ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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<font color="119911">san
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takpelah slowly lah dear.. dont stress take one thing at a time
nolah for my doter not yet lah dear ku nya pening lum settle selagi maid lum masuk & c how she can handle both my kids, if shes really gd then only ill register my kids at my home area jadi tak susahkan my mum lagi & by then kena buy the cctv already.. else then i kena still sep them or might reg azza at tampines & pick them up every eve aft work & send pepagi buta.. haiz.. if only i can drive
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takpelah slowly lah dear.. dont stress take one thing at a time
nolah for my doter not yet lah dear ku nya pening lum settle selagi maid lum masuk & c how she can handle both my kids, if shes really gd then only ill register my kids at my home area jadi tak susahkan my mum lagi & by then kena buy the cctv already.. else then i kena still sep them or might reg azza at tampines & pick them up every eve aft work & send pepagi buta.. haiz.. if only i can drive
momma_naqi
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hola wati
<font color="ff6000">Nshahi,
The maid will be taking care of ur SIL's kid and urs kan?
Try not to seperate them when you already hv a helper beb. Kesian dorang..
Mass registration dah start for PCF. Not sure you wana put them in which sch. Do keep a look out ok? Nanti susah plak you. Takde slot..</font>
The maid will be taking care of ur SIL's kid and urs kan?
Try not to seperate them when you already hv a helper beb. Kesian dorang..
Mass registration dah start for PCF. Not sure you wana put them in which sch. Do keep a look out ok? Nanti susah plak you. Takde slot..</font>
smalldreams
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<font color="0077aa">Hola!
Shahlynn
Ouh my cousin has that buggy board! It's quite useful tau. I think budak about 15 kg pon boleh diri kat situ. When I went to Japan, that buggy came in handy for my cousin & her kids, who took turns to naik on it when they were tired from walking.
Tapi kalau ganas, benda tu boleh pecah.
San
I think it can fit on maclaren strollers.
Tania
I agree. I heran seh. Sampai ngoh hiang pon orang nak jual kat sini? Melampau. I hope no one would get any tummy pains seh.
Mana yang lain? Rather quiet today... I'm also going off for a meeting later then, probably out in the afternoon.. malam ada mandarin class, final one! Phew!!</font>
Shahlynn
Ouh my cousin has that buggy board! It's quite useful tau. I think budak about 15 kg pon boleh diri kat situ. When I went to Japan, that buggy came in handy for my cousin & her kids, who took turns to naik on it when they were tired from walking.
Tapi kalau ganas, benda tu boleh pecah.
San
I think it can fit on maclaren strollers.
Tania
I agree. I heran seh. Sampai ngoh hiang pon orang nak jual kat sini? Melampau. I hope no one would get any tummy pains seh.
Mana yang lain? Rather quiet today... I'm also going off for a meeting later then, probably out in the afternoon.. malam ada mandarin class, final one! Phew!!</font>
<font color="119911">san
for now jaga her son ah bt her son dah besar seh nak jaga apa? he only need to be tend wen he needs food, air, baju ah.. other than that hes on his own lah..
still thinking n thinking n thinking coz i sorang yg buat thinking sbb tu no kata putus yet.. nak take irfan from his gramps cian plak seh coz hes been with them since birth yelah e same for azza too..
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for now jaga her son ah bt her son dah besar seh nak jaga apa? he only need to be tend wen he needs food, air, baju ah.. other than that hes on his own lah..
still thinking n thinking n thinking coz i sorang yg buat thinking sbb tu no kata putus yet.. nak take irfan from his gramps cian plak seh coz hes been with them since birth yelah e same for azza too..
wati
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Sini hujan lebat giler.. and i came in late niari.. Hantar my hubby pergi doctor.. Kesian. Demam panas. Tadi pagi kul 4am, i jadi nurse. Kena check temp, kena perah kain celup air batu to kasi body temp turun.. Sigh*... Mana nak layan si Maya yg merengek.. stress seh. Tapi best lah. I feel that i've did my part as a wife.hehe.. Now very tired and sleepy..
Nshah, kau jauh nun di Changi.. btw, yg contact sewa kereta yg you kasi i tu, no reply pun ? I nak sewa this weekend.
Nshah, kau jauh nun di Changi.. btw, yg contact sewa kereta yg you kasi i tu, no reply pun ? I nak sewa this weekend.
<font color="ff6000">Nshahi,
You have e say in every ways. No doubt both was seperated, well-taken care by ur prnts and in-laws...u hv to thnk abt their school, well-being and future. Till when u have to do this way?
You have to ask yourself. Tak kira lah apa orng nk kata janji u anak beranak satu tempat.
Correct me if am wrong here.
U know, when my MIL keep pushing us to hv a helper..my mom said NO cos she still want to tc of them till the day they finalised abt their plan due to their commitment in class agama as they have signed up for Haj. We can be a weekend parents if we want to but thinking of e kids, we sacrifice ourselves by staying put Mon-Fri at Tamp. Mmng sempit I tell you tapi, that's the best we can do. My POV.
Even till now, I takut nak ada helper tapi I must have the trust in some ways no matter what it takes. A lesson need to be learnt just like other mommies in here too... =)</font>
You have e say in every ways. No doubt both was seperated, well-taken care by ur prnts and in-laws...u hv to thnk abt their school, well-being and future. Till when u have to do this way?
You have to ask yourself. Tak kira lah apa orng nk kata janji u anak beranak satu tempat.
Correct me if am wrong here.
U know, when my MIL keep pushing us to hv a helper..my mom said NO cos she still want to tc of them till the day they finalised abt their plan due to their commitment in class agama as they have signed up for Haj. We can be a weekend parents if we want to but thinking of e kids, we sacrifice ourselves by staying put Mon-Fri at Tamp. Mmng sempit I tell you tapi, that's the best we can do. My POV.
Even till now, I takut nak ada helper tapi I must have the trust in some ways no matter what it takes. A lesson need to be learnt just like other mommies in here too... =)</font>
momma_naqi
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nshah,
sorry kalau aku menyampuk...
ini pendapat aku...no hard feelings...
if aku kat tempat kau...
with the maid...might as well kau kasi both yur kids be together...Yes NO DOUBT both side parents will def either kecik hati/sad..but kau kena fikirkan tentang diorang..
Aku rasalah (aku ni tak sepandai mana pun- anak baru 19 bulan)it's time kau give 101% commitment towards them...
Cara mak2 kita brought us up n cara kita brought up diff....Skg every parents berlumba2 tuk give da best to their kids..
Juz my POV - no hard feelings
sorry kalau aku menyampuk...
ini pendapat aku...no hard feelings...
if aku kat tempat kau...
with the maid...might as well kau kasi both yur kids be together...Yes NO DOUBT both side parents will def either kecik hati/sad..but kau kena fikirkan tentang diorang..
Aku rasalah (aku ni tak sepandai mana pun- anak baru 19 bulan)it's time kau give 101% commitment towards them...
Cara mak2 kita brought us up n cara kita brought up diff....Skg every parents berlumba2 tuk give da best to their kids..
Juz my POV - no hard feelings
<font color="119911">wati
asal tak amik leave aje jaga ur hub? cian dia tau..
ish jgn ckp jauh pun leh sampai tau.. kejap je lau pat ujan2 ni hehe..
entah ah girl, mana gue tau.. coz she emailed me i jus share je or tak u kai ah dat daniel guy from Slynn contact? as Slynn for his number..</font>
asal tak amik leave aje jaga ur hub? cian dia tau..
ish jgn ckp jauh pun leh sampai tau.. kejap je lau pat ujan2 ni hehe..
entah ah girl, mana gue tau.. coz she emailed me i jus share je or tak u kai ah dat daniel guy from Slynn contact? as Slynn for his number..</font>
smalldreams
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Wati congrats for being isteri mithali
Hope yr hub's better. Asal Maya pun whine so early in the morning...
Lynn
Is it yr anniversary today, gal?
Shahlynn
Betul...once we've decided to become mothers, of course lah banyak tanggungjawab. Although I do miss sleeping anytime I like... </font>
Wati congrats for being isteri mithali
Hope yr hub's better. Asal Maya pun whine so early in the morning...
Lynn
Is it yr anniversary today, gal?
Shahlynn
Betul...once we've decided to become mothers, of course lah banyak tanggungjawab. Although I do miss sleeping anytime I like... </font>
<font color="119911">san/ mas
thx for ur tghts/ inputs mmg i do consider apa yg u all ckp dear..
bt like i mentioned earlier.. for me to act take both kids with me mmg susah, i kurang berkemampuan.. so dats y im taking step by step bukannya i tak pikir abt their future, or tak nak even care for them.. of coz i pun nak yg terbaik..
bt remember this e maid is not mine by rite so i cant say or instruct too much unless i take over & byr smua then i can atur apa i nak dlm hidup or utk my family.. if i can afford a maid i tak ya nk pikiran till now.. e big problem for us now is masa & wang.. i noe u all concern & memberi pendapat tp if only you can sit in my position then u would noe thoroughly.. mmg i ni tak sepandai mana or sebaik mana.. i still wan e best for my kids though.. mmg i nak dorang besar dgn i, sakit pening dgn i jugak cuma i really doa yg masa tu akan dtg jua</font>
thx for ur tghts/ inputs mmg i do consider apa yg u all ckp dear..
bt like i mentioned earlier.. for me to act take both kids with me mmg susah, i kurang berkemampuan.. so dats y im taking step by step bukannya i tak pikir abt their future, or tak nak even care for them.. of coz i pun nak yg terbaik..
bt remember this e maid is not mine by rite so i cant say or instruct too much unless i take over & byr smua then i can atur apa i nak dlm hidup or utk my family.. if i can afford a maid i tak ya nk pikiran till now.. e big problem for us now is masa & wang.. i noe u all concern & memberi pendapat tp if only you can sit in my position then u would noe thoroughly.. mmg i ni tak sepandai mana or sebaik mana.. i still wan e best for my kids though.. mmg i nak dorang besar dgn i, sakit pening dgn i jugak cuma i really doa yg masa tu akan dtg jua</font>
<font color="0000ff">San
yes on AL.. will be back nx monday...!!
Smalldream
yaaa today 3rd Anniversary.. but tak gi mana cos i just balik dari ESH for x-ray and hb masih kat CGH bawa MIL for checkup...hmmmmmm
will spend my AL at my mom house.. rasa lama dah tak tido sana..</font>
yes on AL.. will be back nx monday...!!
Smalldream
yaaa today 3rd Anniversary.. but tak gi mana cos i just balik dari ESH for x-ray and hb masih kat CGH bawa MIL for checkup...hmmmmmm
will spend my AL at my mom house.. rasa lama dah tak tido sana..</font>
nshah,
never never say kurang kemampuan = tight budget = takleh jaga anak!
kalau gitu, all of us here must be earning 20K a mth lah eh, sebab tu kita bleh jaga anak2 kita!
if only you know WHAT ALL OF US are going thru,
you'll be very grateful with yours.
How many of our combined income reached 5K?
My combined is not even 2.5K, hokay!
never never say kurang kemampuan = tight budget = takleh jaga anak!
kalau gitu, all of us here must be earning 20K a mth lah eh, sebab tu kita bleh jaga anak2 kita!
if only you know WHAT ALL OF US are going thru,
you'll be very grateful with yours.
How many of our combined income reached 5K?
My combined is not even 2.5K, hokay!
<font color="119911">san
nope dear.. its jus a buang ckp thru me & MIL lah.. not to my SIL.. dats y i cant say anything its not my maid, cuma atas nama aje.. so if i tul nak i hv to take over payment ah which i cant afford lah dear even i tght duit sewa tu i nak buat tokok tambah duit sekolah anak2 jadi i wont hv to worry abt the funds in future bt hmm haprak noh.. sbb tu im trying my best to save for them slowly</font>
nope dear.. its jus a buang ckp thru me & MIL lah.. not to my SIL.. dats y i cant say anything its not my maid, cuma atas nama aje.. so if i tul nak i hv to take over payment ah which i cant afford lah dear even i tght duit sewa tu i nak buat tokok tambah duit sekolah anak2 jadi i wont hv to worry abt the funds in future bt hmm haprak noh.. sbb tu im trying my best to save for them slowly</font>
<font color="ff6000">Nshahi,
Y not the allowance you gave your mom to tc of Irfan, you switched to this maid?
Have some agreement with ur SIL like mayb u pay 50-50 or levy on u wile e salary on ur SIL?
Daripada u terkejar sana-cni or seperate them, it wun do u all any good too.
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Y not the allowance you gave your mom to tc of Irfan, you switched to this maid?
Have some agreement with ur SIL like mayb u pay 50-50 or levy on u wile e salary on ur SIL?
Daripada u terkejar sana-cni or seperate them, it wun do u all any good too.
My POV.</font>
<font color="119911">Slynn
mungkin rezeki kita berbeza lah dear..
i tak ckp pun yg u all earn so much..
salah ke i jus state my kekurangan? kenapa ur statement cam memarah gitu? i noe hows my budget every mth.. setakat lepas duit susu & pampers & doc dorang je mthly bt nothing yet on their edu.. tu yg i bimbang sgt.. coz its not cheap to study here mthly je school fees of $130 dah gone camtu je baru satu anak, lum lagi si adik.. mmg i grateful of wat i have bt still lum ke tahap yg satbil..</font>
mungkin rezeki kita berbeza lah dear..
i tak ckp pun yg u all earn so much..
salah ke i jus state my kekurangan? kenapa ur statement cam memarah gitu? i noe hows my budget every mth.. setakat lepas duit susu & pampers & doc dorang je mthly bt nothing yet on their edu.. tu yg i bimbang sgt.. coz its not cheap to study here mthly je school fees of $130 dah gone camtu je baru satu anak, lum lagi si adik.. mmg i grateful of wat i have bt still lum ke tahap yg satbil..</font>
smalldreams
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<font color="0077aa">Lynn
Wow, cuti panjang seh...
U pergi ESH ada apa...check up pasal case lama yang you share dgn kita tu eh?
Yeah sometimes it's good to go back to our mom's place to chit chat & catch up. Sometimes pon hari2 I just drop/pick Adam, rasa cam tak sempat berbual panjang sangat.So at times I make it a point to hang out there sometime...
Shahlynn
Betul, motherhood is really an amazing journey. I hope I can be a good enough mother till as when as I'm needed.
Nshah
Well gal, nak seribu daya, tak nak seribu dalih. Senang cakap
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Wow, cuti panjang seh...
U pergi ESH ada apa...check up pasal case lama yang you share dgn kita tu eh?
Yeah sometimes it's good to go back to our mom's place to chit chat & catch up. Sometimes pon hari2 I just drop/pick Adam, rasa cam tak sempat berbual panjang sangat.So at times I make it a point to hang out there sometime...
Shahlynn
Betul, motherhood is really an amazing journey. I hope I can be a good enough mother till as when as I'm needed.
Nshah
Well gal, nak seribu daya, tak nak seribu dalih. Senang cakap
<font color="119911">san
yup mmg i did tink abt that gak bt hehe berapa sen je i kasi my mum tu sis.. tak sampai cover utk levy pun.. unless i ada lebih then i kasi lebih tu pun tak tentu
Lynn
happy anni to u yg ke berapa? may more happening, happy years to come so besok onwards dah start cuti?</font>
yup mmg i did tink abt that gak bt hehe berapa sen je i kasi my mum tu sis.. tak sampai cover utk levy pun.. unless i ada lebih then i kasi lebih tu pun tak tentu
Lynn
happy anni to u yg ke berapa? may more happening, happy years to come so besok onwards dah start cuti?</font>
smalldreams
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<font color="0077aa">Shahlynn
Dah lama seh u kawin! Mika dah pun 5 yrs kan? Planning for another one ? Ke stop at 1, cam China...hehehe, gurau aje
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Dah lama seh u kawin! Mika dah pun 5 yrs kan? Planning for another one ? Ke stop at 1, cam China...hehehe, gurau aje
</font><font color="0000ff">Shahlynn
Amboi bukan main marah lagi.. hehehe
anywei it truth lah kita kat sini semua bukan org2 yg berada or senang.. we also had our own difficulities... tapi kita kena pandai buat planning.. and always remember nvr spend more den what u can afford..!</font>
Amboi bukan main marah lagi.. hehehe
anywei it truth lah kita kat sini semua bukan org2 yg berada or senang.. we also had our own difficulities... tapi kita kena pandai buat planning.. and always remember nvr spend more den what u can afford..!</font>
smalldreams
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<font color="0077aa">Shahlynn, Nshah
Memang lah tak semestinya gaji 20k sebulan baru boleh ada anak. Kalau cam tu, habis lah kita2 semut2 ni takde harapan.
Betapa keciknya gaji kita, insya-Allah tetap cukup. Pray for Allah's rahmat, insya-Allah we'll manage
Ada orang gaji besar2 pon tak rahmat apa gunanya....? Nauzubillah, hope we'll all be sheltered from that.
I attended a workshop recently, on family planning. The Ustaz who conducted the workshop said that in Islam, planning is very important (as in everything we do, essentially). With children and the choice to have children, comes responsibility. And Islam focuses on quality, more than quantity. That really motivated me to give my best to my children</font>
Memang lah tak semestinya gaji 20k sebulan baru boleh ada anak. Kalau cam tu, habis lah kita2 semut2 ni takde harapan.
Betapa keciknya gaji kita, insya-Allah tetap cukup. Pray for Allah's rahmat, insya-Allah we'll manage
Ada orang gaji besar2 pon tak rahmat apa gunanya....? Nauzubillah, hope we'll all be sheltered from that.
I attended a workshop recently, on family planning. The Ustaz who conducted the workshop said that in Islam, planning is very important (as in everything we do, essentially). With children and the choice to have children, comes responsibility. And Islam focuses on quality, more than quantity. That really motivated me to give my best to my children</font>
wati
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Happy Anniversary Lynn ! Congrates...
Shahlynn, yes.. tu lah susah senang being a wife eh. Tapi rasa puas hati.. I ada lap-lap my hubby smlm dgn kain basah, then dia mcm..."Aduh...sakit..you nie lap kasar sangat lah..sakit.."(Merengek).. Then i ckp, "Aper nie sakit..sakit..? Oh.. so you prefer lah nurse Phillipine kat hospital tu lap badan you lah ?".. Dia terus muka ada senyum...
Smalldreams, Maya tido on her mattress next to our bed. So bila dia dah lelap, i naik katil i to sleep, so everytime dia turn and see that i'm not next to her, dia marah tau.. dia mcm merajuk..then terpaksalah i turun bawah balik tido dgn dia, bila dia dah lelap, naik balik atas katil dgn baby tua... sigh* Eveynite i can go up and down about 5 times.. Mana i tak ngantuk bila kat kerja.. tak cukup tido.. Dtg kerja mcm zombie..
Nshah, kesian aku tgk anak kau terpisah gitu. I teringat zaman i kecik2, adik beradik 5 orang.. best tau play together... abg bleh jaga adik..
Shahlynn, yes.. tu lah susah senang being a wife eh. Tapi rasa puas hati.. I ada lap-lap my hubby smlm dgn kain basah, then dia mcm..."Aduh...sakit..you nie lap kasar sangat lah..sakit.."(Merengek).. Then i ckp, "Aper nie sakit..sakit..? Oh.. so you prefer lah nurse Phillipine kat hospital tu lap badan you lah ?".. Dia terus muka ada senyum...
Smalldreams, Maya tido on her mattress next to our bed. So bila dia dah lelap, i naik katil i to sleep, so everytime dia turn and see that i'm not next to her, dia marah tau.. dia mcm merajuk..then terpaksalah i turun bawah balik tido dgn dia, bila dia dah lelap, naik balik atas katil dgn baby tua... sigh* Eveynite i can go up and down about 5 times.. Mana i tak ngantuk bila kat kerja.. tak cukup tido.. Dtg kerja mcm zombie..
Nshah, kesian aku tgk anak kau terpisah gitu. I teringat zaman i kecik2, adik beradik 5 orang.. best tau play together... abg bleh jaga adik..
nshah,
i nak marah buat apa? tak kuasa mak!
smalldreams,
i taknak kena antar rumah orang tua2! hehehhe
Selisih!
i nak jumpa my handsome son, my lovely daughter in law, my adorable grandchildren every other weekend and hear their voices on the fone every other nite...
we cant afford luxuries for them, let alone the world... but we're investing our time so that they know, the real meaning of family...
i nak marah buat apa? tak kuasa mak!
smalldreams,
i taknak kena antar rumah orang tua2! hehehhe
Selisih!
i nak jumpa my handsome son, my lovely daughter in law, my adorable grandchildren every other weekend and hear their voices on the fone every other nite...
we cant afford luxuries for them, let alone the world... but we're investing our time so that they know, the real meaning of family...
momma_naqi
Active Member
Lynn happy 3rd anni...
Me wow reaching my 10th anni dis yr...
Shahlynn aku nak jadi anak angkat kau bleh...??
Betul actually being a mother is not ez..kalau setakat 2 orang je...makan nasi n kicap pun can survive...BUT bila da ada anak...(sekali lagi ku cakap aku tak lah pandai mana...i still haf a long way to go) we haf to sacrifice lotsa stuff..
Frankly speaking....Cukup bulan je....Da first stuff I will buy are Anaqi's neccesities 2nd to settle da bills..3rd barang2 dapur ....Then bila da tolak tendang terajang..da balance baru bleh huray2...not forgetting babes...I will def keep a side some savings...although not in hundreds..but I'm glad dat at least I haf sum savings there....
I've seen my own relatives asking otjer to buy diapers/formula for them WHICH i vow to myself takkan terjadi dalam hidup aku....insyallah..
BUT 1 thing for sure...anak aku besar depan mata aku....buruk baik kelakuan dia biar aku yang ajar/tegur
Me wow reaching my 10th anni dis yr...
Shahlynn aku nak jadi anak angkat kau bleh...??
Betul actually being a mother is not ez..kalau setakat 2 orang je...makan nasi n kicap pun can survive...BUT bila da ada anak...(sekali lagi ku cakap aku tak lah pandai mana...i still haf a long way to go) we haf to sacrifice lotsa stuff..
Frankly speaking....Cukup bulan je....Da first stuff I will buy are Anaqi's neccesities 2nd to settle da bills..3rd barang2 dapur ....Then bila da tolak tendang terajang..da balance baru bleh huray2...not forgetting babes...I will def keep a side some savings...although not in hundreds..but I'm glad dat at least I haf sum savings there....
I've seen my own relatives asking otjer to buy diapers/formula for them WHICH i vow to myself takkan terjadi dalam hidup aku....insyallah..
BUT 1 thing for sure...anak aku besar depan mata aku....buruk baik kelakuan dia biar aku yang ajar/tegur
Dan,
my 7year itch came wayyyyy too early.
Glad its over, and we came out unscathed... Alhamdulillah...
Lynn,
Insya Allah,
Aug will be my 7th wedding anniversary,
November will be my 17th 'couplehood' anniversary!
I always disturb my hubby, "asyik2 muka si deknie yg i pandang!" hehhehhe
Wati,
tu namanya dia nak bermanja la...
my 7year itch came wayyyyy too early.
Glad its over, and we came out unscathed... Alhamdulillah...
Lynn,
Insya Allah,
Aug will be my 7th wedding anniversary,
November will be my 17th 'couplehood' anniversary!
I always disturb my hubby, "asyik2 muka si deknie yg i pandang!" hehhehhe
Wati,
tu namanya dia nak bermanja la...
<font color="0000ff">Thks Wati, Dan for the wishes...!!
Quote *i nak jumpa my handsome son, my lovely daughter in law, my adorable grandchildren every other weekend and hear their voices on the fone every other nite...
we cant afford luxuries for them, let alone the world... but we're investing our time so that they know, the real meaning of family...*
Insya-Allah... dgn bimbingan yg betul toward Duniawi and Not forgetting Ukrawi too... </font>
Quote *i nak jumpa my handsome son, my lovely daughter in law, my adorable grandchildren every other weekend and hear their voices on the fone every other nite...
we cant afford luxuries for them, let alone the world... but we're investing our time so that they know, the real meaning of family...*
Insya-Allah... dgn bimbingan yg betul toward Duniawi and Not forgetting Ukrawi too... </font>
smalldreams
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Wati
Nasib baik bukan katil double deck. dah kena naik tangga atas bawah...
Eh u noe I'm thinking of putting adam on the mattress beside our bed, tapi I takut sekali ada creepy crawlies ke, or bila I tak perasan, terpijak ke, selisih. My room is very small, so there's no space for a baby bed (there is but that'll make my room uber cramped). Nak pakai extra room, tu bilik dah jadi cam store
So in the end, adam sleeps with us, and bila2 dia nak ngempeng pon senang. tapi tu pon kadang2 zombie jugak tau...
Lynn
tapi u ada bilik kat rumah yr mom still, kan? if yes, takde prblem lah..</font>
Wati
Nasib baik bukan katil double deck. dah kena naik tangga atas bawah...
Eh u noe I'm thinking of putting adam on the mattress beside our bed, tapi I takut sekali ada creepy crawlies ke, or bila I tak perasan, terpijak ke, selisih. My room is very small, so there's no space for a baby bed (there is but that'll make my room uber cramped). Nak pakai extra room, tu bilik dah jadi cam store
So in the end, adam sleeps with us, and bila2 dia nak ngempeng pon senang. tapi tu pon kadang2 zombie jugak tau...
Lynn
tapi u ada bilik kat rumah yr mom still, kan? if yes, takde prblem lah..</font>
smalldreams
Active Member
<font color="0077aa">Naqi, Shahlynn, San
kalau lah terlalu tersepit $$, takpe, just sell ngoh hiang or brownies kat BP thread... sapa tau, terus jadi kaya raya...hehehe</font>
kalau lah terlalu tersepit $$, takpe, just sell ngoh hiang or brownies kat BP thread... sapa tau, terus jadi kaya raya...hehehe</font>
<font color="ff0000">Nshah
Before Marsyha was born, n before i planned to have a maid...i've talked to my mom.
Since she tc my 2 boys on dat time n i gave her duit penat & duit dapur...if to take a maid i will cut her duit penat tc my boys...
coz dat the only way n i don't have extra cash to pay for both to her & the maid.
& my mom agreed...now only give her duit dapur and will sometimes still give her duit rokok
U have to sacrifice some gal...</font>
Before Marsyha was born, n before i planned to have a maid...i've talked to my mom.
Since she tc my 2 boys on dat time n i gave her duit penat & duit dapur...if to take a maid i will cut her duit penat tc my boys...
coz dat the only way n i don't have extra cash to pay for both to her & the maid.
& my mom agreed...now only give her duit dapur and will sometimes still give her duit rokok
U have to sacrifice some gal...</font>
Mas,
my payday once every 2 weeks... so wajib, takleh tukar2!
1st - kayakan Sheng Siong! nie kalau aku miss, sampai dapo & freezer aku kosong, aku rasa akulah orang yg paling miskin dlm dunia! nak makan pun susah! of course, MUST buy aku - Mika's milk powder & cereals
2nd - allowance Mak aku... Nie tak banyak, i noe.
I'm ashamed of myself too, but too bad, dats all i can afford.
3rd - i set aside $200 for myself. half EZlink, half duit jajan... nie takder, aku gi kerja jalan kaki!
baru bills & miscellaneous. if i happen to blanja my boys kluar makan, i cut back on my lunch @ work...
my payday once every 2 weeks... so wajib, takleh tukar2!
1st - kayakan Sheng Siong! nie kalau aku miss, sampai dapo & freezer aku kosong, aku rasa akulah orang yg paling miskin dlm dunia! nak makan pun susah! of course, MUST buy aku - Mika's milk powder & cereals
2nd - allowance Mak aku... Nie tak banyak, i noe.
I'm ashamed of myself too, but too bad, dats all i can afford.
3rd - i set aside $200 for myself. half EZlink, half duit jajan... nie takder, aku gi kerja jalan kaki!
baru bills & miscellaneous. if i happen to blanja my boys kluar makan, i cut back on my lunch @ work...
momma_naqi
Active Member
smalldreams...
I nak sell kapal terbang nya model bleh kalau tersepit $$...
Lynn...wohooo macam2.....
Macam lagi Trisha ..(looks like we made it...look hw far we've come my baby
I nak sell kapal terbang nya model bleh kalau tersepit $$...
Lynn...wohooo macam2.....
Macam lagi Trisha ..(looks like we made it...look hw far we've come my baby
smalldreams
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<font color="0077aa">Hmmm, alamak, naqi & shahlynn
U gals are making me feel guilty.
I've never actually put aside $$ for myself. This is how I work. I tolak my $$ for my parents & siblings, savings dulu, then the rest, jalan terus...tapi now that the economy is bad, I intend to tighten my purse strings after I've cleared Adam's 2nd birthday gathering for some close family & friends</font>
U gals are making me feel guilty.
I've never actually put aside $$ for myself. This is how I work. I tolak my $$ for my parents & siblings, savings dulu, then the rest, jalan terus...tapi now that the economy is bad, I intend to tighten my purse strings after I've cleared Adam's 2nd birthday gathering for some close family & friends</font>