ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

Mira,

Just to share my feelings - since birth I will bathe Fayaa and feed her (sometimes her mum will do it) once I return from work.

Usually I will play with her and put her to sleep. Until now, whenever I am around she doesn't want the maid to do these things for her.


Furthermore we have never once just leave her with the maid even for a short period - i.e. we either bring her along anywhere or someone stays home.

Just my thoughts - different people think differently..
 


kak zainab
you're lucky coz there's always a family member who'll always be able to supervise fayaa. Also, fayaa is yr grandchild, and your children may not need as much attention as mira's teens.

It's good that you always have time for fayaa
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Not all mom/grandmoms are that lucky.
 
me back too...tadi pi nap nap lagi hehehehe....ngantuk sehh...

mira..

tanx dear, no need already cos im moving by this friday n everything planned...kekkekeke, my best friend's cousin using his company lorry to help...thank you for asking.

zu...

yummy, claypot rice mana kau dapat? aku kempunan nak makan tu tapi susah nak carik halalnya...last aku makan kat sakura but not nice lehhh...

pasal maid....ni i pindah umah my fren i also have to learn trusting the maid....haiz...pasal nak antar sarah skool at amk then will have to tinggalkan hilmi kejap...everytime think abt it my jantung dag dig dug~~~....the maid also quite new...nak bawak hilmi sekali kesian pasal he still sleeping then nak travel pagi banyak org....
 
mamaliz,
pat hilltop in teck whye ler.. ape plak nama dia. sini byk org tau. haha.. kempunan eh, pat geylang ade per.. tanjung katong bawah tu. pat situ pun not bad. rasa kerak2. tis one is somewat more healthier.
 
<font color="119911">zu
duh aku ingat itu hilltop pat mana je seh.. oh so its from dat sinaran stall? i tink majority of their food SEDAP seh..
sorry ah.. ku nari tak tau kenapa perut aku rosak agaknya.. dah berapa kali seh ni buang haiz..</font>
 
<font color="000000">ha..just had my lunch, Mee Soto..fuyoh..so hot nehh..

then mkn sliced mangga muda with plum sugar chilli powder, bought by hub last nite...sedap!!</font>
 
oic....sinaran...i think hub's cousin ada cakap pasal kedai tu...dekat ngan umah dia...dat time stay over the hse then they buy the nasi goreng...boleh tahan~
 
haha..
laki aku slalu refer it to as hilltop ler..
jgn2 kau pun food poisoning? :p

notty,
plum sugar cili powder tu ape?
ku kalo makan celup kicap cili padi w a bit of sugar! kalo makan buah kedondong pun sodap!! haha.. dulu kedai mamaslalu jual dlm satu botol! skrg susah nak carik...
 
<font color="119911">gal
sedapnya tu.. dah lama tak makan camtu seh.. or nenas pun sedap.. power.. sorry ur hub beli mangga dgn e cili kicap or cana eh?</font>
 
<font color="000000">Sori ku lambat coz tadi kat spree thread...

entah..salad mangga eh? hehehehe...

He called me asking if I want coz its nice...so this morning i bukak fridge..dlm plastic container tu ada sliced mangoes..with serbok in another packet..serbok dia ada gula, asam and cili...power.!!</font>
 
<font color="119911">gal
pat ne ur hub beli? bestnya.. dah lama tak makan camtu.. esp w/o e serbuk ah dulu at kampung selalu seh jolok, jolok, cuci, cecah syiokness</font>
 
afternoon semuer...wah mcm2 criter nari,..

hello dan,nshah,zu,liz,notty dan yg lain..

i nari abit stressla
,rizqi smlm mcm tak tdor nyenyak,about few mins asyek bgn nangis,sampai kul 7.30 ..i pun tak tdor coz kejap2 dier bgn n cry..n cry..
tercabar kesabaran me
at last hb jadi mangsa,hehe..kesian plak dier,slalu kena marah dgn i,kakaka,,apa blh bua dpt istri yg lebih muda standardla kena sabar lebih,kwang..kwang..kwang...
 
Cik Zainab,
Thanks for sharing. Normally at night I will put him to sleep. as for bathing and feeding, no much chances. In the morning, I rushing to work and morning the bathroom are too busy cos all my 4 children in morning class. After they all go to sch. I need to prepare my self to work cos I need to get out from home by 7.15am. Afterthat husband turn to use the bathroom and i don't understand why he will need to sit in side for at least half one hour. After work, I reach home at least 7pm if no overtime and no meet up for my cilents on my "sideline".
Normally, I will try to do it on weekend only.
 
Zu,
Hilltop(at blk 26 teck whye)...hahaha...your husband give a "good name".
Last time there is a "Hilltop" resturant near to the birdpark. really have to drive up the hill seh. Now not sure still have or not. I think no more liao.
 
<font color="000000">Mira
I tak kira, main ngap masuk mulut...byk jgk lah the transparent container u know..potong2 panjang agak2 1 biji mangga (manis)...</font>
 
yah yah!! seblom makan suruh exercise so da naik atas order byk, boss tersenyum. kalo tak muka dia v blackish takde biz!! hahaha...
 
haha.. kau sama mcm laki aku...
dia kata q da panjang2 takkan nk oredr $3 ajer!
cfm satu plate mesti abt $5!
then bole tapao lagi ar!! hantu makan siak dia!
 
zu,dier mmg demam on sunday,but smlm da kurang bdn da tak panas,mmg pun gigi dier byk tgh grow at 1 shot,mungkin jugak pasal tu dier asyek merengek je...i pun da tak tau nak buat ape?
 
Anyone look for job...work as a HR/Admin....age early-mid 20 work at Science Park, Japanese trading Co. little or no experience also can.
 
biasa lah shash, budak2 kalo teething gitu. nasib baik one shot grow so skali merengek.. heh
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sarah pun gitu.. dat time kene fever smp mengigil!! within 3 days okie la tu.. tapi nanti mesti kuar rashes.. dat one is normal.
 
zu,
huh rashes?patne eh,muka ke bdn,?tulah...i cuma confuse tak tau apa nak buat,try to confort him mcm2 i buat,at times ok,ada masa tak jalan pun....wat u do eh at dat time
 
Mira,
if i want to enjoy my food, i must go after work.
D-A-T-I-N-G...
Hubby prefer Clementi, coz near my ofis in PG. and he from town, got direct bus
 

Shash,
doc told me, if rashes breakout after fever, means GOOOOD... coz he's recovering.
and rashes tu coz his panas kluar...
if banyak sangat, doc just kasi calamine lotion.
 

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