ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

Nottygal, oh kebas kebas.. hehehe.. So cute lah your 3rd son.

Masa my last sis masih kecik pun dia ckp nak jadi cashier.. kita ketawa gelihati seh.. hahaha.. Now, she is in Poly and and working part-time as Barista (Coffeebean).. suka kau dia, dapat handle the cash register..
 


ti...

dah memang pon aku ni desperate housewife...kakakakaka...droool jgn tak drool...go listen their song...veri nice~ aku nak tido malam mesti dgr baru leh sleep...kesian laki aku ...menyampah dia tgk muka diorang, kakakakaka

pasal compare ni semua i taK AMIK KISAH LAGI...PASAL DAH LALUI TERLEBIH DAHULU WIF SARAH....biarlah apa org nak cakap...i cuma "Iye ke??? ehhh?" dah pastu jeling ajerrr...kakakakak
 
<font color="ff6000">Sesiapa yg bole beri saya pandangan...

Kalau nk pilih maid, what should we ask before deciding?</font>
 
San, sorry no input on the maid.. i pun tak tahu pasal maid nie sumer.. Nottygal/Naqi/ Nora Aw / cik Zainab and yg lain pandai... they got more advise.
 
Wati

I'm fine thk u... ya... i noe... tapi bila dia ckp kita ni tk syg anak... issshhh.... makin terguris hati beta... I syg sgt noh kat Shadiyah..
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**CHILD COMPARING**

ni pun i tk suka... org lain tk leh compare anak kita.. aku compare tk pe! kekekeke... My mum luv to compare me &amp; my cousins since young... I felt like she look dwn on me.. tk appreciate my efforts when i had oredi done my best for the subjects...

dulu she compare me to my cousin.. Express... i ni cuma Normal Acad... she said tis cousin of mine blajar sampai pagi! Her mum wanna her go poly.. end up she didnt... tk bilang kita pun her O level results... Since tt day, her mum &amp; ibu gt nth to say...

I don do well for my O-level.. but I did better than her... hahahaha... blajar sampai pagi pun doesnt mean u will do well aper..

The conclusion.. Mum shld noe her child abilities... of course we want the best for them.. but jgn la stres kan sgt bdk tu... appreciate their effort... give encourangement... jgn nk marah jer... bila nk compare tu.. jgn la make it sounds as it the other party is so great n u look dwn/ashame of ur child performance.. (opps...dari pengalaman sendiri masa kecik2 dulu.. )
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<font color="000000">San
Banyak sgt my requirements, I am not an easy person to live with.

But at the end of the day bila maid dah mula kerja ngan kita, citer nya dah jad lain…it depends on your luck…</font>
 
San
u can start with listing down all the responsibilities for the maid eg. jage 2 boys aged xx and xx, kemas rumah, masak etc

u can ask the maid time interview if she sanggup to do all this, this is very impt
jgn dah sampai sini then cakap tak larat nak jage budak
u can also give them scenario situation, eg, kalau she tengah kat dapur masak airm then budak nangis, wht shd she do

Time interview make sure she understand u cakap ape
and u can understand she cakap ape
bec i dah pernah kena, maid come here, then tak boleh communicate bec pekat sangat percakapan dia

TAPI ni smuer tak gerenti she will be a good maid
 
I just got a call from my doctor. My blood test is out.. and i have very high cholestrol!! I went to do blood test bcos i was complaing about heart problems tau.. So ladies, if any of you ada heart pain, please dun ignore..

So sad to say, i can't join you all for ARNOLDS. I got to go on a very strict diet... I got to take serious medication cos my cholestrol level is 250 !!!
 
<font color="ff6000">Dan / Notty / Nora,
I need to make myself prepared sekiranya hub wana proceed with all.
I hope my elder bro will find a rented plc soon. By mid may, I'll be starting school. Cant afford to face all these at one go.

Mmng betul, having a maid nie...bukan senang. Mcm gamble. Kalau dpt yg baik + reliable, alhmdllh...kalau tk, nasib badan...haiz!</font>
 
<font color="000000">Wati,

so serious…u better control ur diet…kalau u free, just come down to join them…it would be no fun without u around…</font>
 
kak nora... u tink take CAT or diploma in accounting better for graduates frm higher nitec in accounting? wats the difference for both cert?
 
<font color="000000">San
sorry eh sis...if I cant be of much help here...

but, I wld support ur decision in hiring a helper rather that hoping for ur bro to move out..U going back to school or not, that is another story.., somehow u will definitely pull this thru, trust me..i went it thru many2 times every 2 years, and everytime nak tukar maid ada je masalah lain yg come together...but Alhamdullilah, HE is there to guide me..
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<font color="119911">wati
gd u got e guts to check girl.. asl if me kan ill tangguh2 till tak tahan then will go..
so dat dae dpt itu nasi ayam?
jus ctrl ur food insyallah.. bt u r not on medications r u? coz my hub &amp; MIL is on 1 now.. pagi &amp; malam kena makan to stabilise their chol level..

oh yeah i did e test!!! n im not preggy so syukur... ilang satu worry</font>
 
<font color="ff6000">Notty,
It's ok. I jus wana noe hw to go abt etc.
I noe it's hard thou...
Thank u all for being there to gv me some guidance.

Btw, mom jus called me. Been koling + sms'g my dad tapi tk reply. My mom worried. I asked her -- "Salah kan siapa skrng?"
She kept quiet and cried. Dia berbelah bagi cos kesiankan anak tapi at e same time, nk jaga my dad due to his heart prob...*sigh*

Confirm arini my dad tk nk drive cab...</font>
 
<font color="000000">San
no prob, hun!

kesian eh ur mum...she is sandwiched...slalu, mak yg rasa tertekan...help her San, bring joy to her life...</font>
 
Friends... Sigh* So worried now cos the reason i pergi check sebab i've been having heart pain.. there was one time when i terjaga time malam cos sakit dada... seram seh.. i cried cos i takut mati cos I belum puas watching my daughter grow up.

So, let me miss this time outing ok friends.. Kalau tak aku tempted lah nak makan ayam.. Ibarat orang berpuasa plak... Korang syiok makan, aku tukang tgk jer.. Lain kali ok...please support me.

Cos now my weight is 103kg.. my target weight is 60kg.. korang bayangkan braper byk aku nak kena lose.. The thing is bila dulu tak nak prevent, now dah kena baru mencacah carik cara nak turunkan cholestrol.
 
Wati
good lah u dah nak tukar ur habits
of cos we support u, i believe doc will kasi ubat

my coliq a guy selalu pi gym badam slim jer but got high chol, more bec genetic

makan ubat hari hari for 6 mths and betol betol jage makan, then doc gave him the clearance to stop makan ubat

Insya'Allah u will overcome this.
 
<font color="119911">wati
insyallah darling demi utk maya &amp; ur hub im sure u can loose mmg makan masa bt buat exercise pun agak2 ok dont over do it.. so if ada plans nak join apa2 class sms me ah we can go tog..
coz i also nak loose lah, my weight gain pun sebyk cam urs abt 35-45kg seh naik.. melampau.. lagi ku ni cute..</font>
 
<font color="ff6000">Notty,
She's a happy woman when my bro's nt in e hse and always tot he'll change for gd after marriage. Tak sangka, he got a 3rd party and ignored his kids and wife. Nafkah smua tk beri. I did share with u guys abt them eating nasi/bubur with salt kan? See that...

I hate him for these kinda thng cos dia tahu nk melawa + mkn sedap2 tapi anak bini?
At last jatuhkan talak 3 depan pompuan yg dia nk kawin sgt tu...how cruel!


Even aft he complained, I ada bedset etc tapi dia tkde...my dad keluarkan some of his saving to buy him a complete set tapi tetap sama perangai...itupun tk bersyukur...

When thgs hpnd like nw, why all the blames on us?
Lagi2 my sister yg tk bersalah...</font>
 
Sri
i dah lost touch of how the education syatem works

in my opinion, if u qualify to take diploma and got the time and will put in the effort,
take diploma now.. why take the cert? cut down one step.
 
<font color="000000">OK lah...next plan takmo mamam lah, asyik mencekik aje..LOL!!

Plan lah gi workout ramai2...gym ke? mcm betol aje..kekekeke..

wanna go eat first hor...</font>
 
<font color="ff6000">Nora,

Susahlah...
My mom suro I kip koling my dad bt i dunwan cos hati I sakit semenjak tadi pagi and this bro of mine, so pandai!
Nak lari dari kesalahan, he went out early moning b4 7am! Pffft!

And since the bedset nw is in one of e room, he slept on it jus like his own room. Apa lagi, my dad kejutkan my sis knapa tk tdo bilik sebelah bt to slp with my mom...terkejut plak budak tu pagi2 kena tny tis and dat...at last, kena marah gak...</font>
 
nora aw

thks for the advice... my fren yg nk sambung... nt sure if she qualify for diploma cz after graduates, her application all fail.. For me, NYP only offer me Banking &amp; Financial Services... I continue nxt yr jer... For nw nt ready.. ngah ambil BTT.. concentrate on one 1st... I cant multi task la &amp; need to save $ first...heeee...
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Thanks for the encouragement kengkawan...Hmm.. maybe i panic too much.. I will go down see doctor soon to take the medication. Doctor want to put me on course to lower the cholestrol.

Friday, Insyaallah i will join you guys. Will eat coleslaw + bun + 2 pcs of chicken + mineral water.. hehehehe...so for the next 4 days, i will eat veggies only..
 
Psst babes, just saw my name in the Arnolds list. I can't go la coz I only get out of work at ard 7.00. Bila masa nak sampai Arnolds. My name was there in case it was the 22nd March date, time sch hols. You girls have fun. Now tengah Monday blues pasal penat sehari di Sentosa smlm.
 
wati...

cheer up yo! dont panic...aku lebih panic nanti...cholesterol bukan pasal weight ajer eh...i punya cholesterol very good...kekekeke...baru jugak doc check dat time..but of cos nak drop weight jgak lerr

thin people also got high cholesterol level...like my bro, he kena high blood also...i pulak low blood....

ps: coleslaw very high tau, i dulu ingat ok pasal veggie skali kwang kwang kwang...all that mayo~...nak makan bole makan tapi kena moderate...maybe kita can kikis the skin n eat the meat, drink plain/mineral water or fruit juice? no buns? no fries?

next time we all go picnic?
 
agree wit mamaliz... like my sis... masa preg gt high blood pressure on off...why?? cz syik nk marah2 jer tk tentu pasal... lol...
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@@@@@@ LETS DO A GROUP DIET @@@@@@

YANG NEED TO LOSE THE BABATZ RAMAI RAMAI BUAT NAK TAK? KITA KENA LIST WAT WE EAT/EATING FOR THE DAY AND SUPPORT EACH OTHER! UMUR DAH GINI I TAKUT JUGAK KALAU TAK TURUN TURUN. WE CAN SHARE TIPS OR EVEN ENCOURAGE ONE ANOTHER TO KEEP GOING!!
 
<font color="119911">liz
bagus gak cadangan mu..

today morning i had 1 epok2 telur+ 2 jemput2 pisang, baru je habis lontong tp ku setakat makan the bagedil, telur, tahu &amp; 1/2 of 41/2pcs of lontong.. air sprite.</font>
 
This is my menu for today :

Breakfast - Chicken Sandwich

Lunch - 2 slices of plain bread + Boiled Baby potatoes + 6 pcs of popcorn chicken + 1 bowl of Caesar Salad + Green Tea.

Have anybody heard of Acai Berry Juice... I nak try sebab this is the latest healthiest method to lose weight. Oprah swear on this juice. Our hospitals pun carry this. Quite ex. 1 bottle is about $65. Can last abt 2 weeks jer. buy 4 bottles for $220 with free delivery.
 
<font color="119911">wati
yup i did heard abt it.. tulah cam nak try.. bt i tak tau local where can get? which hospital u nampak? wow $65 not cheap seh.. so 1 mth wld be $130? oh yeah aru habis makan banana
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since ada fruits from mon- wed</font>
 
Wati tak pernah dengar pulak, nanti ku google


Today i had
Breakfas
2 epok epok sayur for breakfast
i cup of tea

Lunch
1 epok epok sayur (leftovers)
half carton of marigold soyabean milk with pomegranate

Tengah takde mood, mate masih gatal and banyak keje.. ish
And i am pondering abt the job offer still... haiz. Pikiran.
 
<font color="ff0000">Healthy Life in the mood semua....bagus2

Me tadi bfast had peanut pancak &amp; coffee
Lunch tadi 2 slice of bread, minum belum lagi
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Dah ngantuk nie

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i dah carik.. you type Acai Berry juice.. it works. Even Oprah recommend it. The local NHG ada jual. I have the contact.
 

Wow Nora... best eh kena headhunted.. hehehe

Dulu Suhaimi Yusoff offered me to work for him.. tapi i ponder and ponder.. then i decided not to lah. Working for them is fun but timing tak gerek.
 
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