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momma_naqi
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nora,
woit too early lah....
kul 5.45 baru bleh
woit too early lah....
kul 5.45 baru bleh
momma_naqi
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nora..
rofl....hahaha u tarzan I jane kappe?/
rofl....hahaha u tarzan I jane kappe?/
<font color="119911">Slynn
referring to ur question tu, we only meet him during wkds ah dear *heads down* i noe i shldnt do this
in disciplinary i tink he got alot ah from me, his papa, nenek & atuk.. i tink each of us nya discipline ada lelain bt yg paling dia takut is his dad lah.. bt yg selamba me or his atuk, nenek kkdg masuk kkdg tidak..
smalldreams
well ive called e teacher tadi kenapa such things leh happen & she said usually pat dorang bergaduh most was time balik.. yes i noe my anak cant accept failure, dia nak semua perfect so he cant accept if teacher told him off.. how ah to discipline camtu? abt merebut brg mmg ah smua sama kata teacher so i asked bt y lately si boy tu ckp camtu, of coz my son sad ah if he buat ke tak buat asal mesti dia bilang smua org or tunjuk yg my anak tu jahat? even mak dia & nenek dia will buang muka dgn mum wen she picks or send him over seh.. apa punya attitude tu? my mum even apologise b4 syg sorry eh if irfan ada buat yg tak baik, maklum budak2..
n reason kuat teacher kasi abt that boy is HES ON MEDICATION, on STEROID therefore hes hyper & tends to go overboard.. then salah sapa seh, lau org langgar wire i lebih2 pun mesti i marah.. i told the teacher u better plan of smtg before irfan beat dat boy or gigit dia.. which of coz i know NO parents anak kena pukul or bully kan.. bt my son tu diam2 lepu..so she said her noon class byk boys so she cam very tired gitu out of ctrl, while paginya class byk girls easier to maintain..</font>
referring to ur question tu, we only meet him during wkds ah dear *heads down* i noe i shldnt do this
smalldreams
well ive called e teacher tadi kenapa such things leh happen & she said usually pat dorang bergaduh most was time balik.. yes i noe my anak cant accept failure, dia nak semua perfect so he cant accept if teacher told him off.. how ah to discipline camtu? abt merebut brg mmg ah smua sama kata teacher so i asked bt y lately si boy tu ckp camtu, of coz my son sad ah if he buat ke tak buat asal mesti dia bilang smua org or tunjuk yg my anak tu jahat? even mak dia & nenek dia will buang muka dgn mum wen she picks or send him over seh.. apa punya attitude tu? my mum even apologise b4 syg sorry eh if irfan ada buat yg tak baik, maklum budak2..
n reason kuat teacher kasi abt that boy is HES ON MEDICATION, on STEROID therefore hes hyper & tends to go overboard.. then salah sapa seh, lau org langgar wire i lebih2 pun mesti i marah.. i told the teacher u better plan of smtg before irfan beat dat boy or gigit dia.. which of coz i know NO parents anak kena pukul or bully kan.. bt my son tu diam2 lepu..so she said her noon class byk boys so she cam very tired gitu out of ctrl, while paginya class byk girls easier to maintain..</font>
momma_naqi
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nora,
dun tell ppl ok
dun tell ppl ok
momma_naqi
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*tied and sealed*
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smalldreams
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<font color="0077aa">nshah
I am sure you dah consider habis2 sebelum you decide to leave irfan at yr mom's place and be in touch with him only on weekends. But frankly speaking, through some experiences I dah observe, it'll be VERY hard for you to hold the disciplinary role when the child returns to stay with his parents (whom he only met on weekends etc) one day. That'll cause other issues. I don't mean to frighten you, kita pun doakan the best for ourselves tapi this is something we have to be verrry mindful about. You might want to consider how you can slowly stop becoming a weekend parent - may sound harsh, I apologise, tapi this is the term used when we only meet our children on weekends
Sedangkan parents yang hari2 jumpa anak, housewives etc, may have issues with their children later on, apatah lagi bila kita cuma jumpa once a week? Insya-Allah bila you dah serumah with Irfan hari2, he'll learn to tell you more things, and you'll have more power & ability to advise him
Tapi eh, u selalu kata u angkat Irfan pagi2 time dia tengah tido. Jadi apahal pulak ni sekarang u jadi weekend parent?</font>
I am sure you dah consider habis2 sebelum you decide to leave irfan at yr mom's place and be in touch with him only on weekends. But frankly speaking, through some experiences I dah observe, it'll be VERY hard for you to hold the disciplinary role when the child returns to stay with his parents (whom he only met on weekends etc) one day. That'll cause other issues. I don't mean to frighten you, kita pun doakan the best for ourselves tapi this is something we have to be verrry mindful about. You might want to consider how you can slowly stop becoming a weekend parent - may sound harsh, I apologise, tapi this is the term used when we only meet our children on weekends
Sedangkan parents yang hari2 jumpa anak, housewives etc, may have issues with their children later on, apatah lagi bila kita cuma jumpa once a week? Insya-Allah bila you dah serumah with Irfan hari2, he'll learn to tell you more things, and you'll have more power & ability to advise him
Tapi eh, u selalu kata u angkat Irfan pagi2 time dia tengah tido. Jadi apahal pulak ni sekarang u jadi weekend parent?</font>
smalldreams
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<font color="0077aa">nora, mas korang bobal apa ni? dah lick the envelop pakai tongue ke belom ni</font>
momma_naqi
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smalldreams...
lick tak bleh kotor...nanti tougue kena infections...pakai nasi bleh??
lick tak bleh kotor...nanti tougue kena infections...pakai nasi bleh??
presario_allyssa
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hi ladies,
those yang order crocs from me, please confirm collection point. i am expecting to rec the shipment this weekend. collection will be from 27-28 apr or after 5 may.
those yang order crocs from me, please confirm collection point. i am expecting to rec the shipment this weekend. collection will be from 27-28 apr or after 5 may.
<font color="119911">smalldreams
taklah girl, i picked him up pepagi only on monday pagi je.. u salah paham kot.. n he will b there till friday.. yes mmg i noe susah for me to discipline him & for him to listen to me.. bt i need help is there a way on how i can at least tell my parents to sampaikan pada dia? mmg consider its like my parents responsibility now sbb tu nenek tak happy thus jumpa e teacher terus.. mmg act i cant say much.. nenek manjakan cucu gak mayb smtimes he salah nenek diam..
siapa tak nak jaga parents sepenuh masa.. i mmg nak girl, bt byk i hv to consider.. mmg susah if u nak say i ni kepala batu ill terima coz mmg ez if i duk umah my parents to tgk irfan rather than camni.. bt if only i can do it my way by jus tgl je sana
besok i cont eh.. bye</font>
taklah girl, i picked him up pepagi only on monday pagi je.. u salah paham kot.. n he will b there till friday.. yes mmg i noe susah for me to discipline him & for him to listen to me.. bt i need help is there a way on how i can at least tell my parents to sampaikan pada dia? mmg consider its like my parents responsibility now sbb tu nenek tak happy thus jumpa e teacher terus.. mmg act i cant say much.. nenek manjakan cucu gak mayb smtimes he salah nenek diam..
siapa tak nak jaga parents sepenuh masa.. i mmg nak girl, bt byk i hv to consider.. mmg susah if u nak say i ni kepala batu ill terima coz mmg ez if i duk umah my parents to tgk irfan rather than camni.. bt if only i can do it my way by jus tgl je sana
besok i cont eh.. bye</font>
momma_naqi
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nora,
arghh my staff made a BIG Mistake...so here I am helping him to solve it....
arghh my staff made a BIG Mistake...so here I am helping him to solve it....
Nie i cakap.. not because i perfect. Hell no, but I'm oso learning from mistake, trial & error, each & everyday..
I'm merely sharing with wat i've learnt and read.
At the end of the day, only we know what we want for our kids & wat works well... so there's no such thing as right or wrong in parenting.... to each & its own...
{in disciplinary i tink he got alot ah from me, his papa, nenek & atuk.. i tink each of us nya discipline ada lelain}
if salah, memang tak salah si nenek or atuk tegur.
but if banyak sgt cara, AND campur tangan, budak jadi confuse... tak tahu yg mana nak dengar... nak ikut... and saper nak respect?
my mom marah Mika whenever he misbehaves.
balik, she complain. and instead of reprimanding him again, ie Round 2, we tell him nicely, apa salah dia...
and the same goes if kita yg marah... nenek will not campur tangan, but sebaliknya, talk to him nicely.
itupun, masuk telinga kiri. kluar kanan... maklumlah, budak!
I'm merely sharing with wat i've learnt and read.
At the end of the day, only we know what we want for our kids & wat works well... so there's no such thing as right or wrong in parenting.... to each & its own...
{in disciplinary i tink he got alot ah from me, his papa, nenek & atuk.. i tink each of us nya discipline ada lelain}
if salah, memang tak salah si nenek or atuk tegur.
but if banyak sgt cara, AND campur tangan, budak jadi confuse... tak tahu yg mana nak dengar... nak ikut... and saper nak respect?
my mom marah Mika whenever he misbehaves.
balik, she complain. and instead of reprimanding him again, ie Round 2, we tell him nicely, apa salah dia...
and the same goes if kita yg marah... nenek will not campur tangan, but sebaliknya, talk to him nicely.
itupun, masuk telinga kiri. kluar kanan... maklumlah, budak!
Ladiez..well said. all by our own experience
But i feel kan ni pendapat i after i have stayed with in laws..Its quite difficult to discipline our child in our own ways when living with our parents..byk campur tangan kids get confuse this is true..and sometimes we feel serba salah..
Nora i suka the crocs yg u pakai hari tu tau its so nice is there such design in this spree..But alamak i tak tahu the size
But i feel kan ni pendapat i after i have stayed with in laws..Its quite difficult to discipline our child in our own ways when living with our parents..byk campur tangan kids get confuse this is true..and sometimes we feel serba salah..
Nora i suka the crocs yg u pakai hari tu tau its so nice is there such design in this spree..But alamak i tak tahu the size
smalldreams
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Nora R!
I think u missed my posting. do let me know if the thomas cake was nice, can? I'm thinking of ordering it from her too
Thanks dear!
I think u missed my posting. do let me know if the thomas cake was nice, can? I'm thinking of ordering it from her too
noraR,
i agree... when i stayed with both my parents & inlaws, i kept telling my hubby i tak tahan... tak tahan not they bully us, but cos i cant be a 'full' wife..
tanggungjawap lain la.. mebe its just me, lain orang lain...
yes, budak jadi confused if byk sgt campur tangan.
I'm sorry, but the last thing dat i want is my son to see my mom as Mak, coz i was seldom there for him. takut nanti dah tua dorang antar kat rumah orang tua2! hehehe
i understand.. kita kalau marah anak, nenek & tok yg sibuk jadi orang tengah. mcmlah kita nak campak cucu dia tu!
i agree... when i stayed with both my parents & inlaws, i kept telling my hubby i tak tahan... tak tahan not they bully us, but cos i cant be a 'full' wife..
tanggungjawap lain la.. mebe its just me, lain orang lain...
yes, budak jadi confused if byk sgt campur tangan.
I'm sorry, but the last thing dat i want is my son to see my mom as Mak, coz i was seldom there for him. takut nanti dah tua dorang antar kat rumah orang tua2! hehehe
i understand.. kita kalau marah anak, nenek & tok yg sibuk jadi orang tengah. mcmlah kita nak campak cucu dia tu!
hmm.. topik pasal child discipline!
nshah,
susah nak komen.. org bekerja susah disciplin anak. org tak keje pun ade masalah jgk tau!! but i've to agree w smalldreams and shahlynn.. hope u solve yr issues soon. after all said and done, at the end of the day, the kid is ours. how he/she is gg to turn out in the future, good or bad, ppl wont point fingers at the grandparents!
betty.bad,
bile time nak reg for PV tu u let me know la.. but i really tak tau ape nak buat as parent volunteer! haha.. pasal swimming tu, kalo on just text shahlynn.
nora,
post ler pat FB!
nshah,
susah nak komen.. org bekerja susah disciplin anak. org tak keje pun ade masalah jgk tau!! but i've to agree w smalldreams and shahlynn.. hope u solve yr issues soon. after all said and done, at the end of the day, the kid is ours. how he/she is gg to turn out in the future, good or bad, ppl wont point fingers at the grandparents!
betty.bad,
bile time nak reg for PV tu u let me know la.. but i really tak tau ape nak buat as parent volunteer! haha.. pasal swimming tu, kalo on just text shahlynn.
nora,
post ler pat FB!
wah!!!! thread nie alive sey malam nie!!!!
tapi jgm cakap sal baju butterfly lagik.
shahlynn,
aku faham!! esp time the 'outlaws' stayed w us. smp cakap aku dera anak sendiri! at one point smp adam so ingkar, i marah.. he carik them! mcm here i am trying to discipline the kids, korang datang to spoil them!? so for me, aku pun mcm kau, i rather do everything myself. susah pun susah la.. lain kali kids da besar at least i know ive tried my best!
tapi jgm cakap sal baju butterfly lagik.
shahlynn,
aku faham!! esp time the 'outlaws' stayed w us. smp cakap aku dera anak sendiri! at one point smp adam so ingkar, i marah.. he carik them! mcm here i am trying to discipline the kids, korang datang to spoil them!? so for me, aku pun mcm kau, i rather do everything myself. susah pun susah la.. lain kali kids da besar at least i know ive tried my best!
Smalldreams..oops rely very sorry dear..ok to be very frank hubby did not rely like it and the teachers commented that it was very sweet. Maybe you can tell her to lessen the cream..But not too sure bout the cup cakes though coz i did not get the chance to it, all given out LOL
hope it helps ya..'
Haha shahyn i agree with the "full wife"..kadang2 kopi pun mak nak siap kan haha bila ingat2 balik so funny but overall sometimes i have to understand n put myself at their shoe also..anak dia, da berapa tahun hidup di bawah jagaan dia mungkin da terbiasa..
But ada juga frust tonggeng, there is certain things tat our mind set bercanggah..but Alhamdullilah try to resolve in friendly way..but after all i still believe living on my own is so much better off but i still believe we need their support,coz their my pillars
Haha shahyn i agree with the "full wife"..kadang2 kopi pun mak nak siap kan haha bila ingat2 balik so funny but overall sometimes i have to understand n put myself at their shoe also..anak dia, da berapa tahun hidup di bawah jagaan dia mungkin da terbiasa..
But ada juga frust tonggeng, there is certain things tat our mind set bercanggah..but Alhamdullilah try to resolve in friendly way..but after all i still believe living on my own is so much better off but i still believe we need their support,coz their my pillars
Fooh penat hari ni.
Pasal disciplining our kids, I'm like the rest of you. I don't want to come to a point orang cakap "mak kau tak ajar kape" to my son. My eldest is very naughty but luckily he's still quite well behaved with friends of his age. Kadang-kadang memang lah penat nak discipline them. Luckily for my parents tak pernah masuk campur but the inlaws are a bit defensive of them.
Zu, the swimming I'll confirm lepas bincang w/ my husband. Pasal PV tu ok I'll tell you when to register. Alah senang lah, ikot budak budak ni gi learning journeys ke, help out time sports day ke. Takde susah mana *cam betul aku ni* But this school don't engage PVs for reading programme like some schools do.
Pasal disciplining our kids, I'm like the rest of you. I don't want to come to a point orang cakap "mak kau tak ajar kape" to my son. My eldest is very naughty but luckily he's still quite well behaved with friends of his age. Kadang-kadang memang lah penat nak discipline them. Luckily for my parents tak pernah masuk campur but the inlaws are a bit defensive of them.
Zu, the swimming I'll confirm lepas bincang w/ my husband. Pasal PV tu ok I'll tell you when to register. Alah senang lah, ikot budak budak ni gi learning journeys ke, help out time sports day ke. Takde susah mana *cam betul aku ni* But this school don't engage PVs for reading programme like some schools do.
nora rozzi - thanks for the invite kat FB
my email is [email protected] kalau mummies sudi nak add i .. i pun baru sign up - so backdated kan
my email is [email protected] kalau mummies sudi nak add i .. i pun baru sign up - so backdated kan
smalldreams
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Ida,
welcome to the thread! Alah, takpe, Nora pon takde FB, cam Sumiko Tan (as mentioned) so u're not that backdated
Zu, Shahlynn, Betty.bad
siapa lah nak anak jadi nakal kan? I think parenting is the toughest job in the world. It's easier to let the kids do what they want, as they'll be happy, tapi what to do, we always must set boundaries, if not, bila dah tua nanti, susah.
For me my mom is VERY strict with adam. lagi strict drp I. My mom say I'm too lembik with Adam & always complain adam becomes notty when I come home. Sighs. But bila I pekik or be firm with adam, my hub bising pulak, kata I shouldn't shout at Adam. susah lah jadi mak ni. haha!
Shahlynn
what u say is very true. we don't want the kids to anggap nenek/tok as their parents, until when it comes to being with us, the kids think we have no right to scold them coz we never took care of them. That's the scary part.
Anyway kids these days also might learn that "child care should be outsourced". Maids / Full day care centre jaga dorang ape, jadi bila da besar, apa salah maid / old folks home jaga mak bapak? So sad. But I read this view in TODAY newspaper abt 2 weeks ago, and it really hit the nail on the spot.
Nora.R
thanks for the feedback! Ok, in that case I tak jadi nak order from her..coz I got another site with a design I want. I'll just ask for less sugar (dah jadi cam Koi bubble tea)
Till then, good early morning all (sapa boleh beat)...hehehe
welcome to the thread! Alah, takpe, Nora pon takde FB, cam Sumiko Tan (as mentioned) so u're not that backdated
Zu, Shahlynn, Betty.bad
siapa lah nak anak jadi nakal kan? I think parenting is the toughest job in the world. It's easier to let the kids do what they want, as they'll be happy, tapi what to do, we always must set boundaries, if not, bila dah tua nanti, susah.
For me my mom is VERY strict with adam. lagi strict drp I. My mom say I'm too lembik with Adam & always complain adam becomes notty when I come home. Sighs. But bila I pekik or be firm with adam, my hub bising pulak, kata I shouldn't shout at Adam. susah lah jadi mak ni. haha!
Shahlynn
what u say is very true. we don't want the kids to anggap nenek/tok as their parents, until when it comes to being with us, the kids think we have no right to scold them coz we never took care of them. That's the scary part.
Anyway kids these days also might learn that "child care should be outsourced". Maids / Full day care centre jaga dorang ape, jadi bila da besar, apa salah maid / old folks home jaga mak bapak? So sad. But I read this view in TODAY newspaper abt 2 weeks ago, and it really hit the nail on the spot.
Nora.R
thanks for the feedback! Ok, in that case I tak jadi nak order from her..coz I got another site with a design I want. I'll just ask for less sugar (dah jadi cam Koi bubble tea)
Till then, good early morning all (sapa boleh beat)...hehehe
<font color="119911">pagi smua..
wow smalldreams paginya tak tido ke? hee
anyway mmg tul, parenting is very diff.. mmg tul i always make a point to irfan that apa pun salah dia buat over e wkdays, nenek will hv to report to me so ill know apa dia buat at home & at school.. cuma tulah kkdg atuk too protective over him.. even there was a few times tak nak pi school, atuk call me & scolded me ckp kau jgn nak marah2 budak tu eh.. dia sakit biarkan dia rehat je.. padahal his leher gatal2 je haiz..
bt like Slynn gak, if nenek marah i biarkan je.. bt on 2nd note either me or e dad will try to explain kenapa nenek marah sgt dgn dia.. or kkdg nenek tak tahan, nenek pukul.. i dont blame mum lah.. kkdg i takut nak discipline my kids as they grow up.. coz entah cam im still not a perfect mum gitu..
as for my doter ill try to masukkan pat pala otak dia yg nyai & Yai is her gramps coz wenever i asked her azza anak sapa? she will say nyai & yai.. bt lately she noes me & her papa is her parents ah.. n shes being taken care over in KL for a while aje.. overall i tink i kena byk berdoa, sabar & read up on parenting..</font>
wow smalldreams paginya tak tido ke? hee
anyway mmg tul, parenting is very diff.. mmg tul i always make a point to irfan that apa pun salah dia buat over e wkdays, nenek will hv to report to me so ill know apa dia buat at home & at school.. cuma tulah kkdg atuk too protective over him.. even there was a few times tak nak pi school, atuk call me & scolded me ckp kau jgn nak marah2 budak tu eh.. dia sakit biarkan dia rehat je.. padahal his leher gatal2 je haiz..
bt like Slynn gak, if nenek marah i biarkan je.. bt on 2nd note either me or e dad will try to explain kenapa nenek marah sgt dgn dia.. or kkdg nenek tak tahan, nenek pukul.. i dont blame mum lah.. kkdg i takut nak discipline my kids as they grow up.. coz entah cam im still not a perfect mum gitu..
{well ive called e teacher tadi kenapa such things leh happen & she said usually pat dorang bergaduh most was time balik.. yes i noe my anak cant accept failure, dia nak semua perfect so he cant accept if teacher told him off.. how ah to discipline camtu?}
Dats when PARENTS comes in play.
Its OUR duty to tell them the right from wrong...
dat boy is anak you.... Not the teacher's..
Please la... Teacher got other students to take care of!
I'll be very upset if Mika's teacher asyik2 kena discipline budak lain, @ the expense of Mika's learning time...
Budak lain sumer kena shortchanged...
Always remember :- Kids in general, are ATTENTION SEEKERS... Budak yg kurang kasih sayang Mak Bapak tend to act out & buat prangai, cos that's the only way they demand attention....
"Ouh, if i notty, den my parents would come & visit... Dey come to marah jer, Takperlah... janji get to spend time with them afterwards!"
got wat we mean?
Dats when PARENTS comes in play.
Its OUR duty to tell them the right from wrong...
dat boy is anak you.... Not the teacher's..
Please la... Teacher got other students to take care of!
I'll be very upset if Mika's teacher asyik2 kena discipline budak lain, @ the expense of Mika's learning time...
Budak lain sumer kena shortchanged...
Always remember :- Kids in general, are ATTENTION SEEKERS... Budak yg kurang kasih sayang Mak Bapak tend to act out & buat prangai, cos that's the only way they demand attention....
"Ouh, if i notty, den my parents would come & visit... Dey come to marah jer, Takperlah... janji get to spend time with them afterwards!"
got wat we mean?
{ kkdg i takut nak discipline my kids as they grow up.. coz entah cam im still not a perfect mum gitu.. }
Where got such thing as perfect mom?
Kita yg SAHM pun got their flaws, apa lagi FTWM...
{wenever i asked her azza anak sapa? she will say nyai & yai}
Sorry, but it was never her fault...
Which is the reason why, I always remind myself... PROPER P.L.A.N.N.I.N.G... is very important..
yes, Kita merancang, Allah menentukan... But it helps if we have PLAN B & always think of the WHAT IFs....
Where got such thing as perfect mom?
Kita yg SAHM pun got their flaws, apa lagi FTWM...
{wenever i asked her azza anak sapa? she will say nyai & yai}
Sorry, but it was never her fault...
Which is the reason why, I always remind myself... PROPER P.L.A.N.N.I.N.G... is very important..
yes, Kita merancang, Allah menentukan... But it helps if we have PLAN B & always think of the WHAT IFs....
<font color="119911">Slynn
sis i mmg tak suruh e teacher to discipline my son lah, mmg i terima if teacher tell him wats rite & wrong.. bt cuma he cant accept it pat ni i dont noe how to ajar dia.. coz since hes in school, he hv to flw cara teacher ajarkan bukan buat cara dia je.. i dont expect e teacher to discipline him je bt he has to flw instructions dats wat im trying to say lah </font>
sis i mmg tak suruh e teacher to discipline my son lah, mmg i terima if teacher tell him wats rite & wrong.. bt cuma he cant accept it pat ni i dont noe how to ajar dia.. coz since hes in school, he hv to flw cara teacher ajarkan bukan buat cara dia je.. i dont expect e teacher to discipline him je bt he has to flw instructions dats wat im trying to say lah </font>
Good Morning
Wow.. topic ni sampai burn midnite oil ah..
nshah
Its not that i do not want to give any input on the issue at hand
But i believe you are capable to identify the root cause of the problems
and also i think deep inside you already know the solution
its just whether you want to face up to it
Nobody's perfect.. if u are want to achieve perfection.. that's just an unattainable goal.
Don't let that be an excuse.
Wow.. topic ni sampai burn midnite oil ah..
nshah
Its not that i do not want to give any input on the issue at hand
But i believe you are capable to identify the root cause of the problems
and also i think deep inside you already know the solution
its just whether you want to face up to it
Nobody's perfect.. if u are want to achieve perfection.. that's just an unattainable goal.
Don't let that be an excuse.
"Ouh, if i notty, den my parents would come & visit... Dey come to marah jer, Takperlah... janji get to spend time with them afterwards!"
<font color="119911">yes i used to c this attitude b4 on him sblm school, asal dia notty nenek call me ill go there aft work.. & frequent gitu so yes we noe its he wants e attention</font>
<font color="119911">yes i used to c this attitude b4 on him sblm school, asal dia notty nenek call me ill go there aft work.. & frequent gitu so yes we noe its he wants e attention</font>
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morning NAw & lina
NAw
mmg true lah nobody perfect.. cuma i still lack of discplining them lah.. really not sure how coz as for my doter byk yg campur tgn from MIL, FIL & SIL.. as for my son my side so im stuck in btwn.. tak bleh sembarang tegur anak, or marah anak or discipline anak ada je yg ditegurnya
lina
happy bdae to ur doter dah berapa tahun? shes quite big kan?</font>
morning NAw & lina
NAw
mmg true lah nobody perfect.. cuma i still lack of discplining them lah.. really not sure how coz as for my doter byk yg campur tgn from MIL, FIL & SIL.. as for my son my side so im stuck in btwn.. tak bleh sembarang tegur anak, or marah anak or discipline anak ada je yg ditegurnya
lina
happy bdae to ur doter dah berapa tahun? shes quite big kan?</font>
<font color="119911">anyway ladies im minta maaf jelah if i post apa2 yg tak sepatutnya i post coz i really buntu kan pertolongan.. as im always left alone to decision of the kids..i guess like Slynn & NAw ckp smuanya in me lah.. guess i hv to find it on my own..
anyway thx yeah.. bt if ada links or books which i can refer too, can show me? thx
mana masalah my sis yg tgh naik ni, memeningkan me, my anak2 lain hal, sekolah dorang lain hal, my parents lain, inlaws lain.. im jus soo confused at times
so im sorry if ada yg menyinggung </font>
anyway thx yeah.. bt if ada links or books which i can refer too, can show me? thx
mana masalah my sis yg tgh naik ni, memeningkan me, my anak2 lain hal, sekolah dorang lain hal, my parents lain, inlaws lain.. im jus soo confused at times
Just sharing...
A relative, jaga cucu!
But her doter, sibuk sgt with werk, (Nenek dok JB, doter @ KL) asyik2 carik duit, carik project nie, project tu.... seminggu skali, sebulan skali baru jenguk budak... main2 den balik!
tak uruskan skool, welfare, makan minum... sumer campak kat nenek!
dipendekkan citer, after a few arguments, tengkah anak branak, my relative gi angkat sumpah, claiming to anak dia! so her doter takder hak nak amik budak tu balik!
and dat boy call his nenek apa? MAK!!
Nak ikut Mummy balik tak? He said, taknak! Mummy bukan mak! nak ngan Mak ajer!
A relative, jaga cucu!
But her doter, sibuk sgt with werk, (Nenek dok JB, doter @ KL) asyik2 carik duit, carik project nie, project tu.... seminggu skali, sebulan skali baru jenguk budak... main2 den balik!
tak uruskan skool, welfare, makan minum... sumer campak kat nenek!
dipendekkan citer, after a few arguments, tengkah anak branak, my relative gi angkat sumpah, claiming to anak dia! so her doter takder hak nak amik budak tu balik!
and dat boy call his nenek apa? MAK!!
Nak ikut Mummy balik tak? He said, taknak! Mummy bukan mak! nak ngan Mak ajer!