ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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<font color="ff6000">Nora / Cik Nab,
I'm planning since last night. Nak discuss dgn Hub, he's nt in so...it's been playing in my mind eversince. Tot of hiring in Oct/Nov 09 and mom has agreed to let her stay for 1-2 mths for some lookout guidance. On another hand, I'll b busy finding schools which I do not want the maid to be lost of her directions etc. Ingt nk langsungkan Harith kat PCF which is across the road tapi tgklah keadaan. Nw PCF dah buat opening for 2010 registration. So early...
To find a good maid mmng susah. I hope I'll gt a maid with less problems.</font>
I'm planning since last night. Nak discuss dgn Hub, he's nt in so...it's been playing in my mind eversince. Tot of hiring in Oct/Nov 09 and mom has agreed to let her stay for 1-2 mths for some lookout guidance. On another hand, I'll b busy finding schools which I do not want the maid to be lost of her directions etc. Ingt nk langsungkan Harith kat PCF which is across the road tapi tgklah keadaan. Nw PCF dah buat opening for 2010 registration. So early...
To find a good maid mmng susah. I hope I'll gt a maid with less problems.</font>
<font color="aa00aa">mira,
aiyoh...so paiseh..
nevermind will collect from u once this wedding is over by this weekend.
no hurry k
san,
just read about your dilemma.
living on your own may be quite hard in the beginning but can be good in some ways too.
look on the bright side of it ok!</font>
aiyoh...so paiseh..
nevermind will collect from u once this wedding is over by this weekend.
no hurry k
san,
just read about your dilemma.
living on your own may be quite hard in the beginning but can be good in some ways too.
look on the bright side of it ok!</font>
<font color="119911">morning smua
smlm i was on child care leave, ifan semput lagi.. im soo tired ah of his sickness haiz.. entah bila nak clear pun tak tau..
im such a failure mama..
my perut bisa ah.. sudd morning ada show of blood as in i tink menses kot? coz i missed mine last mth n nak tanya bidadari supp to stop a wk b4 menses eh? i totally tak tau my menses cana skg very haywire.. thus i ate bidadari malam fri, sun & mon so skg perut i bisa amat.. napa eh? bukan sengugut tau.. bt bisa sblh kiri
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smlm i was on child care leave, ifan semput lagi.. im soo tired ah of his sickness haiz.. entah bila nak clear pun tak tau..
my perut bisa ah.. sudd morning ada show of blood as in i tink menses kot? coz i missed mine last mth n nak tanya bidadari supp to stop a wk b4 menses eh? i totally tak tau my menses cana skg very haywire.. thus i ate bidadari malam fri, sun & mon so skg perut i bisa amat.. napa eh? bukan sengugut tau.. bt bisa sblh kiri
Morning nshah
bidadari tu just dun makan during menses jer
so far me takde problem makan bidadari
maybe u shd see doctor to check up nape cam gitu
Anyway i admit dulu i memang, bukan cakap hot-tempered la, tapi highly irritable and very grouchy
Kesian my hb asik kena marah, he punyer la sabar orang yer.. ish..jahat aku ni
I have mellowed la eversince i left my old office
thats why 2 yrs back they asked me to join them, and i was tempted but my hb cakap jangan lah.
bidadari tu just dun makan during menses jer
so far me takde problem makan bidadari
maybe u shd see doctor to check up nape cam gitu
Anyway i admit dulu i memang, bukan cakap hot-tempered la, tapi highly irritable and very grouchy
Kesian my hb asik kena marah, he punyer la sabar orang yer.. ish..jahat aku ni
I have mellowed la eversince i left my old office
thats why 2 yrs back they asked me to join them, and i was tempted but my hb cakap jangan lah.
nora,
could it be bec of your position in the ofis, or memang by nature u short circuit?
for me, its a bit of both.
my husband oso banyak sabar. and at times, very tak kuasa! but it really get on his nerves. affected my marriage tau...
i pun baru 2,3 years nie, start mellow down...
could it be bec of your position in the ofis, or memang by nature u short circuit?
for me, its a bit of both.
my husband oso banyak sabar. and at times, very tak kuasa! but it really get on his nerves. affected my marriage tau...
i pun baru 2,3 years nie, start mellow down...
shahlynn
i also think i both lah, memang nature dah bengis
then time keje situ stress banget, even my weight cam yoyo..
So left that job i relax a few mths.
Recently time pi Pulai tu i even congratulated myself for not losing my temper
selalu yer i will be irritated kalau hb or mum dun ikut my schdeule, i very high strung u know..
esp time driving tu dgn nak tengok signboard then all the commentaries in the car.. ish.. mencabar
but during the trip tu i made concious effort to be patient.. take it easy... a lot of effort neh..
i also think i both lah, memang nature dah bengis
then time keje situ stress banget, even my weight cam yoyo..
So left that job i relax a few mths.
Recently time pi Pulai tu i even congratulated myself for not losing my temper
selalu yer i will be irritated kalau hb or mum dun ikut my schdeule, i very high strung u know..
esp time driving tu dgn nak tengok signboard then all the commentaries in the car.. ish.. mencabar
but during the trip tu i made concious effort to be patient.. take it easy... a lot of effort neh..
<font color="119911">dan
kot urs lain plak.. ke u stress tak? sbb tu lambat?
NAw
hmm nampaknya camtu lah kena pi doc lagi, smlm anak nari mak plak.. since u all tak da pape, ill go doc later to check.. thx.. if really unbearable will go to e nearest clinic during lunch..
san
thx for asking can c hes btr now.. tadi pagi & smlm aft seeing doc he pooed alot.. esp this mornign cian dia tak tahan sgt nak berak sampai ckp sakit2 rupanya hes trying hard to not berak dlm suar... masuk je umah my mum lintang pukang dia.. n really alot n complained sakit bt i really hope its from e medicine to kuarkan lendir dia.. yg cian pat his batuk wen it becomes too tight for him.. & also his short of breathing..</font>
kot urs lain plak.. ke u stress tak? sbb tu lambat?
NAw
hmm nampaknya camtu lah kena pi doc lagi, smlm anak nari mak plak.. since u all tak da pape, ill go doc later to check.. thx.. if really unbearable will go to e nearest clinic during lunch..
san
thx for asking can c hes btr now.. tadi pagi & smlm aft seeing doc he pooed alot.. esp this mornign cian dia tak tahan sgt nak berak sampai ckp sakit2 rupanya hes trying hard to not berak dlm suar... masuk je umah my mum lintang pukang dia.. n really alot n complained sakit bt i really hope its from e medicine to kuarkan lendir dia.. yg cian pat his batuk wen it becomes too tight for him.. & also his short of breathing..</font>
hahha..
nora, i can relate!
i got very high expectations noe!
i want things done my way, coz I Soooo perfect!
*memang carik kebencian orang kan?*
paling pantang when ppl tak follow my instructions!
but now dah kawen, dah tinggal sendiri kan....
dah mellow banyak, and very laid back...
sometimes i ask hubby, "where's the Old me? I miss the Old me!"
hey, i almost lost my marriage ah!
nora, i can relate!
i got very high expectations noe!
i want things done my way, coz I Soooo perfect!
*memang carik kebencian orang kan?*
paling pantang when ppl tak follow my instructions!
but now dah kawen, dah tinggal sendiri kan....
dah mellow banyak, and very laid back...
sometimes i ask hubby, "where's the Old me? I miss the Old me!"
hey, i almost lost my marriage ah!
San,
My BB sleep in my room. I do spent time with the BB. but sometime he still look for the maid.
Shahlynn,
sometime I stop the BB to go to the maid and I will bring the BB go to shop with my husband. But sometime I need to spent sometime with the elder one. To me, my 16,13,12 years old is equal crucial. one taking O level, one taking PSLE, most worry is the one just enter Sec one...worry she will have bad gang of friends...worry they have boyfriend. and My elder son also give me some problem in last few weeks.
My BB sleep in my room. I do spent time with the BB. but sometime he still look for the maid.
Shahlynn,
sometime I stop the BB to go to the maid and I will bring the BB go to shop with my husband. But sometime I need to spent sometime with the elder one. To me, my 16,13,12 years old is equal crucial. one taking O level, one taking PSLE, most worry is the one just enter Sec one...worry she will have bad gang of friends...worry they have boyfriend. and My elder son also give me some problem in last few weeks.
<font color="119911">lynn
as ive mentioned hes btr now smlm pun kurang skit batuk dia cuma he slept earlier at 8pm thus by 9-10 dah start batuk coz lum makan ubat malam.. bt aft he got his medicines & puff hes much btr..
taklah i tak selalu sakit yut ah selalu sakit pala, bt this attack cam too sudden seh tak pernah kena camni.. ill go doc later ok.. thx
p/s: dat dae tg taxi ghairah je hehe nak tegur u tp our car kedepan thus tak dpt nak kacau</font>
as ive mentioned hes btr now smlm pun kurang skit batuk dia cuma he slept earlier at 8pm thus by 9-10 dah start batuk coz lum makan ubat malam.. bt aft he got his medicines & puff hes much btr..
taklah i tak selalu sakit yut ah selalu sakit pala, bt this attack cam too sudden seh tak pernah kena camni.. ill go doc later ok.. thx
p/s: dat dae tg taxi ghairah je hehe nak tegur u tp our car kedepan thus tak dpt nak kacau</font>
smalldreams
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Nshah
So camner ni, Irfan sapa jaga hari ni? Budak2 semput kesian eh. Hope he gets well soon. U take care too!
Mira
I can't imagine how you feel, but that's a fear I have too if I ever have a maid. No choice, although u need to care for the older ones, you also need to make equal time for the baby. Coz the maid won't be there forever, and attachment at this age is very important.
Nora, Shahlynn
Sama lah, I pon short-circuit jugak. Asik ada aje nak grouchy & complain! But I've learnt to lower my expectations, and also learn to appreciate all the good things hub has done for me. He has his shortcomings, so do I, and we are a reflection of one another. Little imperfections in marriage that make us perfect lah katakan...hur hur hur..
So camner ni, Irfan sapa jaga hari ni? Budak2 semput kesian eh. Hope he gets well soon. U take care too!
Mira
I can't imagine how you feel, but that's a fear I have too if I ever have a maid. No choice, although u need to care for the older ones, you also need to make equal time for the baby. Coz the maid won't be there forever, and attachment at this age is very important.
Nora, Shahlynn
Sama lah, I pon short-circuit jugak. Asik ada aje nak grouchy & complain! But I've learnt to lower my expectations, and also learn to appreciate all the good things hub has done for me. He has his shortcomings, so do I, and we are a reflection of one another. Little imperfections in marriage that make us perfect lah katakan...hur hur hur..
smalldreams...
yes yes yes...
i treasure him more den ever now... my heart & soul.
i pun no longer as 'perfect' as before... so time to lower my expectations..
*start feeling horny plak*
mira,
i understand how u feeling. not easy on a ftwm, huh! dun worie la, mira.. have faith & be patience
yes yes yes...
i treasure him more den ever now... my heart & soul.
i pun no longer as 'perfect' as before... so time to lower my expectations..
*start feeling horny plak*
mira,
i understand how u feeling. not easy on a ftwm, huh! dun worie la, mira.. have faith & be patience
smalldreams
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san
BB mahal ler. And i'm not a gadget person. I'd rather get a KS bag...hehe...
Shahlynn
Aik, gitu pon leh horny? tsk. gi main jauh2...hehe..
BB mahal ler. And i'm not a gadget person. I'd rather get a KS bag...hehe...
Shahlynn
Aik, gitu pon leh horny? tsk. gi main jauh2...hehe..
<font color="119911">smalldreams
skg yg jaga is my mum lah.. entah dia dah bangun ke blum.. will call him soon coz tadi i dah bersihkan dia aft he berak, mandikan dia, kasi ubat & ask him to sleep coz if he dont sleep he dont let me go work.. skg every wk camtu so nak teman dia aku yg NGOROK dulu then wen he dah tido ah baru i sedar by e time dah lambat hehe.. so start panicked ah.. </font>
skg yg jaga is my mum lah.. entah dia dah bangun ke blum.. will call him soon coz tadi i dah bersihkan dia aft he berak, mandikan dia, kasi ubat & ask him to sleep coz if he dont sleep he dont let me go work.. skg every wk camtu so nak teman dia aku yg NGOROK dulu then wen he dah tido ah baru i sedar by e time dah lambat hehe.. so start panicked ah.. </font>
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WEC Marsiling will be organising a city tour on the
Date : 21st June 2009 (Sunday)
Time : 3.30pm to 8.30pmRate : $44 for Passion members and $46 for non members (Rate will be the same for children above 3 and senior citizen)Limited Seats : 90 pax only EXCLUDING 3 infants below 3 years old Tour include Singapore Flyer (normal price ($29.90), Singapore Ducktour on land and sea (normal price ($33.00) and a 7 course Halal dinner at Kampong Chai Chee Halal Restaurant.Transport will be provided and pick up and return point will be at Marsiling CC. As this is open to public, it will be based on first come first basis.
WEC Marsiling will be organising a city tour on the
Date : 21st June 2009 (Sunday)
Time : 3.30pm to 8.30pmRate : $44 for Passion members and $46 for non members (Rate will be the same for children above 3 and senior citizen)Limited Seats : 90 pax only EXCLUDING 3 infants below 3 years old Tour include Singapore Flyer (normal price ($29.90), Singapore Ducktour on land and sea (normal price ($33.00) and a 7 course Halal dinner at Kampong Chai Chee Halal Restaurant.Transport will be provided and pick up and return point will be at Marsiling CC. As this is open to public, it will be based on first come first basis.
smalldreams
Active Member
nshah
U mean irfan sleeps again after getting up in the mornings before you go work? ke only like that bila dia sakit? kesiannya, must be feeling weak.
san
unfortunately bags can never be investments. They are a liability, haha - coz their prices can never go up once the bags leave the shops
U mean irfan sleeps again after getting up in the mornings before you go work? ke only like that bila dia sakit? kesiannya, must be feeling weak.
san
unfortunately bags can never be investments. They are a liability, haha - coz their prices can never go up once the bags leave the shops
<font color="119911">smalldreams
usually he will sleep back b4 i go work apa taknya we will kuar rumah gelap gelita at 6am u.. so thus he will still feel sleepy kan so ill ask him to sleep again before waking up for his 1pm school..
like that he wont kacau my mum, my bro, my dad & tak plak pening nanti pala tak leh go school hehe.. bt every time he semput kan my dad selalu marah me salahkan ckp i tak tau jaga dia..n he marah if hes on his puff.. padahal dah doc instruct seh suruh kasi at least 2wks.. sbb jarang kasi once it triggers lah senang for it to reoccur stress seh me..
coz dats a preventor/ reliever eh? ku pun lupa its seretide.. for him.. </font>
usually he will sleep back b4 i go work apa taknya we will kuar rumah gelap gelita at 6am u.. so thus he will still feel sleepy kan so ill ask him to sleep again before waking up for his 1pm school..
smalldreams
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nshah
ohhh padan lah dia tido balik. Sometimes i kesian dgn anak2 kita, terpaksa ikut skedule kita eh...
ohhh padan lah dia tido balik. Sometimes i kesian dgn anak2 kita, terpaksa ikut skedule kita eh...