ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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smalldreams
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<font color="0077aa">naqi
jual lah, apa you nak jual, beb....janji rezki halal. jangan u gi curik tu kapal terbang pas tu jual sesuka hati sudah yer...hehehe
Lynn
sounds good! U noe, i really miss sleeping properly on a bed. now we sleep horizontally, and not length wise!</font>
jual lah, apa you nak jual, beb....janji rezki halal. jangan u gi curik tu kapal terbang pas tu jual sesuka hati sudah yer...hehehe
Lynn
sounds good! U noe, i really miss sleeping properly on a bed. now we sleep horizontally, and not length wise!</font>
wati
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A few weeks ago, i accidentally saw my hubby vent his anger behind my back bila aku suruh dia buat benda. All along i tot he was ok with it. I mean kita sama2 penat, tapi eversince i saw that... whatever that is needed to do, i will do it myself! I mean, bukan aku nak merajuk dgn hubby aku, tapi i kesian kan dia... let him be relax when he is at home. So sekarang balik kerja, i will straight away feed the cats, basuh baju, basuh pinggan mangkuk, sidai baju, siapkan tempat tido maya and ours, bukak aircon, kasi bilik sejuk for him and Maya.
Then once everything is done, mandi sikit and layankan Maya to sing some songs, teach her 1 word a day... then tidokan dia.. maya kalau tido, nak dgr lagu "My Bonnie" & "Rock-A-Bye-Baby Lullaby"..sigh* By then my hubby pun dah tido... last to sleep is me..
Penat memang penat, dah namanya tanggungjawab sebagai bonda dan isteri.
Then once everything is done, mandi sikit and layankan Maya to sing some songs, teach her 1 word a day... then tidokan dia.. maya kalau tido, nak dgr lagu "My Bonnie" & "Rock-A-Bye-Baby Lullaby"..sigh* By then my hubby pun dah tido... last to sleep is me..
Penat memang penat, dah namanya tanggungjawab sebagai bonda dan isteri.
momma_naqi
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shahlynn...
yup2...sebab itu aku gi keje bawa bekal babe...so duit jajan aku tu aku gunakan tuk treats my family....walaupun makan mee goreng mamak...aku happy coz dapat makan together2...n satisfied...wow duit aku seh aku blanja family aku..
yup2...sebab itu aku gi keje bawa bekal babe...so duit jajan aku tu aku gunakan tuk treats my family....walaupun makan mee goreng mamak...aku happy coz dapat makan together2...n satisfied...wow duit aku seh aku blanja family aku..
<font color="ff6000">Naqi,
I nak start bawa bekal lah once dah ada helper.
It really save alot. Lagi-lagi harga makanan kat CBP nie da setanding town price.
Shahlynn,
FYI, after I clinched this job...baru I dapat save for my own. Kalau tak, sama dengan u.
Wati,
You remind me all. I did all these kat Tampines. Takde aircon tapi kipas mesti ada untuk sejukkan bilik. *sob sob*</font>
I nak start bawa bekal lah once dah ada helper.
It really save alot. Lagi-lagi harga makanan kat CBP nie da setanding town price.
Shahlynn,
FYI, after I clinched this job...baru I dapat save for my own. Kalau tak, sama dengan u.
Wati,
You remind me all. I did all these kat Tampines. Takde aircon tapi kipas mesti ada untuk sejukkan bilik. *sob sob*</font>
momma_naqi
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Shahlynn,
but think dis way...kalau kita cakap diri kita susah, Ada orang kat luar sana yang lebih2 susah dari kita....
but think dis way...kalau kita cakap diri kita susah, Ada orang kat luar sana yang lebih2 susah dari kita....
momma_naqi
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shahlynn...
no feelings can desribe it...
San,
yup2..bawak lauk sadin pun ok gal..
or sandwich pun orite janji perut kenyang...
no feelings can desribe it...
San,
yup2..bawak lauk sadin pun ok gal..
or sandwich pun orite janji perut kenyang...
Mas, San,
dat motto keeps me going!
Susah2 aku, ada orang lain lagi susah!
keep reminding myself, dont whine, dont complain!
banyak sangat mengeluh, sampai bila2 hidup takkan senang!
susah2 aku, at times, aku ada kelebihan sewa keta, bawak famili jalan2! ada orang, jgn cakap jalan2... naik bas pun tak mampu! mcm aku jugak dulu2!
at least nshah turun naik keta jugak!
dat motto keeps me going!
Susah2 aku, ada orang lain lagi susah!
keep reminding myself, dont whine, dont complain!
banyak sangat mengeluh, sampai bila2 hidup takkan senang!
susah2 aku, at times, aku ada kelebihan sewa keta, bawak famili jalan2! ada orang, jgn cakap jalan2... naik bas pun tak mampu! mcm aku jugak dulu2!
at least nshah turun naik keta jugak!
<font color="119911">yes svgs is impt for me now thus i had started it recently.. or shld i say since last 2yrs yg dat 2ys e duit dah matured n dat duit i belanja dapur lebih & belanja family in JB so bebaru ni start lagi this time more $50 every mth mmg perit bt kena lah coz if not no svgs lagi if in future nak kai duit mana nak cari kan.. so hope this svgs will come in handy one day.. insyallah
n yes i always say if my dapur or fridge really empty im e most papa kedana in the world, so apa pun dpt gaji mesti tolak duit anak2, duit dapur, duit utk emak, bills smua dah bis tu smua baru duit ezlink & duit makan me which is only $200 mmg act nak ikutkan tak cukup bt if kkdg kena cut down my lunch $$ lah either makan cup noodle or makan roti or bawa bekal..</font>
n yes i always say if my dapur or fridge really empty im e most papa kedana in the world, so apa pun dpt gaji mesti tolak duit anak2, duit dapur, duit utk emak, bills smua dah bis tu smua baru duit ezlink & duit makan me which is only $200 mmg act nak ikutkan tak cukup bt if kkdg kena cut down my lunch $$ lah either makan cup noodle or makan roti or bawa bekal..</font>
momma_naqi
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shahlynn,
so it drop down to good planning....and keberkatannya
so it drop down to good planning....and keberkatannya
momma_naqi
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tipu kalau aku cakap aku tak ada loan...
kereta aku masih on loan...
but aku tak nak mengeluh....coz hubby need da car...to travel from Pasir Ris to senoko....so senang cakap kalau nak extra luxury aku kena ikat perut sikit
kereta aku masih on loan...
but aku tak nak mengeluh....coz hubby need da car...to travel from Pasir Ris to senoko....so senang cakap kalau nak extra luxury aku kena ikat perut sikit
<font color="119911">hutang
yes inilah yg puncanya.. i ngaku i still ada hutang bt dahnak habis ah by end of this yr insyallah which is instalments & coz kkdg lambat byr bunga naik, naik n end up dari $50 per mth naik tu almost $200 per mth haiz.. hope to finish this earlier
lau hutang keta, hutang umah jgn ckp ah.. tu lama lagi nak selesai</font>
yes inilah yg puncanya.. i ngaku i still ada hutang bt dahnak habis ah by end of this yr insyallah which is instalments & coz kkdg lambat byr bunga naik, naik n end up dari $50 per mth naik tu almost $200 per mth haiz.. hope to finish this earlier
lau hutang keta, hutang umah jgn ckp ah.. tu lama lagi nak selesai</font>
<font color="aa00aa">san,
my ofis started giving out new thermometers to us yesterday.
and came out memo in our intranet portal.
memang from yesterday morning tekak i dah rasa tak sedap.
my hubby asked me to go home but since i dah at work, sayang nak go home.
today pun kalau boleh i nak go but kepala and hidung tak larat.
ni my first mc since year 2009 tau.
sayang betul dah break clean record.</font>
my ofis started giving out new thermometers to us yesterday.
and came out memo in our intranet portal.
memang from yesterday morning tekak i dah rasa tak sedap.
my hubby asked me to go home but since i dah at work, sayang nak go home.
today pun kalau boleh i nak go but kepala and hidung tak larat.
ni my first mc since year 2009 tau.
sayang betul dah break clean record.</font>
momma_naqi
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nshahi,
hutang rumah??...i tot kan pakai CPF??
hutang rumah??...i tot kan pakai CPF??
wati
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Lynzi, kalau dtg rumah pinjam2 duit to i dah biasa tgk..my uncle/aunties come to my house to see my parents.. Aku so straight tau.. i always tot that these people are so nice to visit us... padahal-padahal... sigh*
So far, orang ketuk rumah i takder, tapi orang sms pinjam duit $30 at 12am to buy kid's milk adalah... sigh* Macam-macam
So far, orang ketuk rumah i takder, tapi orang sms pinjam duit $30 at 12am to buy kid's milk adalah... sigh* Macam-macam
smalldreams
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<font color="0077aa">Wati, Shahlynn
True, hutang is a killer. baik no savings, then kena bayar hutang. Tapi asal no one goes hungry, anak keluarga happy, that matters most. Hidup berkat, that's what everyone wants kan?
Nshah
Hutang kereta, hutang rumah..biasa lah.
Siapa lah yang beli rumah tak berhutang? lain lah u betul2 kaya raya. Kereta pon sama jugak. But I am not paying a single cent for my hub's car. He chose that car, he pays. Just that I top up petrol at times when I have the mood. Hehe
Lynzi
Thank goodness for me I don't know anyone yang suka pinjam2 duit like that. I hope I won't meet anyone like that, and I hope insya-Allah I won't be driven to that... </font>
True, hutang is a killer. baik no savings, then kena bayar hutang. Tapi asal no one goes hungry, anak keluarga happy, that matters most. Hidup berkat, that's what everyone wants kan?
Nshah
Hutang kereta, hutang rumah..biasa lah.
Siapa lah yang beli rumah tak berhutang? lain lah u betul2 kaya raya. Kereta pon sama jugak. But I am not paying a single cent for my hub's car. He chose that car, he pays. Just that I top up petrol at times when I have the mood. Hehe
Lynzi
Thank goodness for me I don't know anyone yang suka pinjam2 duit like that. I hope I won't meet anyone like that, and I hope insya-Allah I won't be driven to that... </font>
<font color="ff6000">Lynzi,
Good..good!
Better tc of urself ok?
Have a pleanty of rest too...
Abt laoning of $$$, I have and has been ongoing. *sigh*
Wati,
Sewa kreta apa?
Sorry, dun get you this part.
I sewakan my car to my close friends jer. Itupun kalau kita takde pape for that date itself tapi very the jarang.</font>
Good..good!
Better tc of urself ok?
Have a pleanty of rest too...
Abt laoning of $$$, I have and has been ongoing. *sigh*
Wati,
Sewa kreta apa?
Sorry, dun get you this part.
I sewakan my car to my close friends jer. Itupun kalau kita takde pape for that date itself tapi very the jarang.</font>
eliza_hairi
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nshah
don fret...
anak2 i pun not in one place. I dgn husband pun not in one place. d kakak wif my mum, d adik wif my mil. I jaga d kakak, my husband jaga d adik... Kita sumer duduk satu umah time weekend / holidays.
Bila org2 dgr, dorang kata my family nie pelik. Separated sana sini.
My husband tak nak maid, I tak suka childcare centre. My mum mati2 nak d kakak. My mil mati2 nak d adik. Peningz kan???!!
But we r ok... maybe for now.
don fret...
anak2 i pun not in one place. I dgn husband pun not in one place. d kakak wif my mum, d adik wif my mil. I jaga d kakak, my husband jaga d adik... Kita sumer duduk satu umah time weekend / holidays.
Bila org2 dgr, dorang kata my family nie pelik. Separated sana sini.
My husband tak nak maid, I tak suka childcare centre. My mum mati2 nak d kakak. My mil mati2 nak d adik. Peningz kan???!!
But we r ok... maybe for now.
<font color="aa00aa">thanks ladies!
will surely take care of myself.
wati,
haa...mak tak offended pun gerl.
cakap pasal faq u should see me and hubby if we are sick and interacting with him..macam badut pasal we pakai those n95 mask.
takleh take risk gerl.
tu pasal i always have a box of mask at home.
and kejap2 will disinfect our hands with dettol esp before we touch him.
cakap pasal kawan yg pinjam2 duit..tu yg i pening ni.
she pantang dengar from anyone if we dapat bonus..or dapat naik pangkat...or apa2 rezeki lebihlah.
she wil start calling...smsing and even come to my house few times..nak buat baik..pasal nak pinjam duit.
pelik..she always cakap tak cukup duit susu and pampers anak pun tapi her kereta still tak nak let go...tak sewakan pun...then masih boleh hepi2 pegi holiday.
hutang sikit2 lama2 menimbun.
sakit hati and takut pun ada bila i see her around.
bila i very firm and said i takleh pinjamkan and i pun need the money...ada ke she said i need to use my money tu for frivolous things TAPI she need it for more important things...
tu duit i rite? so isnt it oso my right to use it any way i want to???</font>
will surely take care of myself.
wati,
haa...mak tak offended pun gerl.
cakap pasal faq u should see me and hubby if we are sick and interacting with him..macam badut pasal we pakai those n95 mask.
takleh take risk gerl.
tu pasal i always have a box of mask at home.
and kejap2 will disinfect our hands with dettol esp before we touch him.
cakap pasal kawan yg pinjam2 duit..tu yg i pening ni.
she pantang dengar from anyone if we dapat bonus..or dapat naik pangkat...or apa2 rezeki lebihlah.
she wil start calling...smsing and even come to my house few times..nak buat baik..pasal nak pinjam duit.
pelik..she always cakap tak cukup duit susu and pampers anak pun tapi her kereta still tak nak let go...tak sewakan pun...then masih boleh hepi2 pegi holiday.
hutang sikit2 lama2 menimbun.
sakit hati and takut pun ada bila i see her around.
bila i very firm and said i takleh pinjamkan and i pun need the money...ada ke she said i need to use my money tu for frivolous things TAPI she need it for more important things...
tu duit i rite? so isnt it oso my right to use it any way i want to???</font>
wati
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Lynzi, pasal mask tu jgn ckp.. me and my hubby too.. And i make my mum and dad wear it too kalau dorang sakit.. hahaha.. Sumer dah mcm badut ler...
Lynzi, kesiannya you...i think you have to be firm and tahan aper orang tu nak ckp pasal you. Apa nak buat.. mulut orang kita tak bleh tutup kan.. you kasi pinjam dapat balik tak ? Mcm mana dia tahu you dpt bonus lah... and yet dia bleh pergi holiday.. tak tahu malu ker orang tu.
Lynzi, kesiannya you...i think you have to be firm and tahan aper orang tu nak ckp pasal you. Apa nak buat.. mulut orang kita tak bleh tutup kan.. you kasi pinjam dapat balik tak ? Mcm mana dia tahu you dpt bonus lah... and yet dia bleh pergi holiday.. tak tahu malu ker orang tu.
momma_naqi
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me niari bawak..
sup ayam and sayur
paru goreng....wiz sambal kicap
sup ayam and sayur
paru goreng....wiz sambal kicap
<font color="ff6000">Lynzi,
Kes sama + sebiji macam my SIL.
It's our right to say NO and it's up to us to do whatever we want with our money.
Mcm SIL, dia yg cari penyakit sendiri. RESIGNED fr e coy and now, jobless for 2.5 mths. Asking $$$ around at the moment. When she asked fr Hub, he declined. She complained with her mom saying WE dont want to help her. Nak tggu sampai mati baru pinjamkan $$$ as per said just bcos she mentioned dah 3 hari tk mkn.
Lumrah manusia...padahal perangkan rambut every 3 months + mthly manicure/pedicure + cigarettes.
Kalau kerja asik pinjam apa lagi kalau tk bekerja...</font>
Kes sama + sebiji macam my SIL.
It's our right to say NO and it's up to us to do whatever we want with our money.
Mcm SIL, dia yg cari penyakit sendiri. RESIGNED fr e coy and now, jobless for 2.5 mths. Asking $$$ around at the moment. When she asked fr Hub, he declined. She complained with her mom saying WE dont want to help her. Nak tggu sampai mati baru pinjamkan $$$ as per said just bcos she mentioned dah 3 hari tk mkn.
Lumrah manusia...padahal perangkan rambut every 3 months + mthly manicure/pedicure + cigarettes.
Kalau kerja asik pinjam apa lagi kalau tk bekerja...</font>
eliza_hairi
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Dan
ari nie mkn pau chicken (beli kat kantin skola) and coffee jer... balik baru mkn full meal.
ikan jebong tu ikan aper?
ari nie mkn pau chicken (beli kat kantin skola) and coffee jer... balik baru mkn full meal.
ikan jebong tu ikan aper?
smalldreams
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<font color="0077aa">Danryan
Ikan jebong tu apa seh? Yr helper pandai masak eh! Always got interesting dishes!
Naqi
Yours sound good too.
I had free lunch today. 3 helpings of mee siam goreng courtesy from a colleague</font>
Ikan jebong tu apa seh? Yr helper pandai masak eh! Always got interesting dishes!
Naqi
Yours sound good too.
I had free lunch today. 3 helpings of mee siam goreng courtesy from a colleague</font>
hello semua...
thought i contribute to the topic of pinjam duit.
my mother is practically like ATM to her sisters and cousins.
sampai once i ter-dengar that my MIL also pernah pinjam.
i don't like it but cannot say anything.
and then i don't know why they all also think me and hb always like bnyak duit.
padahl i'm only a freelancer with irregular income and my hb is technician.
if not for the fact that i always distant myself socially from them, i'm sure i also "kena".
thought i contribute to the topic of pinjam duit.
my mother is practically like ATM to her sisters and cousins.
sampai once i ter-dengar that my MIL also pernah pinjam.
i don't like it but cannot say anything.
and then i don't know why they all also think me and hb always like bnyak duit.
padahl i'm only a freelancer with irregular income and my hb is technician.
if not for the fact that i always distant myself socially from them, i'm sure i also "kena".
san,
if i still staying with my mom, most prolly i tapao... my dad gi kerja oso tapao...
yg makan kat rumah, just me & hubby...
so wateva lauk i ada, kita makan for dinner jer... pagi i tak bekal.. so malam nanti, we'll makan the same lauk again...
when malas nak makan nasi, kita buat sandwich, pizza, etc...
if i still staying with my mom, most prolly i tapao... my dad gi kerja oso tapao...
yg makan kat rumah, just me & hubby...
so wateva lauk i ada, kita makan for dinner jer... pagi i tak bekal.. so malam nanti, we'll makan the same lauk again...
when malas nak makan nasi, kita buat sandwich, pizza, etc...