ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

lina..erm, i was abt to solat zuhur which dah overdue pon by now, whoops... !

Yeah usually I get a brown tinge when I'm having my menses, today it's pink. Takpe, Allah knows best.

Dr Wati, terima kasih, insya-Allah i'm hoping yr theory is right...
 


wati..amacam ur perut?

kalau u urut....u can ask the makcik urut...cam mane nak 'naikkan' sendiri sebelum u tito...since u nie angkat berat punya orang....
 
<font color="aa00aa">taking a break from my work to peep in at u gerls chatting.
sungguh ngantuk today...

smalldreams,
yup wati is rite..settling of foetus may cause some show of blood.
all the best gerl!</font>
 
<font color="ff6000">Mira,
Ive asked Havard that day. Pros and cons.
Hub pon dah dengar. Hub kata, tak salah kalau kasi at least a day off in a mth. Haiz...no comment lah. We hv yet to sit down and talk thgs with her cos that time infrnt of MIL, dia mcm takut ckit. Duno y bt I guess, she was given every week off sebab MIL dah 3 bulan tk byr gaji dia... </font>
 
<font color="0000ff">Logging off now..!</font>

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San

Common mistake among first-time employer of domsetic helper is being kind.

Bukan jahat but dorang nie whn u show the SLIGHTEST amt of kindness mula lah nak pijak kepala.

And by law its only ONCE a mth.
 
nora,
has a pt there....
not be cruel....but u ought to b stern...
frankly speaking....I will scold/qns/reprimand her even at the slightest mistake....even hubby will repeat it again...so she will go thru 2x scoldings....but when we joke, we joke as if we are sisters...I tell her simple....At work I kena marah with my superior...same goes as her...
 
<font color="ff6000">Nora,

Thanks for sharing. I dah highlight to hub smlm. Dia masih fikirkan. So, I let him think till Sat before fetching the maid on Sun.

Hope he'll give her at least once a mth of day off only and not more. </font>
 
San,
Actually, this is why last when you ask me to take over this maid. I didn't because of this point. I cannot decide if she ask for off day I should grant or not and i know she sure ask for it cos use to it. that's why end of it I take fresh one. Is easy to control. last time take over the mum's maid, I feel because you know her you feel paisei to reject her. I think your hub think that way. but still i will not encourage you to allow off day. Though my expreience, you will always feel paisei in terms on scolding her or others lah, the feeling when she is in your house and in your MIL's house are different. Hope you will not face this kind of problem that I even face.
 
<font color="ff6000">Naqi,
Noted.

Mira,
Initially, she hv no off days when you "planned" to take her in. It just happened recently this year where MIL gave her weekly off days due to her salary which was pending for 3 months. So, she signed up for classes at Embassy.

Btw, hub just called me. NO OFF DAYS for the first 3 months till further notice. Reda bila dengar...</font>
 
San, I understand, That time she go to Indonesia Embassy every week end. that is what your MIL told me. That why I don't want to take her and also
 
hey mamaliz....

so now resident of sembawang already

morning u send sarah to sch bawak hilmi ke, kesian sarah pepagi nak kena bangun
 
tak bawak hilmi lah...bibik jagakan hilmi while me or hub antar...luckily hub still station at amk..so on werk days he sent her...
 
ladies...regards to the gathering sumone update me later k...i jarang masuk sini pasal pakai pc n net connection my frewnnya...segan lah nak pakai slalu....tanx ehhh
 
<font color="aa00aa">not feeling too good today.
tekak rasa semacam and badan seram sejuk.
hopefully i dont get sick.
dah telan vit c and multi vits tadi.</font>
 
<font color="aa00aa">lynn,
dah bfast?
semalam pun i tak jadi meet famela cos hubby has to work late.
i think tomoro then can mit her.</font>
 
<font color="aa00aa">today i bfast kaya toast je.
btw, the HP lappie yg cik nab dapat tu..u tau tak how much it costs outside?
and apa model tu?</font>
 
LINAAAAA......
itu Bidadari.... It says jgn minum air 1hr AFTER minum bidadari... kalau gitu, sampai bila2 aku takleh minum air eh?
 
<font color="0000ff">morning Shahlynn, naqi, mira

lynzi
alamak i cant remember lah cik nak nya lappie apa model</font>
 
<font color="aa00aa">slynn,
hehehe...yup takleh minum air 1 hr after taking it.
lepas 1 hr bolehlah beb.
and dont take when u tgh red lite eh.

hi mas, mira!</font>
 
{...yup takleh minum air 1 hr after taking it.
lepas 1 hr bolehlah beb. }

CONTRADICTING RITE?

- after 1hr takleh.... den after 1hr 1min bleh?
- den the moment i minum, i togok air banyak2, till 1hr later, i stop drinking water...
 
Shahlynn

Within 1 hr after u makan bidadari dun drink
after that one hr kau nka minum air satu perigi pun boleh

eg. makan bidadari at 8am
bet 8am -9am no water
9am onwards... dah boleh minum
 
<font color="aa00aa">slynn,
mcm mana nak terangkan kat u eh..
let's say u take bidadari at 9am...then betwen 9am to 10am tu takleh minum air.
after 10am onwards then can drink water.</font>
 
hola lynzi....Shahlynn,nora,lynn

Shahlynn aku rasa nanti aku nak suggest kat Lina suruh dia bilang ngan orang packing of bidadari to indicate in english....I guess u will understand better should they have written it in English
 

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