde bunyi.. tapi lipas tu dimana aku tak tau!!!
ar ar lar.. aku dok tepi tingkap nie pat pc. then aku dgr mcm bende terbang masuk. then i saw beside the dryer sometg black.. lipas sak.. besar!!! rmh aku takde lipas.. kalo ade gedek siak!! ble fly lagik!! tapi aku da spray for 5mins tau! takde bunyi.. tapi lipas tu dimana aku tak tau!!!
<font color="ff6000">Kalau kat Tamp dia buat mcm gini, apa lagi at Smbwng?
And I also highlight to her, IF my kids are watching tv..she need to help my mom with cookings or hsechores. Tapi, fr e feedback, dia pon sekaki watch tv. Kadang-kadang, on sendiri to hayal my sons.
Haiz...</font>
And I also highlight to her, IF my kids are watching tv..she need to help my mom with cookings or hsechores. Tapi, fr e feedback, dia pon sekaki watch tv. Kadang-kadang, on sendiri to hayal my sons.
Haiz...</font>
eliza_hairi
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zu
*cough! *cough!
I rasa i will be one of those who will be in civil service all the way...
Kalo i nak cari keje lain pun, what can i do?... balik2, it will be back to civil service also.
*cough! *cough!
I rasa i will be one of those who will be in civil service all the way...
Kalo i nak cari keje lain pun, what can i do?... balik2, it will be back to civil service also.
sabrina,
kalo pompuan okie ler.. stable. then kite carik duit spend sendiri. but for men a bit diff ler. tanggungjawab more. then the gaji not so good as compared to luar.
but then again, pat luar ade tu good salary but lil benefits. its a question of give and take. and see wic one u r more comfy with.
kalo pompuan okie ler.. stable. then kite carik duit spend sendiri. but for men a bit diff ler. tanggungjawab more. then the gaji not so good as compared to luar.
but then again, pat luar ade tu good salary but lil benefits. its a question of give and take. and see wic one u r more comfy with.
<font color="aa00aa">i told hubby if no better offer come by then better stick to civil service first.
if nak resign pun wait until after august lepas he received his 10yr payout.
zu,
kalau aku jadi kau tak tenteramlah aku sampai aku nampak lipas tu betul2 dah mati beb.
san,
this maid u talking about is it the one previously with your mil or is she new?</font>
if nak resign pun wait until after august lepas he received his 10yr payout.
zu,
kalau aku jadi kau tak tenteramlah aku sampai aku nampak lipas tu betul2 dah mati beb.
san,
this maid u talking about is it the one previously with your mil or is she new?</font>
San,
This is normal. the maid will always Ok when you are at home because they know you are the one whom bring her back. My previous two transfer maid also like that. First one can switch on the TV herself and watch while my children at home, If I come back she will rush to the kitchen...second one will watch at night while I sit there watching....
So, no point stay at home and see what she doing because as long as you in they will behave la...
This is normal. the maid will always Ok when you are at home because they know you are the one whom bring her back. My previous two transfer maid also like that. First one can switch on the TV herself and watch while my children at home, If I come back she will rush to the kitchen...second one will watch at night while I sit there watching....
So, no point stay at home and see what she doing because as long as you in they will behave la...
<font color="119911">san
maid.. haiz never get enuff of them.. mine nampaknya nak kena hantar balik.. coz in Sg ok but in KL duh MIL yg buat kerja dia duk tgk melampau kan? n sis sorry ah my prinsip is if can JANGAN kasi maid tido siang.. lau skg ada ur mum ard she berani tido siang, apa lagi t in smbwg.. bukan nak takut kan u, bt kita kena berhati2 coz they always hv their own mischief ways up their sleeves</font>
maid.. haiz never get enuff of them.. mine nampaknya nak kena hantar balik.. coz in Sg ok but in KL duh MIL yg buat kerja dia duk tgk melampau kan? n sis sorry ah my prinsip is if can JANGAN kasi maid tido siang.. lau skg ada ur mum ard she berani tido siang, apa lagi t in smbwg.. bukan nak takut kan u, bt kita kena berhati2 coz they always hv their own mischief ways up their sleeves</font>
San,
you must control her now. If not, in future, you will face more problem....When she in your MIL's house, she will alway good lah.
My second maid was tranfer to me after my mother pass away. When my mother around, and i go visit my mother, the maid so good, uruh uruh my mother leg...ans i told my mother, wow this maid so good uruh uruh, the previous onw never do that. You know my mother don't agree with me... I thought my mother too much, still not satify. When transfer to me after awhile I understand why my mother don't agree cos in front of others, she pretend to be very good....
you must control her now. If not, in future, you will face more problem....When she in your MIL's house, she will alway good lah.
My second maid was tranfer to me after my mother pass away. When my mother around, and i go visit my mother, the maid so good, uruh uruh my mother leg...ans i told my mother, wow this maid so good uruh uruh, the previous onw never do that. You know my mother don't agree with me... I thought my mother too much, still not satify. When transfer to me after awhile I understand why my mother don't agree cos in front of others, she pretend to be very good....
<font color="119911">zu
yup true maid ni smua kira luck lah.. dpt yg baik, ok ah ok go.. yg pemalas, kurang ajar, degil aduh.. pening noh..
n my maid ni kan she got BAD BREATH tak leh angkat seh.. she suka makan dah tu tak minum air, sampai bibir kering & gigi dia berdarah seh or her gums darah.. so we will b returning her back once MIL is back here</font>
yup true maid ni smua kira luck lah.. dpt yg baik, ok ah ok go.. yg pemalas, kurang ajar, degil aduh.. pening noh..
n my maid ni kan she got BAD BREATH tak leh angkat seh.. she suka makan dah tu tak minum air, sampai bibir kering & gigi dia berdarah seh or her gums darah.. so we will b returning her back once MIL is back here</font>
<font color="ff6000">Nshahi,
I balik suka-suka since my boss apprvd for me to work fr home for 1/2 day.
Mira,
Yeah..that's what I mentioned to hub. Since dia yg nk finalised with MIL's maid, by all means he hv to do e talking infrnt of me whenever I received feedbacks unless, I took a fresh maid. It'll be my talking with e maid.
I gona be firm tonight.</font>
I balik suka-suka since my boss apprvd for me to work fr home for 1/2 day.
Mira,
Yeah..that's what I mentioned to hub. Since dia yg nk finalised with MIL's maid, by all means he hv to do e talking infrnt of me whenever I received feedbacks unless, I took a fresh maid. It'll be my talking with e maid.
I gona be firm tonight.</font>
San,
At least your husband wat to do the talk. that time my husband don't because he said the maid should under my control. If I don't like than change loh. But come to the second one he said if I still don't like then send the second maid back and no more maid. So we send but MIL end up said cannot take care of BB so HB not choose but to take back maid. So, 3rd time I choose a fresh new maid. Alhamdulillah, this one is good. Can take care of my children and house work.
At least your husband wat to do the talk. that time my husband don't because he said the maid should under my control. If I don't like than change loh. But come to the second one he said if I still don't like then send the second maid back and no more maid. So we send but MIL end up said cannot take care of BB so HB not choose but to take back maid. So, 3rd time I choose a fresh new maid. Alhamdulillah, this one is good. Can take care of my children and house work.