Nshah, Nora,
for my mom's side, usually kita immediate family, dapat special... DAT IS, if you balik last2 la... if we balik awal, understand la... tuan rumah nak dahulukan guests dulu...
and if ada kueh2 yg kita berkenan, mintak ajer skit.. no offence.
and if food masih banyak, pandai2 lah tapao sendiri. mana nak kurang, mana nak lebih...